This has been a topic of discussion for a LONG time.  We have all been there....Example...TER reflects all 9s and 10s....she looks hot and is described to be hot on her web site.  The reviews said she was hot....You book it and show up.  Instead of her being 110 pounds as reflected on her website she is 145lb. Do you say that in the review?  Some would say YES and some would say NO?  If you say NO, are you doing the member on TER a DISSERVICE?  I say..  YES.  Just state the facts right?  That's impossible....TER reviews state their feeling and opinions....this is where things get tricky.  ?????

You can only say she was heavier than her photos, but you can't say she was 150 lbs. because unless you put her on a scale and took a photo of the weight that showed up, you are simply guessing and don't really know. Many women (myself included) LOOK like we weigh more than we really do because of how our bodies are proportioned. A woman standing at 5 ft. 9 at 140 lbs. might look thinner than a woman at only 5 ft. 1 who weighs 120 lbs.  

How biff there tots are says a lot to. Implants , or not Tits can weight some to also muscle verses flab ! Best to just be fairly honest so we don't disappoint our partners, if you know what I mean ,kissss love

A lot of things to consider here. If in fact she is not telling the truth you should LEAVE ! Also maybe you just didn't get what you wanted and you judgment got thrown into the garbage like a baby. Oooooooooo so many thing to decided . Again guy stay safe and get what you want in life, it's all yours . Kiss's from Jennxj6

London...I agree...what is the pictures reflect a blonde and she now has black hair.  Can you say her photos didn't watch?  You see where I'm going with it?  It's very subjective

Jennifer....I agree.  Case and point...I went to see a so-called LA 9/10...I showed up and she looked nothing like the photos...at least 15 years older and smelled like an ashtray.  SMOKE was coming out of her front door when she opened it.   I left and tried to write a review, I was very nice and simply said I left because her pic DID NOT match and she smelled like SMOKE.  The TER community went fucking crazy on me.  Fair or not fair?  HUMMM

I can't wait to see all the creative ways the ladies try and justify the rampant lack of truth in their advertising and reviews.

Do you see the path this is going down....I do  :     It's NOT a good one and that was my whole point from this post.  It's a LOSE LOSE !   Then it comes down to writing a review only if it's a "good" one or positive one.   Then we are really doing the members of TER a DISSERVICE.  What is the reason why we are here in this TER Community?  We want the truth on these women...what they look like, if they are friendly, fun, attractive, sexy, hot, etc.  What they like doing BBBJ, DATY, kissing, etc.  RIGHT?  The bottom line is to be tasteful in your approach and delivery in the review.

It's against TER policy. And perhaps this is a flaw in TER's policy.  The problem is, while you can alert people on your local board there's no way of making a permanent record of this here.  So, yes, I'd say it's a flaw.

Inicky- I agree 100%.  How else can you convey this information to the TER community?

One that focuses on NCNS, and why I had to bail.  

London is correct,
A woman who stands 5'7" @145#'s is thinner looking than a woman @5'1", 120#'s.
Also take into consideration, bone structure, those with larger bone structure look much heavier than thin boned ladies.

liamdoherty-  Thats where things also get tricky.  I'm in great shape and feel if I'm going to pay to get laid it's going to be with a women that is in top shape.  With that said...I don't mind spending $800 a hour for a top 10 women in LA.  I recently did and she was fucking amazing.  And the review I wrote was awesome 10/10 because she was a 10/10/.   I might be a little more picky than a fat, older gentleman that has to pay for sex.  NO disrespect at all !   Just giving my opinion

occurrence. You can enjoy the miscellaneous sizes, but some of us don't. Some of us are not paying for a soul either. Fid and I are both in shape, are you?

If women can why can't men? No disrespect, but you guys complain the most, not that there's anything wrong with that.

Your right...appearance is not a factor for the guys because we are paying for it.  However, the "good looking" guys get much more for the money than the "not so good looking" guys.  Example, most of the women I see will do things to me that they will not do with other clients....such as CIM, Kiss with tongue, Mult pops, extended stays, and sometimes free byes.  So it does pay to be in shape and take care of yourself.  :  

Will be more likely to make sure you enjoy their company. Ref, the laws of nature.

Um, no one is justifying anything...those are the facts! Unless you put the bitch on a scale, you simply do not KNOW how much she weighs! All you know is what she LOOKS like she weighs, which as I pointed out, is total bs at times. A short person always looks heavier than a tall one all things being equal, and girls with D cups look bigger than those with freaking A cups. Surely, you are not this stupid?  

Look like a fucking genius in comparison to you.

I will add one more thing, this is the first OP made by FIDIOT that actually makes sense. You OTOH have just taken being a mangina to a whole new level. Old fat broads that advertise as young hotties might be acceptable to you, but it's certainly not acceptable to us non maginas.

As panthera said below, I am not interested in hiring a "soul" for an hour, I am looking for a hottie to fuck and suck my brains out. If I were looking for a soul, I'd join "Christianmingle.com"

and one last thing, yes I am in pretty decent shape, a lot better shape than any woman who stands 5' 7" and 145 lbs, that's for damn sure, or a butterball who is 5'1" and 120

There's a sociological article written years ago..."Pretty People Syndrome".  Some pros but a lot of cons also.  Of course relating to relationships and emotional stability...not just going out to bang someone.

Vern,
I agree you should be attracted to your partner.  
But physical beauty does not equate great sex.

Kodos to you CaGambler-  that's the best thing I have ever seen you write on the boards that made fucking sense.  Dude are you in school again.  If so, keep going and get smarter  :  

London- your focusing on the weight issue....That was an example....it could be with anything...Age, breast size, height, weight, hair color...A lot of women self advertise and it's false.  You have been in this business long enough to know that your peers do this.  TER is a method or way to weed out these women and these fake ads.  That's how I use TER.  I always say....PM some of the guys and ask them what they REALLY thought of the women.  Most often their insight are different from those post on their reviews.  Send a PM to a guy that has seen the provider is still the BEST way to ensure you made the right decision.   Does anyone else do that?  On the other hand, Women do the same things when they screen us.  The last provider I saw said "YOU are HOT, your reference was not kidding"  They do the same thing.  :  

To me, this is the BEST and MOST important topic on all of these boards....This is why we are we here.  We want to know what others experienced.  Before we spend money and time we want to know more about the women.....the best way to get that answer is through other MEN.   We are the clients....women will just tell us what we want to hear because they are making a shit load of money.  I take a lot of time to research a women before I see her.  I ask her a lot of questions as well (after screening of course) and if they don't want to talk and I get "Just come see me" they are most likely a fake.  The last women I saw sent me additional pics, told me about her, likes, dislikes, told me what she liked, sexual desires, fantasies, etc.  It also heats the meeting up....we jumped on each other when we met.  It works for me

Who called you a butterball?   LMOA   that was RUDE...

i am passionate about.

Now more power breakfasts for you. I wonder what your new twin eats for breakfast.

Fuckin-Eh

GREAT POST....I couldn't agree with you MORE.  Even though you are a self-proclaimed "old fart".  :     IN all honesty, your post was right on.  The Customer is always right?  Nordstrom's is my favorite store and they are geared to customer service and that's their saying "Customer is right".  If we are paying top $ we should get what we see on the ads and websites... I leave when the women looks nothing like her ad.....She hoping I'm so fucking horny that I'm going to stay.  HELL NO

Pussy and eggs    LMAO :  

False advertising should be noted in reviews but you cannot say an exact lb. amount in regards to weight or the provider can complain and the review will have to be edited now. It just happened to a friend of mine from Ohio. He put "She is at least 30 pounds heavier than her photos indicate" and they made him go back and put "She is a lot heavier than her photos indicate." That's all I was saying. You should point these things out...yes.

Fido?  Honey I'm far from FIDO....I'm a prince  :     LMAO....One day I'm coming to NO and we'll set up a date so I can rock your world

Glad to know this isn't just an L. A. problem.  I only hobby in Vegas and L.A.  In Vegas my experience is all the ladies have been the ones in the picture (once you get away from Bait and Switch backpage).  In L.A., only 2 provider's I have seen I would be able to swear is the girl in the pics.  The other 20 or so, some maybe 5-10 years ago, some not even close.
I would disagree on the face though.  All my best encounters, there has been some picture that instantly grabbed my attention, a smirk, attitude, facial feature, etc.  Usually not even aware of it until later during the session.  I mean if your eyes or smile is your best feature, kind of hard to get that through without a face pic

well put...JUST WALK AWAY

You will be waiting an awful long time Fid. She has deserted that wasteland.

Thank you...I felt it was one of the most important things we can discuss on these boards

Did she retire?  I went out there three months ago and was going to connect but never did.  Even though she is not my type I would love to try her in bed.  :     It's like finger food...I just want to try

Y'all are funny! I told Fido he would be better off with a younger, thinner version but could not really find anyone around for x amount back then. Yes, I moved to the beach...not retired yet, but less than a year to go.

Why not try to loosen up a bit and enjoy the differences that make us all unique?

Judging someone's exact weight may be tough but if photos are inaccurate....they are inaccurate. If a gal changes the color of her hair, should have new pics taken. There may be a small window of turnaround time but at the very least she should disclose new hair color prior to meeting. If a gal gains 10-15 lbs that's another dress/pants size...so she should know to take new pics. One thing to keep in mind though is some professional pics are beautiful but that photographer may be shooting from best angle etc. Agency gals have lil control on how they are being marketed ( at least when I was agency it was the case) so don't blame the gal if you are misguided by anyone other than the girl. We indys have full control over our pics and marketing so if size changes yes....should update info. Some love skinny, some love curves, etc.... It takes all kinds and there is a want for all body types so no reason for misrepresentation. If you are in front of a gal and she looks significantly different from pics....that's part of the review process . Reviews are subjective for the most part so if one thinks a gal is a ten in looks another may think a seven, to be expected but blatent misrepresentation is unfair. ..

You live in Minnesota for GODS sake....I saw your numbers....How many true 10s are in Minnesota?  Here is LA they are plentiful...stay warm in Minnesota brother....it's 88 and sunny in Malibu  LMAO

pics were just 2weeks old! He called wanting an appt. about an hour before my usual start time, telling me he was in a hurry to get back on the road. When he showed up he was short the money wanting a half hour appt. which I don't offer 1/2hr appts. Been all over my advertising since I've started. He was trying to get the escort appt for the cheaper rate. I told him as much as I would do,if he wanted to stay & of course he did. But he went back & wrote my pics weren't accurate & a negative review due to fact I refused to give him a discount. I usually dnt wear make-up & my pics are very basic, no touch-ups.
But just waking up & giving me 10minutes to get ready....it really hurt my biz, the next few weeks everyone calling all wanted me to send them pics, which I dont do, so all of them refused to see me. That review still hurts me 9mths later & no one else frm that site has seen me since that false review. I'm assumming the guys like the girls who they can manipulate into playing their games to get discounts.  

it is almost to no effect to aske either the guys or dolls to change and be honest.

Hi There

I know it's probably a waste of energy, but why not, I had some time.

You can't write a review of a NCNS because a meeting never happened, but you can write a review if you met the lady and then left (i.e B&S, or just not feeling it). I believe the rules say a "meeting" had to take place, not a "session."

Most of the "1" reviews ("total ripoff") describe sessions that never happened.

Bond, Miss Emma Bond?!

Every person has a different perception of what's hot.... One person may think someone is HOT another may think Mediocre another may think GROSS....  It's ones opinion & taste....

Thanks for the permission...

That's right....everyone is different and will like different things and attributes about a women.  So if you are thick...say you are thick and if you are skinny say Skinny !!!  Guys will pick you just like picking food from a menu.  RIGHT?   JUST BE HONEST

My weight is exactly as my website says. I have a couple reviews that say I am a "few pounds" more. That is interesting? If you read the very initial review you will see the review says "baby fat" I have a very LITTLE bit in that area as stated!! No false advertising here. I work hard at too. I do 200 crunches a day, and 100 leg lifts each leg, when home and not traveling I walk 3 to 6 miles a day. I eat healthy, no drugs, alcohol rarely. I have men come in and tell me you are very beautiful. I tell them thank you! I have had 3 pregnancies and told I look 30. I work hard to stay young and feel young. There is no false advertising, maybe one should read the initial review which is not just for vip's a little better. Also my photos are real, not photoshopped and all since the summer which was just over. Dana

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I read all these complaints about women being this and that and you guys hiding behind your alias'.
This deserves a new paradigm about who's behind the veil of an alias. spouting epithets at all with whom you disagree.

do my research well enough to not have that occur...... ever.
But it does exist.

Well said liam.  

Possible you might have been bloated the day you saw him? Guys forget that women hold water at different times of the month lol. Hell, even just eating a huge meal can make your tummy poke out and appear bigger than you are. I mean fkin duh...