Ladies...EXCELLENT JOB with the clinic on DATY a few days back. I'm sure the gents [including me], no matter what the learning curve was, learned something from your answers.

In the spirit of continued sex-ducation, I have another question to pose to you ladies: Tell us the singlemost unique, freaky, stimulating, mind blowing, and/or totally amazing sex act or technique that a man has ever done to you. The act you describe should be the one that makes you press your legs together and curl your toes just thinking about it. Put some thought into this one [I realize that some of you might have to think a ways back], and be specific and descriptive.

Gents, again, for ease of reading and reference, please let ladies only post their experiences and we can perhaps comment in a later thread.

I was cold and didn't realize it.  He pulled and twisted and arranged me so that I was sitting at the edge of the bed facing him with my feet dangling.  He went to his sock drawer.  He returned and to my surprise he knelt in front of me.  He took my foot with authority and put a sock on it.  Then the other.  Not a word was said.  It was one of the most erotically charged moments of my life.

The single most important thing you can do sexually is to PAY ATTENTION and be in the moment.

My personal story involves some thespian who was unknown at the time or at least unknown to me. He was amazing, one of the most passionate, electric bad boys I had the opportunity to fully wear out or shall I say, try to exhaust for hours. We kept pace with each other but man, I just couldn't wear him out. My studio apartment was a mass of white sheets and sweat. He had A LOT more energy than me and I don't stop. I had no clue at the time, only that I had been blessed.

Years later, I caught saw him on screen in some phone booth.

I've had a lot of amazing, surreal experiences which remain privately etched. Thank god, I don't live in the real world.

I had Boston gentleman (I guess you could call him an impressive geek) who ranks in as #1 for the entire east coast region.

But the best sex I ever had was a man who is in LA. He is the best sex in the world. I think he wears a metal. He flew over the dude in the phone booth. He is good because he's a combination of intensity and affection -- he can be a bit dominant at times and he's got something that penetrates me to the core. And I can barely stand up when he kisses me. When he holds my hand, I shake. He is very smart, very funny and I get wet just thinking about him.



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and took me shopping at Room and Board!

I had a lover, not too long ago, that would spend a lot of time giving me amazing massages where he would touch and revere every part of my body. Just sensually stroking me, telling me how beautiful I was. I felt worshipped. Then he would plant delicious wet kisses and licks where my ass meets my upper thigh. That is the best feeling I can ever remember having and there were times I thought I would completely pass out from the sheer pleasure....sigh. xxx Octavia.

is not tought in school.

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An old boyfriend had the amazing ability to talk dirty. I'd get wet just hearing his words--even if he hadn't touched me yet.

Once he whispered in my ear that he was going to lick my pussy until I dripped my hot cum all over his face. Then he said he was going to f**k me long and hard, and I was going to cum like I never had before with anyone in my entire life.

Then he proceeded to lay me on my back and spread my legs wide. He licked me to oblivion several times. Without letting me catch my breath, he turned me over and told me to get on my hands and knees. Then he pushed his head down and sideways below my thighs and licked me more--getting the clit and also rimming me. Heaven.

As soon as I came (which was very quickly), he grabbed my long hair hard, plunged deep inside of me, doggie style, telling me, "Can you feel that hard cock f**king you?"....until we both came, and collapsed.

I'd love it if some of my clients would get that wild.....but I think they may hold back, not wanting to get too crazy and scare me...but sometimes wild animalistic sex is the best.

I like the dirty talk myself, it's a nice change sometimes.

even if we start doing this kind of thing slowly, she may become scared (if she is one of those who don't want it) and the whole session will go downhill.

We can't really "ask first", because that spoils the mood of the whole thing for most of the ladies who want it.

Well, I'll say its a YMMV type of thing,depending on how you and the provider "break the ice" with each other...

So, after all that's said and done ...you move on to bigger and
nasty things like maybe a few choice words to her while showing some affection such as addressing her by "her sluttiness"...

She'll get your "drift" or maybe she won't...but if she does...she'll have a few choice dirty words for you also, then look out! All bets are off.

Cheers!

I few years ago I went to Fiji for diving and meet a handsome diver who was also in need of a diving buddy. After spending the day diving we all meet for drinks. He later wanted to walk me to my room. Knowing were this might go, I of course accepted.

We got into the elevator, I pushed the button to my floor, and then he gently grabbed my head and started kissing me. Then he lifted me up in the corner and lifted my dress up and started going down on my right there. We reached my floor the door opened and he didn't stop. Since it was so late, we stayed in there until I came, and boy did I ever!!

I'm still a fan of elevators  ~CarleeofArizona

Instead of talking to you afterwards, he simply rolls over and goes to sleep!

Actually there is nothing at all wrong with asking first, and it won't spoil the mood, especially if you ask before you start. Once you are naked, before things really get going, just ask her if she likes that sort of thing. That way you won't run the risk of offending her sensibilities and you'll be sure that you won't catch her off guard. I LOVE dirty talk, but YMMV. Depends on the client, my comfort level with them, and my mood at the time. Asking is NEVER the wrong thing to do, whether you are with a provider or an SO. xxx Octavia.

If a lady asks "what do you like?"  slip it in the list...like
"I like love baby ducks, warm pick-up trucks and nasty dirty talk while we're in the back of said truck, and spring showers."