But nevertheless I'm sure someone out there will relate to this thought:
Have you ever thought it is sort of funny the way we give pleasure and receive pleasure? I'm not saying that I don't love it, because I absolutely do, but sometimes I laugh at the thought of some of the things I do with clients for pleasure and they things they do to me that gives me pleasure. It's almost as if that part of ourselves is as primitive as it gets, while in everything else we seem so evolved, and sophisticated.
Does anybody else think that?
Happy New year to you,it is not a brain fart on your part sweeety, it is just what we do in the heat of the moment, we are enjoying it so much that all we think is to give and received pleasure,it is almost as if we don't care about anything else in that moment.
Once you start thinking? You've fucked it all up.
And you are the pro?
You have to feel.. Not like your friend in the thread downstairs.
It's a mind fuck. I know
Sasha,
This is a great topic but I might take issue with your perspective.
Many people are too uptight to understand and pursue their most basic sexual needs, wants, desires. Therefore, they live lives of quiet desperation.
Others choose to explore pleasure and allow their imaginations to become reality experiences. They become comfortable with giving and receiving the full cornucopia of pleasure without shame, embarrassment or judgement.
Which one is primative and which one is evolved? I think you know the answer
a BDSM mode, I am saying things or doing things or having things said or done to me really pretty much always on thinking back to someone of by someone I respect and like which seem not very respectful and yet is exciting and pleasure giving.
Even in my most recent really deep love affair with some one I absolutely adored, she would get most excited by trying to hold off on climaxing and would like me to whisper what a "naughty girl" she is and how she is so naughty sh cn' t stop herself from climaxing.
A really good friend with benefits is a lady of color who likes me to say really racists things to her during sex.Things I would never even think let alone say.
Not a brain fart at all.
... Human sexuality is the result of intelligence evolution, we are the only animals that have sex just for the fun of it. Sexual activities stimulate chemicals in the brain that produce a sense of euphoria and pleasure, sex and the delight that comes from it is like a drug and may be addictive. Each individual is different, therefore the things that cause maximum ecstasies on someone may have no effect on someone else. Guys with a foot fetish may care less about pussy, while guys who love pussies and boobs (me) may care less about feet, and so on. We all like sex and the effects it produces, but if it was a primal instinct, everyone would be excited about the same things; instead, we let our conscious desires dictate what we like abut it and what we don't.
PH
re:we are the only animals that have sex just for the fun of it. Not true, Bonobos are a small species of apes that have a lot of sex without the intent of reproduction. Google "Bonobo" for an interesting read.
Yup, true, and those are the closest animals genetically to humans.
It seems different ladies try a few different things to please us or themselves.
That is why this is such a cool world!
surely learn much more about themselves and others, and experience more dimensions of human interaction involving physicality, affection, need, trust. Kind of like going from sight with only black and white to sight that includes color and infrared. How amazing it must be to be completely comfortable in one's own skin and to be able to comprehend and respond to subtle, non-verbalized signals from others.
No, I'm not saying that all providers are magical goddesses, and I'm not ignoring the flip side that this business can rub your nose in some awful human behavior. But surely some ladies travel the road to greater enlightenment. Isn't this another way of accomplishing what many of our greatest artists strive for, people like Henry Miller and John Lennon?
I thought it was about generating revenue.
Obviously the gals have to focus on their livelihood, and I respect that, but even so, I think from time to time they must encounter some sexual satisfaction from their endeavor.
How much is real and how much is thespianism is a mystery we'll never know, and I'm glad to have it be that way
Pleasure in the provider /client relationship tends to be much more honest than in the civvie world. For me anyway.
I have been able to explore different pleasures that I was not able to in civvie life.
That I can be honest about what I enjoy and openly learn what some women enjoy has been one of the the greatest gifts of this world we play in.
Respectful pleasure without commitment to me is true freedom.
Honesty and freedom without harm is very evolved.
maybe as a veneer... and a very thin veneer it is.. scratch that veneer and we are still apex predators ready to kill on a scale unprecedented in the animal kingdom... oh yeah, we're sophisticated all right...
Does ANYBODY, even my friends really think there is anything the least bit evolved or sophisticated about me?
At 56 years of age, I will still laugh hysterically and uncontrollably over a loud fart in public, How's that for evolved and sophisticated?
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Does ANYBODY, even my friends really think there is anything the least bit evolved or sophisticated about me?
At 56 years of age, I will still laugh hysterically and uncontrollably over a loud fart in public, How's that for evolved and sophisticated?
...always has, always will...
Written in 1475 it is chock full of fart jokes...
who farts, looks around, and giggles like s/he just conquered the world...
farts are fun, queefs are funner
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzHzc1zMPlA
Sex is found in most of the fauna on the planet, but the more complex the organism, the more complex the sex. Our genes still harbor that original primitive lust, but our advanced brains have turned it into an art form. That is why we have romantic rituals (even in P4P), foreplay, afterplay, etc. Here is another way to look at it: Anyone can fuck, but lovemaking is an art form that takes the basic function of fucking and turns it into an intense multi-dimensional experience.
