OMGGGGG!!!yessss when I was out in Cali. I had a client, he was nice but not verbal at all...I was trying to converse but NOTHING!!! I was like you're paying for this time DAMN IT and we are GONNA have a BLAST whether you like it or not!! (I said this in my head OF COURSE)..But for the quite ones I can deal with...I actually can vibe better that way kinda go DFK first and see where it goes...I can DFK till he recognize we can do that for an hour lol and then he will get the pic...jk I will take control a bit...but yeah I a couple of clients that were disconnected when I was giving my best....I don't maybe they wanna be intimidating until the provider cracks that shell hmmm....good ?
Wow. DFK until they realize you're not gonna' stop until they do something, lol
Quit isn't really the problem, I guess it's when they sit there and just look at you... maybe they don't know what to do, maybe they're waiting for you to entertain them. lol.
I have had them come in all pissy, (not mean,) two word responses, and leave with a skip, lolol, those are fun... it's just the ones who come and go like they went to get their oil change or something lol.
usually sticking your tongue down his throat and grabbing his ass works wonders..most of these guys are not exactly social butterflies..creepy worms is a better description..
Posted By: Courtney.ova
1. Q for providers... Do you get clients where you just feel like you provided a 'boring' date with, while you know you were dressed sharp as a razor, looked perfect (as possible,) but practically had to pull teeth to get anything out of him? I think some just want to chill, but don't really say anything. Does anyone have trouble 'reading' some dudes?
2. Q for hobbyists... what the hell do we do if you just kinda' stand there or sit there and stare into space? Jump you, pull out the whips and chains, do a little dance, rip off your pants, or start small talk to warm you up? Not an exact science, I know. Also, if they schedule an amt of time and leave early... what does that mean?
Some leave and I think, "Damn. I was boring that time," and a couple hours later, I feel like Aphrodite to another.
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and it does happen at times.
I find the better I know the gal first, the better things will go, so I like to banter back and forth with emails and hopefully get to chat on the phone. (Did anyone know that phones can still do that? 8o)
It could also be the guy not feeling well, but decided to go through with it anyways; or you perhaps do not look exactly as what he was expecting, and he's turned off and is too timid to say why.
If things are really going south, I think the best thing to do is to ask if you should go and offer to return half of the donation. That at least might get him to react.
I would not necessarily just get more physically aggressive as that might turn him off even more.
...but I wouldn't want to make him feel bad if it really is awkward. I can't imagine how I would feel if I hired someone, walked in not knowing what to 'do' or 'say', and she kicks me out bc she feels like I don't like her...
The only time I can think of this happening where I looked not so good was when I tried to fix an awful hair color job I got and fried my hair right before an appointment. Seriously, my hair looked ike a bunch of wires. Hence, why I have a pixie cut now. The guy just sat there and stared at me like 'gulp'. I said I was sorry about the hair and was pretty embarrassed. lol.
The pic thing is hard... I have them taken often to keep them updated, and try to make them as accurate as humanly possible.
I did have a recent dude who seemed nervous, but I sensed I wasn't his 'type' (even though everything is listed on exactly how I look). It was an awkward appointment, he left early too. I get an email a week later of him emailing my assistant, asking if she 'serviced other models and wanted to explore'. lolol. That's fine, of course, that's what this is all about, but jeez. lol
You have seen me and have felt this way, or...
You don't like me for some reason?
Yep either there is zero chemistry or you have a shy/submissive one. If its first nothing you can do, if the later... lead the way all the way. It never hurts to just be honest and ask in a thoughtful way.
Posted By: Courtney.ova
2. Q for hobbyists... what the hell do we do if you just kinda' stand there or sit there and stare into space? Jump you, pull out the whips and chains, do a little dance, rip off your pants, or start small talk to warm you up? Not an exact science, I know. Also, if they schedule an amt of time and leave early... what does that mean?
The chemistry thing is important, sure, and no matter what evidence exists prior to the meeting (pictures, reviews, email chatter,etc.), neither really knows what to expect until the door opens and closes, and the two of you are facing each other, all alone in the room. But, you shouldn't think it's all about you. Sometimes, we bring baggage into the room with us that even the most interesting and alluring woman cannot dispel. When that happens, especially when the initial urge is sated, it can sometimes be a greater disservice to go through the motions than to hang around. After all, time is the one currency that cannot be created, recovered or shifted. Enjoy it when it's returned to you -- or, better yet, offer it to those with whom a real connection is made and you'd like to hang around a little longer . . . because it (or he) pleases you.
1. If he shakes hands like a dead fish and doesn't look you in the eyes , he's not your type .
I'm not speaking of shaking your hand with the grip of crushing steel , or shaking your hand
at all , if he does that he's never read the cover of a romance novel . 
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2. I can't relate to sitting there like a knot on a log or leaving early .
I did leave as soon as I entered one time , when she was jerking me around on my way
to her incall , trying to prove she's Boss and I'm just another pussy whipped Johnnie boy wimp.
No way I was going to no show Miss snooty supreme , after the badgering she thought I would put up with .
Posted By: Courtney.ova
1. you just feel like you provided a 'boring' date with, while you know you were dressed sharp as a razor, looked perfect (as possible,) but practically had to pull teeth to get anything out of him? I think some just want to chill, but don't really say anything . Does anyone have trouble 'reading' some dudes?
http://www.cardcow.com/images/set268/card00173_fr.jpg 2. what the hell do we do if you just kinda' stand there or sit there and stare into space? Jump you, pull out the whips and chains, do a little dance, rip off your pants, or start small talk to warm you up? Not an exact science, I know. Also, if they schedule an amt of time and leave early... what does
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I am sooo not like that. I don't like to 'pussy whip'. I like MEN lol. But I do like to dominate lol.
Now here's the thing... I know a man is excited, nervous, and quite frankly, throwing a lot of money down. I not only feel bad I didn't seem to 'make their day,' but I feel bad for HIM if he leaves disappointed and just spent his hobbying money on me.
I do actually care, but I can't get plastic surgery after contacting my spirit guide asking what each man likes. He did pick me, and a lot of times I've blocked that time for him, possibly deferring other appt's.
don't need chit chat, just want to go at it. Now afterwards, I may want to sit and talk, but maybe I just want to curl up and sleep..... sorry, but that is just how the seratonin release works.
Posted By: Courtney.ova
2. Q for hobbyists... what the hell do we do if you just kinda' stand there or sit there and stare into space? Jump you, pull out the whips and chains, do a little dance, rip off your pants, or start small talk to warm you up? Not an exact science, I know. Also, if they schedule an amt of time and leave early... what does that mean?
Anyone posting here will very likely not be one to sit there and stare into space, they will be trying to work some mojo on you when they enter the door.
I am naturally a kind of shy person in a group but one on one I am more communicative so it's hard to think mentally of what would get me out of a non-communicative state.
The only thing I can think of is they are there because of choices made by the little fellow, so it's best to start a line of communications there and see if it opens them up. I would think you'd want to start by working your way into their pants from behind (by reaching around from the back) rather than putting your face near the crotch - just in case the silence was really a case of creepy fellow who acts unpredictably. If they jump or act strangely in response it's a lot easier to back off from behind than from the front... and it's still very sexy to have a woman reach around and fondle you, it may also play into some submissive streak they are having
An article of how hot it is for a woman to 'stroke it' from behind because her hand is in a position that his would be if he were doing it himself... Hmmm... After stroking for a while, slide down his body and maneuver around to, after working him up, slip my wet mouth onto his c*ck and give him a nice sloppy...
Ehem. I'm sick, can't work for a couple days. Sorry, getting on a role heheheee
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I don’t know what it is about female’s maybe it’s the pheromones and it was much worse when I was younger but when ever in the presence of one even today mind just races I have 10,000 questions or 10,000 things I want to say but I cant lock on one its like melt down lock up over load basically over think it.
Posted By: Courtney.ova
An article of how hot it is for a woman to 'stroke it' from behind because her hand is in a position that his would be if he were doing it himself... Hmmm... After stroking for a while, slide down his body and maneuver around to, after working him up, slip my wet mouth onto his c*ck and give him a nice sloppy...
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Well that's pretty much exactly where my mind was going with that, but you brought it to a new level with the erotic prose.
I'm a fucking riot to hang out with. My problem is keeping providers from initiating repeat contact with me.
