the dynamics of a threesome compared to one on one are so different particularly iwth your wife watching, I am not sure you can compare the two.

was part of the threesome, or were there two other ladies involved???  LOL.  

The real answer is no... but likely the other girl would be a provider anyway, so this question wouldn't apply.

If you were married to a woman who was herself attracted to other women and liked to have 3somes with other women, would you still go behind her back and see providers in secret?

anyone got Gloria Allred's phone number??.
  It's bad enough that all these married guys are getting their cake and eating it too. Now you raise the idea of the wives sharing their girlfriends with their hubbies in 3way sex. If that catches on I'm getting one of those mail order brides from Asia or Russia.

It depends.  Are the other girls attractive?

I'm not sharing my gf with anyone. . .much less a man. LOL!

Of course that'll happen sometime after pigs fly EOM

My answer was no.  I would have no need to see other providers if my SO was providing for me already.

She does this all the time, and the sex is great, but unfortunately, she and her friends just treat me like one more of their toys.  I visit providers to get a little respect.

Anon

let  us know if your wife buys into this idea

First, I would want to find out what that imposter did with my real wife, then I would go see a provider for stress reduction.