Sometime back there was a link to a site that discussed all the "ins & outs" of providers who squirt. I searched for it, but came up zero. Does anyone have that link? As I recall, Sensual Char or Sedona of SanDiego made reference to it. I would like to pass it on to a local provider who is just getting into that part of her sexuality. Thanks

Sorry don't know the post i do remember it. I am a squirter and tell her to enjoy and have fun. sassy

All over Belladonna's breasts, it just shoots out everywhere...three times! Very inspirational stuff. I give it two thumbed clits straight up.

Incredible, She more than squirts, She Sprays. The second time is Classic. She sprays all over Belladonna and the camera.

Half the time I am dining at the Y when she gets off, and well getting a mouthfull isn't terribly pleasent.

I think if we like CIM, then we have to be ready for theirs....

BTW-  the best for me is when a woman who doesn't usually squirt- DOES!  Like getting a trophy!

Well one way you expect it coming.......the other is like a bladder movement....... And I have had women have such a powerful orgasm that has happened.  so maybe I never had a real sqirter and maybe I did.....not so sure.

Please do not take this the wrong way but maybe you need to find some different (sweet tasting) ladies.

"I love the taste of pussy juice in the morning"...and the afternoon, and the evening, and at night!!!

Ok I stole the quote and changed it a bit...however it is
GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD to the last drop.

WOW sassy
Hi pretty lady,
you gotta tour Jersey.
If not i gotta find a way to get to Florida!!!

A DVD with Squiters on it, it seems as though the  Seymour Butts video Squirters is only available on VHS.
Who knows of some other good ones?

Well the balls aren't what got soaked. More like the tonsils.

I'd love a face wash from that girl in the Belladonna DVD.Just like she got.I mean that has to be more fun than standing at the splash point in some water theeme park.

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Try these links:

The photos may not be accessable as they are on the secure msn groups.

http://groups.msn.com/femaleejaculation


http://www.libchrist.com/sexed/Gspot.html -

http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm -

http://www8.tripnet.se/~eidos/femaleejaculation/biological,html -

http://www.umkc.edu/sites/hsw/femejac/index.html -

http://www.davidshade.com

What works for me? Mainly, clitoral stimulation. The tip of a tongue flicked rapidly over my clitoris is guaranteed to induce paroxisms of ecstasy! Or a fingertip! But seriously, if you want to know what gives a good climax/orgasm, then start by being "in the mood"! Sounds simple  but how often have you got down to a bit of sex when you've got something else on your mind?!
Try relaxing in a hot bath with a good erotic novel. Or, for the more adventurous, you could try going pantyless! I can recomend this! A long (knee length or longer)skirt, a pair of hold-ups (you know, the stockings that don't require a suspender belt!) and a trip to the shops/restaurant/nightclub with hubby or boyfriend, guaranteed to get us both in the mood!
After that, go to the toilet & empty your bladder,then put a towell on the bed/couch & get down to some foreplay. Get him to pay attention to all the usual eroginous zones(ears, nipples, anus, perineum & labia) first. Keep the clitoris till last. The longer you delay it, the more aroused you become. Then when you're ready, get him to pay attention to your love-bud! Rubbing is great but a gentle flicking action with tongue or fingertip is much more likely to bring on a climax. As the sensation starts to build up, you will feel the urge to bear down. This is the start of your climax.
Now, if you (& your partner) are very lucky, you could feel the urge to pee! If you went to the toilet before starting, you'll know you've got an empty bladder. This is where you take that leap of faith! Go with the flow. Don't hold back! At the very least you'll experience a wonderful climax, but some of us ejaculate!
It isn't urine! The fluid that comes out (sometimes it spurts out other times it just trickles out) is a clear, odourless fluid produced by the para-urethral glands. It leaves the body via the urethra, so may contain traces of urine, but rest assured, it is not pee!
Personally, I can ejaculate 3,4 or even 5 times in a session. Each climax gets more intense until I feel the urge to go for the final ORGASM. For this, I usually take controll. I like to use a finger or more usually, my trusty old vibro-massager. The big difference is, once I have my orgasm, my genitals become a no go area! I'm far too sensitive down there to want anything to come into contact with it.
This is what works for me,another member has a different approach,as she usually comes through Gspot stimulation. I have been known to come through that route too, but as it is her speciallity, I'll let her describe her technique.

What works for me....member 2

For me G-spot stimulation is the only way I have ejaculated - so far never from clitoral stimulation alone.

We had a few experiences with female ejaculation (small amounts) early on in our relationship but didnt pursue it at that time.

About 5 years ago J was keen to investigate further so he found all the info he could and set about trying to make it happen. We started experimented with g-spot stimulation using J's finger in a 'come here' motion on upper wall of vagina just inside. The first few times it felt good but no squirts but you could tell that we were on the right track. The critical thing is that you will get the feeling that you need to pee, this means that ejaculation is likely to happen so it is important not to try and resist that urge, if you relax into the sensations and just let things take their natural course then you should ejaculate. Knowing what to expect is a big help as well as an enthusiastic partner. It took several tries before we were able to make it happen but it was getting closer each time. We were quite suprised with the amount and intensity of the ejaculation when it occurred..

I can now squirt virtually whenever I want although only from g-spot stimulation. I find with more experience achieving ejaculation gets easier and easier. I can squirt from either finger play or during intercourse with penis on g-spot in several positions.

The intensity and duration depends on the method.
Finger on g-spot gives the most forceful squirts and they can be of long duration also the orgasmic contractions with this method can be extremely intense and powerful - almost able to force out finger or dildo. There is a picture in the Photo section.

The squirts with intercourse are generally less forceful (probably just that a finger can apply pressure more accurately) although still of long duration. Positions with me on top or underneath with shallow entry of penis work best. Generally the fluid seems to come in gushing flows with this method but sometimes can be quite a squirt.

With both methods we can keep going as long as we like depending on the mood with repeated orgasms and squirts - typically 10 or more orgasms/squirts in a session and this can last for 30-60 mins if we want with the orgasms building, peaking, subsiding then building again, on and on but the intensity gets exhausting eventually. However it is intensely satisfying.

Another good/interesting thing is that g-spot orgasms start easily compared to clitoral orgasms. It could take sometimes 10-20mins of stimulation for me to orgasm from clitoral stimulation and that was it for the session (clit too sensitive)whereas with g-spot the orgasms/squirts can begin after only a couple of minutes and keep on going! wave after wave.

Interestingly since the more frequent g-spot stimulation and ejaculations now clitoral orgasms seem to get easier to achieve.

I hope this is of use to anyone looking to make it happen in their relationship, any questions just ask.

Member' Story 3

I have discovered FE relatively late in life and do regret all the wasted years! I have never generally achieved orgasm by intercourse let alone FE...oral was my only route to orgasm at one time.

My first taste of FE was as a follow on from intercourse and came as a result of some lengthy and rapid pumping by 3 fingers...when I did 'wet myself' neither of us had any idea what had happened and did think it might be pee  but the lack of colour and tell tale aroma was confusing so then the path to enlightenment started.

I later discovered the holy grail to sexual fulfillment with someone well endowed with staying power. I can experience multiple Fe's only by penetration initially requiring lengthy deep thrusting sessions but then as trust and deep emotions set it I could FE copiously and pretty quickly!  I seem to flow/gush rather than squirt however this is probably because something is in the way...lol. It is said that 2 litres of fluid is not unusual and I can well believe that needing 2 bath towels folded under me, a fact with can kill the spontaneity of love making somewhat lol

I have tried to simulate the conditions on my own and to try and capture the results on cam however the 'mind' seems to get in the way. Knowing it is 'you' creating the stimulus plus one/several parts of your brain are concentrating on your actions rather than simply enjoying the feeling.

Female Ejaculation:
What it is and how to do it.
History
   If you were to refer to literature over the last 50 years you would be lead to believe that females have only been able to ejaculate since about 1980. Of course this is absurd, and just shows how "the experts" can be wrong for decades on just about anything. Many knew the experts were wrong, but had little success in convincing anyone. Needless to say this lead to many problems, needless surgery (to fix the poor women who would ejaculate), expensive counseling (got to find out what happened when they were children to cause this "problem"), and in some cases divorce. "The G Spot" by Alice Kahn Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John D. Perry, has dozens of letters from women who went though various personal tragedies because they would ejaculate during lovemaking. Doctors, gynecologists, and psychiatrists invariably told them they were peeing and needed either surgery or psychotherapy.
  Newsweek published an article entitled "Just How the Sexes Differ" in May of 1981. One of the major difference was listed was that men ejaculate, but women do not. However, Aristotle wrote about female ejaculation, and Galen knew about it in the second century. The female prostate, which generates the fluid which is ejaculated, was described in some detail by De Graaf in his "New Treatise Concerning the Generative Organs of Women". (1) "... during the sexual act it discharges to lubricate the tract so copiously that it even flows outside the pudenda. This is the matter which may have been taken to be actual female semen." He describes the fluid as "rushing out" with "impetus" and "in one gush." (2)
    The medical community was finally awakened in 1980 when Perry and Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the SSSS (Society for the Scientific Study of Sex). Martin Weisberg, M.D., a gynecologist at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia responded, "Bull ... I spend half my waking hours examining, cutting apart, putting together, removing, or rearranging female reproductive organs. There is no female prostrate, and women don't ejaculate."
   Yet after seeing the film and witnessing the event in person he changed his tune: "The vulva and vagina were normal with no abnormal masses or spots. The urethra was normal. Everything was normal. She then had her partner stimulate her by inserting two fingers into the vagina and stroking along the urethra lengthwise. To our amazement, the area began to swell. It eventually became a firm one by two cm oval area distinctly different from the rest of the vagina. In a few moments the subject seemed to perform a Valsalva maneuver (bearing down as if starting to defecate) and seconds later several cc's of milky fluid shot out the urethra. The material analysis described in the paper (Perry & Whipple's) is correct, its composition was closest to prostatic fluid".

Fluid Characteristics
   The ejaculate is very much like prostrate fluid. It is usually clear, or milky and as thin as water. It does not have the look, smell or taste of urine. It is almost odorless. The taste varies, depending on the time of the month and diet, and possibly other factors, such as amount of stimulation received prior to ejaculating or time since the last ejaculation. It can vary from an almost honey sweet, sour, bitter, or a combination of these tastes.
   Even though it is ejaculated from the urethra, it is most definitely not urine. It is absolutely impossible to pee during a orgasm unless there is a weak pubococcygeus muscle. This is very important, and it is important for the female and her partner to both understand this. The pubococcygeus muscle contracts when terminating a stream of urine, and is the muscle which contracts during orgasm. This contraction helps prevent retrograde ejaculation (ejaculation back into the bladder), and of course prevents the bladder from draining during orgasm.

Problems Women have Ejaculating
   I think there are two major problems women face that prevents them from the immensely enjoyable experience of ejaculation. They are the female's mental attitude, and their partners inability or unwillingness to spend the time and effort during lovemaking and to learn the necessary techniques. We will address both of these problems and the solutions here.
   The ejaculation is done through the urethra. This is the same tube that is used for urination. It is located outside the vagina, between it and the clitoris. The fluid is water like, and non- lubricating. In no way does ejaculation improve the chances of conceiving, it offers no lubrication, and is dumped outside of the vagina. The only conceivable purpose of female ejaculation is for pleasure. And the pleasure is intense, in many cases far surpassing the best orgasm's. Often ejaculation takes place during both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm (yes there are two type of orgasms, clitoral and vaginal, but often orgasm is a combination of the two), giving the female extreme pleasure, sort of a triple whammy. Sometimes after ejaculation the female will virtually pass out from the intense feelings.
   It can be argued that since the only reason that females can and do ejaculate is for pleasure, then there should be no reason for them to not do so, and as often as they please. It is one of the safer sex acts, since in most cases it can be triggered with fingers alone. Ejaculating from intercourse is more difficult, especially when performed from the missionary position, but still possible.

Preparation Recommendations for the Woman's Partner
   Wash hands well. Trim fingernails. Make sure that the thumb, and first two finger nails do not extend past the fingertips. Trimming them as far back as possible would be best. Make sure that there is no dirt or crud under the fingernails.
    Place a towel on the bed. A surprising amount of fluid can be released during female ejaculation. Compared to a male it can be like a water cannon instead of a water pistol.
   Have some K&Y Jelly handy. At some point additional lubrication may be necessary, even if she is having heavy orgasms and climaxes.
   Set aside enough time. The first successful ejaculation may take from 10 minutes to over an hour.
   It may be wise to exercise your hands, fingers, and arm for several days prior to this exercise. The motions necessary can become quite tiring after a while if you are not in good physical shape.
   Before beginning the first time, discuss it. Let her know that you are striving to give her an ejaculation. That female ejaculation is perfectly normal, and a wonderful experience for both of you. Convince her that there is nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. Explain that just prior to ejaculation, she most likely will feel like she is about to pee. This is a difficult point for many women, as they will immediately draw back. Convince her that it is normally impossible to pee during an orgasm, and that the feeling is simply the first sign she is about to ejaculate.
     Since the movement of the fluid through the urethra will initially feel exactly like when she starts to pee, this is very important. The reflex to stop peeing will immediately abort the ejaculation, so she needs to be told to relax, and allow the fluid to pass. In other words when she feels like she is about to pee, she should go ahead and pee. Only it really won't be pee, it will be an ejaculation, and within a couple of seconds it will be very obvious to her that this is something quite different. Once she knows the feeling, she will be able to push it out once it starts, with astounding results. It is best for the partner to be sitting between her legs at this time, else she may overshoot the towel or even wet the far wall.
   Once she has ejaculated, rejoice with her. Don't make fun, or a joke. If you do it may be the last time she will be able to ejaculate, at least in your presence. Unlike a man, this is not the end. You can continue, and she may well have multiple orgasms and ejaculations with further stimulation.

Technique
   Start slow. Use typical foreplay. You may want to start with her on her back. Stimulate the clitoris. This can be done with a moist finger, or with your tongue. Performing cunnilingus while rubbing her breasts with your hands can be quite stimulating for her. At any rate, continue clitoral stimulation until she is lubricated. At this point slide two fingers into her vagina. Allow them to move along the front wall of the vagina. You should encounter an area about 2 inches in, which should be somewhat enlarged. This is the G spot. It lies directly along the urethra, and is located almost directly behind the clitoris. Slowly stroke this area. It should start becoming more enlarged.
   Ejaculation is almost always triggered by stimulating the G spot. Clitoral stimulation can often assist in helping her reach an ejaculation, and also can make it more intense. But stimulating the G spot is usually necessary at least initially. Once she starts ejaculating easily, she may find that clitoral stimulation alone is sufficient.
   Stroking can be done a number of ways. The two fingers can rub the area as a unit, or they can take opposite strides, similar to walking. A third method involved sliding the two finders out a fraction of an inch, and pushing them back in, similar to the in- out motion of intercourse, but with smaller strokes. Initially pace the stimulation somewhat slow. Alternate with clitoral stimulation either with the thumb, other hand, or mouth/tongue. Also try simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G spot. Watch her reactions.
   Simultaneous may be too intense for some but necessary for ejaculation for others. Take your cues from her. When she starts bearing down, and you feel the vagina contract, begin pumping rapidly. When she is in the middle of an orgasm, stimulate the clitoris at the same time, and pump the G spot gently, but very rapidly. Talk to her. Say, "your getting it, go for it, don't worry, relax and let it come" or other similar words. She may need reassurance that if she drenches you, you will not be upset. Tell her how erotic you find it for her to ejaculate. Make her comfortable with both you, and the idea of ejaculation.
   This actually is not the best position. If she does not succeed after a short time, have her roll over on her stomach, and get up on her knees. You will find stimulating the G spot much easier in this position, and she will most likely respond much better. With the two fingers turned down, slide your two fingers back into her vagina. Find the G spot and continue stimulating the G spot. You may use the other hand to stimulate the clitoris. If after a couple of orgasms, using rapid pumping on the G spot during orgasm, she still has not ejaculated, then turn the hand around, putting the thumb into the vagina.
   The thumb will likely not reach the G spot, but don't worry, it should come up to meet the thumb during orgasm. Take the two fingers and lay them down on the clit. Allow the entire curve between the thumb and forefinger to lie along her from the vagina to her clitoris, and begin pumping with the thumb, and rubbing the clit at the same time. When she starts an orgasm, start pumping the entire hand rapidly. At this point she will most likely ejaculate. The trick is to massage the area where the urethra comes out, while stimulating the clitoris and G spot. This will help to override the feeling she is about to pee, and allow her to let it pass.
   Be aware that the female is not only capable of multiple orgasms, but also multiple ejaculations. It is not unusual for her to have from 3 to 5 ejaculations before depleting her supply of cum. Once she has ejaculated one or more times, you can continue with intercourse. Entering from behind will stimulate the G-spot more easily than missionary style, and often additional ejaculations will occur during intercourse. Even if they don't, she will be highly excited, and very sensitive. The final result will most likely be the most intense and pleasurable sex she has ever had.

I highly recommend "The G Spot" for further reading.

Footnotes:
1) Regnier de Graal, "New Treatise Concerning the Generative Organs of Women", p. 107
2) Alice Kahn Ladas, Beverly Whipple and John D. Perry, "The G Spot" page 59. Dell Publishing 1982.


This article was supplied by the Society for Human Sexuality Please visit their site: Society for Human Sexuality.
Copyright © 1998 Society for Human Sexuality. All rights reserved

Obtained for use by Female Ejaculation/Wet Patch with permission.

Great post. I'd love to see this up close and personal. Thanks for taking the time to type all that. Great work!!!

Cause your hot or what.

Thanks for the credit but much of it was cut and paste.

I'm still looking for the best link of all.

Failing that I'll post an 80 page document of letters from
men and woman who have discovered their inate ability.

Also see www.adoracash.com for one who squirts over and over and
char in LA who has pixes on her site

I'm 41 and just married 2 months. My husband brought me to gushing/squirting orgasms our first time together and it has happened every time since. Only one other man did this for me by his fingers massaging my g-spot but never during sex. With my husband however, he was simply making love to me and I told him it felt like his dick was licking my clit. He would go inside then out and gently press against my clit, then back in. Now there is so much expectancy and anticipation that he simply presses against me as he works on entering me and always makes me cum a few times before he even gets in. He talks about how tight I am, and I know we are made to fit each other, and he also causes me to swell so much from pleasure. He can keep me in such a state of arousal that just talking to me in his so sexy voice, or licking my face, or squeezing my nipples will make me cum. It is really crazy the control he has over me and I am really enjoying it! He says he watches my face and my body and knows what I like. My husband loves the feel of my hot cum falling onto his backside and running down his thighs, knees, and back when we don't use a top sheet and he's on top. He tells me he feels my contractions, the honey gushing the head of his dick and drenching him. I am so thankful to have such an awesome lover as mine forever! A nice perk for us both is my body's response to his attentions feels so good to him, that he is able to last for quite a while longer than with any other woman an hour or whatever it takes. It ends when I can no longer take the thrusting, screaming and exhaustion of wonderful love and beg him to come. This of course sets me off again, but who counts at this point! I love the idea of those flannel covered rubber bed protectors as we could only think buying those puppy pads might work. Right now we too are doing tons of laundry and having multiple orgasms a few times each day. I just thank God for creating our bodies to give and receive so much pleasure and love. It keeps a couple together I am sure.
L.E.D.

I'm 26 years old, and have had multiple partners until recently. I have never "squirted" until the love of my life recently learned that I was doing it, and how to make me do it. He has been able to make me do it sometimes 5 times in one minute, no joke. I haven't been able to count how many times in one sitting. Maybe 15-25 times. I think maybe we have such a chemistry he turns me on so much I can't bear it. Yes, we have to be very careful about where my juice goes, but it is very satisfying to have him know exactly what to do to make me climax so much in so little time. He has never experienced this phenomenon before, and I never knew wat to make of it either. We're determined that this just clarifies our true love and spiritual connection with each other. I hope every woman learns how to access this part of her. It is certainly very satisfying when I can't reach clitoral orgasm. Thank you annie! I'm so glad to know that I'm not peeing in his mouth. I'm so glad that our kinkiness doesn't go that far.
JH

My ex and myself had always seen on video and magazines the awsome act of squirting and untill about 2 years ago thought it would be a lost cause. Let me tell you, the first time she achived the act of squirting it was as though we had conqured the task even though it was just barley enough to notice, I asked her to relax and just let it flow... And she did all over me the couch the floor and even across the room. Since then we experimented quite often and it just got better every time. I miss the act not the girl so much I catch myself jerking off to the memories of that warm juice flowing all over me and I can still even hear the distinct sound it would make...WOW... Now I just got married and we are working to achieve this ultimate pleasure and each time we try it is the anticipation that excites me only becouse I know the lasting pleasure squirting holds. wish her luck and wish me wet...
RDJ

I am a 34 year old female and have been squirting for as long as i can remember, to all those people out there who think that it is wee then I'm sorry to say but you are sadly mistaken and missing out on something amazing. My only problem with squirting is having to strip and remake the bed afterwards, I shoot out up to a pint and up to 10 foot away, although this does diminish with each orgasm during the evening. Its really good to see sites like this to inform poeple of what is happening to them. Enjoy ladies!!
STB

Thank you so much for this info! I am 35 and married for almost 10 years. However, about 10 months ago, I became reacquainted with an old friend from high school how soon became my lover. And a great lover at that! We made love quite a bit and each time we would experience something different, but I eventually told him that he was still missing out one thing - my awesome orgasms. I have had mind-blowing clitoral orgasms with both him and my husband, but one night something different happened. As I sat on top of him, I felt an orgasm coming, but before it actually happened, there was this extreme, warm gush of fluid coming from me. He just looked at me and said, 'Wow!' I then told him only one other person had ever been able to that and it wasn't my husband. He then became determined to get it to happen again and by the time we finished 2 hours later, the bed was completely soaked. He was dying to taste it and when he got his face down there, I had to make him get up! That was just 3 nights ago and he is still begging for more. Me, on the other hand, wanted to be able to explain all of this to him and to find out for myself exactly what was going on. The first time it happened years ago, I thought I was peeing on my man and was completely embarrassed - I wish I knew then what i know now because he was an awesome lover!!! Thanks again!
LH

YES! Too right it happens! Just discovered yesterday - with the use of a curved vibrator, had a nice shower, nipped to the loo to empty my bladder (just to make sure!!) got myself comfy, warm, relaxed and alone. Im 43.... Im amazed at how much fluid is expelled... Gush, squirt, niagra falls, buckets... HA HA now I KNOW what it means... YIPEEEEEEEEE! and it was a fantastic feeling... 7 times, yes 7 within an hour, now if anyone would of told me this prior to yesterday I'd have said "yeah as if!".... I used two bath towels after initially soaking my bed... oops!.. Well i didnt expect it to be so wet everywhere
RC

Thank you for this website! I just recently turned 44 and found myself a lover after six long years of involintary celibacy. As you can imagine, being touched and kissed by a man for the first time in many years was extremely arousing to begin with. When he penetrated me for the very first time, I gushed hot liquid and felt my vagina softly spasming with orgasm after orgasm. We literally fucked all night long . . . he came at least 4 times while I orgasmed and gushed the entire night. I soaked his bed with the stuff. I have never had such a mind-blowing, awesome sexual experience in my life. I have also never been hornier or more satisfied either. After our last marathon, I started to get concerned that this was, in fact, urine, even though I had "sniffed" it and tasted it out of curiosity. Thanks for setting me straight!
JB

Wow. I read what the female ejaculation meant and I was so surprized and relieved as I always do it when having Oral, I'm 19 have have great sex with my bf of two yrs. He is the only person who has made me feel like I could take the world on. I still very much enjoy the feeling of touching myself and do anything sometimes to have 5 mins to finger my self and feel how wet i can get, well it turns me on by just feeling it I cum so hard after feeling the RUSH of wetness. Well thankyou for making it clear to me that i was not pissing my self. Thankyou.
ZC


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Let me know if you want more of these letters posted.

It will take quite a few messages but they are good.

ENJOY and may the squirting begin....

The Tongue

Wow. I read what the female ejaculation meant and I was so surprized and relieved as I always do it when having Oral, I'm 19 have have great sex with my bf of two yrs. He is the only person who has made me feel like I could take the world on. I still very much enjoy the feeling of touching myself and do anything sometimes to have 5 mins to finger my self and feel how wet i can get, well it turns me on by just feeling it I cum so hard after feeling the RUSH of wetness. Well thankyou for making it clear to me that i was not pissing my self. Thankyou.
ZC

I am a 41 year old female who has been married just over 20 yr. I have only in the last month and a half been able to achieve an orgasm (no fault to my wonderful attentive lover, my Husband). Everytime I ejaculate not just a few drips, but most times I actually spray my husband, You see he loves to get me going first so it is usually by clitoral stimulation with his hands, but ohh how wonderful, It also happens while having sex, I don't tell people not even my family but my husband measures 11 1/2 in. hard. Yes siree and we are all each others, so anyway I sure feel sorry for those woman who aren't having them, mine seem to last before during and after, sometimes I cant tell where one orgasm ends and another begins. Just wanted to share. Thank God for my attentive husband trying for more than 20 yr to make me have an orgasm, and WOW look what happened when I did, tell the guys to keep trying, and 1 more thing mine sprays (and I mean sprays out) clear fluid w/no smell what so ever, I am thinking to write a book on my husband and my experiences real soon I think.
SD

I am a 21 year old female in a lesbian relationship. because of things I was taught growing up, I was never comfortable penetrating myself when I masturbate alone until recently. One day, I woke up and decided i could penetrate myself with my own toys and all was great. Well, I've also noticed quite often then when I have sex with my woman, I feel that intense need to pee. It doesn't take much for me to wet my pants, even if I've just gone to the bathroom so I shied away from exploring the sensation with my partner. Just tonight, I wanted to try out those toys on myself some more so I flipped on some Enigma for background music and got comfy on the bed and started to get myself worked up. Well, as I was penetrating myself, I felt that persistent need to pee and i thought.. since my partner is out of town, this is the perfect time for me to move to the floor and push this sensation as far as I can and see what comes of it without embarrassment. Well, push I did and Cum.... I did that too! I was stimulating myself with the dildo and with my fingers on my clitoris and I suddenly felt it was time... and I withdrew the dildo and this clear fluid just exploded right out of my body. I tried to put my hand in the stream to decipher where it was coming from but I couldn't tell. it splashed off of my hand and ran all over my pelvic area. It was warm. It was Empowering! I didn't have an intense orgasm paired with this ejaculation but... it's my first ejaculation and I'm new to helping myself orgasm. Still, the liquid had splashed out pretty far from me and it spread all over the floor! I had the "a whole cup of fluid!" thing going on. I felt odd, but scientific as I tested it for smell, texture, and at last taste and then I jumped online to investigate Female Ejaculation and low and behold! I've found all these AMAZING and similar stories! I can't WAIT to try this with my partner when she gets back!
AS

OK I am 44 years old and last night it happened for the first time, 3 times. The first time when my lover was behind me and I was leaning over the counter. The second time the same position and the 3rd time just the normal position. The last time it was like someone had poured half a bucket of water out of me. I have been on the internet all morning trying to find out what happened. Thanks.
KH

I am a 35 year old woman who first experienced female ejaculation (which I call cumming) when I was around 14 years old. I had used a vibrator for orgasms several times then suddenly I started releasing fluid as well when climaxing. This freaked me out. I had heard of cumming which I thought meant orgasm. I thought there was definitely something wrong with me. With no one to discuss this with, I learned how to repress the orgasm so that no fluid was excreted. I forgot about this until about three years ago. My husband had me up on a table and him in a chair as if he were a doctor performing an examination. He used the clitorial vibrator as always but this time he also used his fingers and.... he used them just right. I exploded like never before... cumming and orgasming at the same time. He being my partner for ten years was not repulsed by it but excited about it. I now have learned to not hold back. During intercourse, I still have never been able to obtain an orgasm but now I cum all the time. I consider them to be two different pleasers that when brought together they create absolute ecstasy.
MM



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Ok, now I don't feel like such a freak of nature! I am 33 and have had both male and female lovers. After what happened yesterday I immediately got on-line to figure it out! After lovemaking, I often end up lying in an 8-10" circle of wetness... because I love oral - i always assumed it was saliva and never gave it much thought. because I've always used condoms with my male lovers, I knew if was probably not semen. Well, anyway my GF and I had an intense session of lovemaking. Towards the end, she proceeded to stimulate my g-spot with her fingers while using a vibrator on my clit. I felt a huge rush and release that I could not control - then I felt this sort of "surge" that was accompanied by an intense orgasm. according to my GF, I shot an "arc of fluid". When I came from my daze... I could see what looked like spashes on her arm and shoulder and the bed was soaked through past the sheets and mattress pad. We examinied it for taste, touch, and smell and it certainly wasn't urine. We were both taken aback and intriqued by what had happened, therefore, we set about to re-create it (with towels in place) and sure enough, I did it again, only this time, no arc but more a "niagra falls" which I could feel running out of me. Very cool!
K

After being a "Stepford Wife" for 12 years, I met someone who found my "spot". I had never felt it before, but I can tell you that I will not be able to live without it again. To any man who finds that spot...thank you. Without you I wouldn't know it existed. I was somewhat surprised the first time I "squirted" but he thought it was pretty cool. I can't imagine going through life never feeling the "spot".
SG

I am so glad I found this site. I am 38 yrs old and was haveing sex with my husband reciently and I squirted, we both thought I was peeing but we kept on playing and I did it four times and it was alot of fluid. I have never in my life experienced an orgasm its only been a few days of this new experience and I was wondering if I was normal. I have asked people about it and was told to go to the doctor, I am so glad to know that other people do it too.
KS

I am 81 years of age and have been having sex with a 62 years old woman. All this time I have been enjoying the best sex of my life, yet, I have been, and still am in love with another woman. I write this due to the very different ways my two lovers enjoy sex with me. The one I am not in love with will have 40 to 75 orgasms in an overniter situations, unbelieveable, and she will have ejaculations when aroused, enough to require a towel under her. We were, at first, startled as to what it was as neither she nor I had experienced such a thing in terms of number of her ejaculations or orgasms. I manage one or two during the same period. As I said however I am in love with another woman who loves me but ir reluctant to have extramarital sex but does at times with me only. She says she masturbates about once per week and will do so before dating me to tone down her desire, wanting to avoid sex. Shes says her orgasms are quick as a wink and she is totally satisfied having tried to go into a second orgasm but rarely succeeds. Recently I have given up my first lady and am going to concentrate on the woman I truly love but who is very subdued sexually. I am thinking how I might arouse my love by improving the foreplay in content and duration and if I succeed I will have a tiger, I think, especially if I can get her to ejaculate for the first time. Wish me luck! P.S. You may wonder about my age and how I can have erections to do all this. I have a doctor's prescription , not Viagra, which gives me an erection which lasts about 2 hours, I am a lucky guy as I now believe this all is causing my healthy lifestyle and keeps me youing. If I had this hundreds of years ago I could have owned the world.
B

Oh my god, never in my life have I ever expirenced such a feeling. I am 40 years old and have not had many lovers. I recently met this guy xxx and I decided to give it a chance and have sex with him. We had sex 3 times and nothing. He was upset and told me "if you dont want to fuck, then just leave". I was ready to walk out the door until I decided to give it one more chance and to relax. I was on top of him and started to really get into it and all of a sudden I let out a big amount of fluid. Very warm fluid. I was very confused but it was so good that I ignored it. I continued to sex it up for another 20 min and I let out a gush of fluid again. I then stopped because I was scared. xxx looked at me and said " wow girl. you just let out a hot gush all over my cock, do it again" He started at me again and within 10 more min I gushed again. He was very surprised and told me that I was like a young women and that only young girls could gush like I did. I had never been able to even reach an orgasm in my whole life, so you can imagine what I was going through. The next day I was so confused that I told one of my guy friends what had happend to me and he said dont worry, its call "girl spray" He told me that it was something that happens to women when they are extremely aroused. I was so proud of myself and I could not wait to be with xxx again and see if I could spray again. I had sex with him again and sprayed him 3 more times while he was on top of me. It was great. I am so happy that I have been able to spray the way that I can. I am still in shock that I am able to do this so easy. I tried to do it on my own witha dildo but was never able to get to that point. Now, the only way I can gush is to have sex with xxx. It is a good thing and a bad thing because now, I am only able to gush with xxx and nobody else. I dont want anybody else and I have become obsessed with fucking xxx only. I feel that no other man can ever take me to that level again. The bad thing about this is that all I want from xxx is sex and nothing else. I dream about gushing and I wish so bad that I can make that happen on my own so that I will not feel so trapped into only getting that with xxx. I have read your website and tried all that you have talked about but the only thing that seems to work is louis.
M



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I am a male (46 yo) who has experienced 70-100 wonderfully varied women. Of those, most seemed "satisfied", but one in particular left no doubt in my mind about female orgasm. When properly stimulated (which can occur in several ways), this wonderful lover would experience orgasms of notable intensity, including but not limited to a fairly large discharge of liquid that did not smell like urine (though it might have been) accompanied by her eyes crossing and the desire FOR MORE OF THAT! Natural attraction? Comfortable situation? Thoughtful stimulation of specific areas? It all adds up to one HAPPY woman!
TB

This is to let you know about the fantastic, wonderful, mind blowing love making that my beautiful wife and myself share. She squirts me like crazy as she is orgasming, I don't know where the fluid comes from or what it is, but it's bloody fantastic!!! I love to catch it in my mouth when I am licking her out, it tastes like tears (I think.) When I am fucking her and she comes, it is like warm honey is being poured over my dick. She also gushes like crazy when I am fingering her G spot, or using a vibrator. She loves it when I just barely touch her pussy with my penis, this drives her wild, and her cup runneth over. I am very fortunate to have such a wonderful wife, who is able to let go and come like this - none of my past lovers have ever done anything remotely like this; nor has she ever ejaculated with anyone else. I feel that the reason for this is that we love and trust each other so much - our love is a very spiritual one, and we thank God for this unique gift, and that we are both able to enjoy it so much.
AB

My boyfriend made me ejaculate for the first time 2 days ago. He'd asked me to shave myself so he could please me orally easier & after a mind blowing 15 minutes of stimulation to my clitoris i told him i thought i was going to come (we both knew about female ejaculation but didn't thik we would achieve it) he told me to come if I wanted & i said "No, I mean really COME" he got really excited & told me he wanted to taste it before dipping nhis head back down & licking til I ejaculated all over his face. It felt so good & he loved it making me ome another 4 times before penetrating me which gave the most intense orgasm I've ever felt because I ejaculated again as soon as he thrust into me! We both wanted to find out a bit more about female ejaculation & found this site through a search engine. We've read almost all of it now & thank you for creating such an informative & useful site on the net!
S

I too have experienced "female ejaculation" but not with sexual intercourse. I was masturbating one night with my vibrator, (which I only use on my clitoris) and I reached the point of orgasm, and about a cup full of fluid gushed out of my vagina. I was convinced I had peed on myself, I proceeded to smell it, to feel the texture of it, to find out what it was, but I was stumped, until now!
SB

Your article has put an end to the question "Did you come yet?" and "Are you peeing on me?" My boyfriend is a great lover and he is VERY oral. The first time I squirted him, he was startled. I told him I came and that it was not urine. Now I can show him this article and hopefully this will help him understand what's really going on. All of that great oral sex is causing me to gush!
TT

This site was very informative. And I found myself in some of these situations myself. I can ejaculate as I have recently found out. That is a very good thing. But my only problem is that I can't control it. I can't even explain how it happens when it does. Also, it only happens when I am on top and I want it to happen whenever I want and as many times as I can take it and more. Scared me when it first happened, but the second time, I kinda figured out what was happeneing. The guy that I am with is the only guy that has made me ejaculate. I can't even warn him because I don't even know when I am going to do it. It just happens when I have a really good orgasm. But he knew what was happening before I did so he just knows that he is doing a good job So I am continuing to learn how to control it but for the time being I am just going to have to live with it. And that is not a bad thing either
JK

I was so happy to find your website! I am a recent addition to the elite club of female ejaculators. I am a very sexual person, and over the course of my life have had many parners of both sexes, but until this past November I had never experienced a squirting ejaculation. I was out with a new man that I was attracted to but had no intention of sleeping with yet and we went to my house to watch a video.We were watching and all he did was touch my hand and the electrical current between us was astonishing! We ended up making out for a while and when he put his hand in my pants and inside me I had my first squirt! I couldn't believe it. I had only heard vague things about female ejaculation and like almost all the others I've read on your website, I thought I had peed myself! I have been looking up female ejaculation on every site available and now I understand what is happening and I love being one of the elite!! Since the first time my trickle has become a powerhose!! I now squirt almost constantly.I do it when we are fucking, especially with me on top. I even do it when he is in my ass...I actually can't stop it from happening-no more heavy petting in the car for me!!! One of my goals is to make it happen simultaneously with a clitoral orgasm, although from your readers stories I gather that many woman are like me and have seperate kinds of orgasms. What the hell, I'll certainly have fun trying! Also, I can never make it happen when I'm masturbating alone. If my man is there, I can do it to myself or he can always do it, but I guess I don't get turned on enough when I'm alone to make it happen. This adds a whole different dimension to my sex life and me and my man get so high from all of this. I am a very happy woman!!
EL

I am a 27 yr old mother of three my husband and I are very sexual. He read about female ejaculation in a magazine and wanted to see if I could acheive this. It took me awhile to get past the begining sensation of urination, but now with practice I am a water cannon, with 3 to 4 times per sexual encounter. I find it works best when I am on top during sexual inturcourse. I the best sensation ever and more need to experience and not be scared or not think it can happen to them.
CA

Some years after we were married, one day my wife started having this experience. I would say that over the years this will happen 90% of the time. Because we do not include oral sex with our love making, I have never seen this liquid. I do know that it feels watery, dries fast on the body, and makes the sheets wet. This usually covers an area about 24" in dia. The draw back it that it replaces the first dampness which is more lubricative and so makes penetration movements dry and tender until her regular juices can be replaced. However, her climax comes quickly afterwards (never at the same time) and so this often is no problem. Her letting down (that's what we call it) only occurs during intercourse. It can occur whether she is on top or bottom.
WW

Thank you for clearing up a little mystery that has been puzzling me. For the first time this happened with my girlfriend I was performing oral sex on her. When she came it was so hard and with such force she filled my mouth almost instantly with as much as a half a cup to a cup of fluid. Naturally...almost drowning instantly I was very confused. So I asked my lover, honey, do you have to pee? No, she replied. Are you sure, I asked again in shock. Yes, she replied. Did you? I asked? No, I just came, she replied. Then everything was fine and I continued as if it had never happened, only a little wetter. This has happened many many times since through many different stimulations...oral & penile. After one of our incidents, as we've come to call them, I got a chance to closely examine what was splashing all over my face, upper body, lower legs and feet (her being in saddle position). Where it had the look of urine under soft light I tasted it...it did not have the texture of urine...it had a similar texture, such as my semen. Upon tasting, I discovered it didn't taste much different than her regular secretions. I am so glad that she has discovered this web site as it has cleared up a lot of questions. We had already decided before we visited your website to just use it as lotion and rub it in and enjoy. However, we go through a lot of towels. She gets so wet we must both wipe after every orgasm she has. Reader some of the other mail people have sent you has made us both feel very secure in our wetness. She also has told me as one of your other writers' girlfriends told him, she has never done that with any other man. I'm not exactly a porn freak, however it is nice on occasion. I have never, ever seen this on film. But I for one can testify that my girl while sitting in saddle position can hit my mouth if she could only learn how to aim. God, if I could only capture this on film, we would be very wealthy. Thank you for all of your insight and thanks to all the writers on your site.
CM

I was reading over your website and found it very informative. I also let out a few giggles when I read over discriptions like "gushing" and "Niagara Falls" because I have used those words myself. One that I didn't see was Buckets, which has come to be my nickname in the bedroom. Some of the stories I read kept mentioning that there usually isn't an odour or taste of the liquid when a women ejaculates, except one that I read that said after a while when a women becomes dehydrated, there would be a slight odour. I have found at times there isn't an odour, but sometimes there is.
K

Hi Annie, I am 81 years of age (please believe this!) and a widower and now have a 61 year old girlfriend and I am experiencing lovemaking as I never have before. For one, I have erection problems and I use an injection (penile) that will keep me hard for about 2 hrs. She is unusual in thatr she will have as many as 70 orgasms overnight. to my one. I usually do not take my penile shot until morning so we have "soft" sex in the evening and during the night (sometimes called foreplay) via digital or oral manipulation she having about half the 70 orgasms. In the morning , after my penile shot (a drug called prostaglandin) we will have intercourse and have hard sex for about 2 hours and she will come about 35 times and I will orgasm once or twice during that time. This occurs every weekend as she still works and I am retired. This is so new to me, but another thing occurs which I had never experienced before, a thing we have come to believe might be female ejaculation. It is so much we must put a towel under her. It is a watery, thin liquid which evaporates. She will usually tell me when it is happening saying "I am gushing". We have come to just enjoy it, it is not urine (no odor) and it seems to come out of her vagina possibly her urethra area, but we are sure it is not urine. We asked a nurse about this, and she said it was normal , just enjoy,. so we do, and use it as a body lotion, giving each other a rubdown , It shows up not necessarily when she comes but whenever she is sexually aroused. She gets aroused , going to a plateau and stays there through it all, coming easily somestimes I can just blow on her breast and she will orgasm, like her entire body is an extension of her clitoris. I have made her come, by fingering her ears and anus as well. She thought in years past this was incontinance and now she is quite happy that it possibly is not.
HB

Thanks for the site and sharing, now I will share.... I first discovered Female ejaculation on porn videos, then when I started dating my wife I found out she also could squirt. She told me it never happened with anyone else, so I believe there are certain techniques involved. More importantly the man needs to be willing to please and take the time to be aware of his partners needs. My wife and I are separated now, I have begun another relationship, and again have been able to "teach" this lady to squirt, a lot. I used to think body type or size was a given to have the ability to hold all that fluid, but I have been proven wrong. I believe many women could squirt but need the right partner and relaxation about their sexuality to make it happen. (I would have a lot of fun proving that theory though) For guys / husbands that are reluctant, all I can say is don't be!! your partner will never be more appreciative if try to achieve, respect it, and enjoy it with her. I love the feeling of the hot fluids squirting on me, or in my face, anywhere, it's a real turn on! as far as taste goes most of the time there is none, until she is very dehydrated from either squirting (a lot) or from not drinking enough fluids, only then will you get a slight urine smell. So make sure she drinks lots of water, besides it's healthy too. I find the most effective is pushing against the G-spot while licking the clitoral area and around, this usually works very quickly. Penetration also works if you are putting pressure in the same area, and you will need to pull out, or in and all the way out to enable the squirting to happen. Foreplay and a passionate connection is also important to relax your lady and build to such an explosive orgasm. Experiment with it and learn how she reacts with different methods, read and watch videos if you need to learn more. I would suggest buying a technique video or downloading from the web, porn stores have a lot of "Fakes" to filter through, some squirt movies are just women injecting water into themselves and pushing it out at the end of the scene, buyer beware!! Some movies are cut up to eliminate squirt scenes by censorship in some states /country's, they think it's peeing and that is just not true. I am enjoying my wet times, even though there are lots of towels and sheets to wash, small sacrifice.
DP

My girlfriend and I have been having sex for a while. We went back to foreplay and she would (now i know for sure) ejaculate. But because of the similarities to urine a person had to be skeptical, so I went out and did some research. Along with about 13 porn sights I found this one and learned everything I needed to know. Now I have a great feeling of accomplishment and I feel closer to her.
TMR

I'm a girl who has long nails - so I've been masturbating using sheerly clitoral stimulation. I'd only ever heard of fingering as a form of masturbation until a year ago, and when I discovered other ways I tried them all but nothing worked for me. So recently I just devised my own way (with my boyfriend's encouragement), doing what felt good, and I first experienced female ejaculation. I began to do this more frequently, until one time I came and it gushed out, squirting out a few inches as well. I was so awed, and knew that it wasn't just pee, that I told my boyfriend, and I then found out that not many women ejaculate at all, let alone with such force! I began to do a little research, and now I want to share my story, build an affinity with others who can FE and feel sorry for those who haven't yet. I'll be trying out the g-spot stimulation method, as my boyfriend's keen to try it on me!
DP

From all the reading I've done on this subject it seems I'm really different from the norm. G spot stimulation doesn't do much for me. I consider it pretty much a waist of time. I require clitoral stimulation. A vibrator works best, saving my husband’s hand/arm. Foreplay is very important. He finally understands this. But one reason I'm looking at these web-sites is to try and find one for him to go to because he just told me, after being together 6 years and married for 3, he still believes at least part of the time I'm urinating! This has upset me no end. I know what's going on with my body and I know I couldn't pee at that moment if my life depended on it. I NEVER thought that was what was happening. I'm not sure how old I was the first time it happened 13 or 14, but I never thought it was urine. I also never heard girlfriends discuss anything like it happening to them. I just thought I was special! They were missing out and settling for something less. I wish my husband enjoyed it as much as I do, but he doesn't. It's becoming a problem for me. I've only had one other partner I was able to do this with. He thoroughly enjoyed it. He couldn't get enough. I'm hoping if I can convince my husband I'm not urinating he'll be able to get into it more.
K

Thank you very much for having this site to help people understand. For many years I have had these types of orgasms and I was always afraid that I had urinated on my partner, of course now I know better. I now have orgasm after orgasm and 95 % of the time they are either big squirts or massive gushes. I feel very blessed and so does my partner. We invested in a waterproof mattress protector because no matter how many towels we lay down the liquid soaks through them. However I have them vaginally, clitorally and anally.
CL

This web site is fantastic. Normally during sexual intercourse or foreplay I get very aroused and moist but until today had not experienced ejaculation. I had a fantastic time although I was a little scared, as this fluid literally squirted out of me and there was rather a lot too. I thought that perhaps I had peed myself and I did feel as if I needed to urinate so I wasn't sure weather to be ashamed/embarrassed or happy with my partner but they were absolutely exstatic. It has taken me 2 years to be able to do this.
Anon

I had never heard of such a thing as female ejaculation and neither had my partner in 1979 when she literally exploded all over my face. We had been having extreme oral sex multiple times a day for a couple of weeks experimenting with everything imaginable. This time she was sitting on my face facing my feet while I sucked and licked her clit. I was using only my tongue and mouth with nothing inserted in her. Suddenly she let out a scream so intense that it startled me and she dumped a lot of clear, tasteless liquid all over my face and head. She had never done that before and for some reason we were not able to duplicate the experience. We could not figure out what had happened, but we knew it was different than her usual wetness. Of course since then I learned about female ejaculations. Wow! What an experience!
MM

CL:, I still think I smell powder burns from the rug you were on after reading all this.

Were you arround in the 60's?   I havent heard that term in years.

I was around in the 60's but I actually got the idea for the comment from a provider who had sex the night before with her boyfriend and whose rear end was all "rug-burned up".

Sorry, for now I cannot real myself.

Or with someone You'd Love to....   And better go to the store and pick up a pack of smokes too. You'll need them.    Great thread!!!!!!!

when it is more like a flash flood than a continuous stream..

http://www.annies-female-ejaculation.com/

Instead of reprinting all the letters on their pages over and over???