i prebooked by a couple months and paid a deposit to a high end provider. i occasionally check her social media and noticed she’s going to be unavailable for a few weeks. she’s one of those providers with enhancements that are perfect but as always these type of women they are addicted to getting work done. i don’t want any surprises when she shows up for my session after the latest round of procedures. i don’t think it’s fair for her to take deposits and schedule sessions and then feel she can do whatever with her appearance and i have to accept it for my session. i’m thinking of getting out in front of this potential trainwreck and canceling the session and asking for my deposit back.

Please let us know how that works out.

Is definitely a bridge too far in that battle. Unless I’m just misunderstanding you, that’s just asinine and I can’t agree with you there.  

Your remark that "as always these type of women they are addicted" is like an all-caps framing arrow of ignorance and condescension. You know for a fact that these (undefined) type[s] are always addicted to enhancements?  Wow.  

You object to:
1. take deposits
2. schedule alteration surgery
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And you want involvement in decision #2.
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Just reverse the tree:
1. Schedule alteration surgery
2. Take deposits.
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Involve yourself in decision #2 -- cancel your meeting and ask for your deposit back.

Say you booked her on her appearance of her having say “B” tits because that’s what you like and then she changes into OMG DD’s and tits aren’t your thing, then yeah I can see your disappointment.
I don’t know what to say but speaking for myself, I never book that far out, cause sometimes I’m my own worse enemy on schedule and I would never do a deposit.
I don’t know how dramatic the change is but maybe it might be for the better, who knows.” Try it, you’ll like it”
Good luck

But asking for your money back is very unprofessional and cringe worthy, imo. Should the woman check with you first about a possible hair color change before your date? Or her getting it cut shorter ? Or her changing her wardrobe or cosmetic style?  
You sent the deposit way in advance knowing full well something like this is certainly possible. My advice? Be a gentleman, do the right thing, don't ask for the deposit back and let this be a learning lesson for you moving forward. Just my 2 cents.

is this a made-up topic for discussion or did you really book that far ahead?

Don't listen to this woman.
'RespectfulRobert' is provider and always sides with the sex worker...good or bad.

He may be a simp, but he's been posting here for eight years.  That's a long time to feign a false gender.

it’s a provider i’ve seen several times before…that’s why i stated in my original post that her current enhancements are perfect. also because i’ve seen her before i was confident enough to book that far in advance and pay the deposit

Getting the deposit back does not make them not a “gentleman”, if it’s within her window to do so. That’s why those windows exist. People get sick, their plans change, they change their minds whatever. Absolutely nothing wrong with asking for it, if it’s within the cancellation policy.  

ASSumption at the core of the original post. Figured it would fall on deaf ears. I agree with everything you said here though. Condescending for sure.

Great one Holly! And if you dare cut your hair even 1/8 of inch or change your nail color, you will need to get my permission first! lol.

You get to post the way you wish and I get to post the way I want to. Wonderful thing. Sounds like you are accusing me of being too nice, too often to providers. I am going to have to plead guilty to that charge. I am very close to multiple SWs IRL so maybe I see what they have to contend with on a daily basis that you and others may not see directly. idk.  
For the record you do come across as a nice guy and I have nothing bad to say about you at all and I enjoy your posts. I do agree about the ignore button. I dont use it. Not saying I never would, but like you, I just skip over certain peoples posts at times.  
Have a nice day! Take care.

I have booked months in advance for a visiting provider who is in high demand. Many men have. I don't see the need to accuse him of making this up but I guess it's a possibility.

Since you're a regular,  hopefully she returns the deposit.

Honestly, I disagree. I see no issue with asking for the deposit refund as long as the cancellation is outside of the provider's cancellation window, regardless of what the reason is.

I am coming from the perspective of most cancellation policies I have seen state they are non refundable, unless the lady cancels the session. I should have been more precise with my wording. In the end I fully agree about following the ladies rules as that is the crucial point. Thanks for the clarification.

I don't see the problem.

bigger lips? bigger @ss?  

her needing to consult with you about what kind of work she is going to have done.  If you decided to your penis enlarged would you feel a need to ask all of the ladies you see regularly if it's okay with them?  I think the lesson here is you shouldn't speculate on what her reason for being off is.  It's just as possible that she found a customer who wanted to take her on a vacation and has deep enough pockets to do it, or something else equally innocuous.  As LaRoche said, since you are a regular, you should be able to cancel and get your deposit back if it's at least three or four days before the session.  This gives her time to fill that time slot with somebody else.  if she is putting in Clown-tits, then someone who sees her after the time off will probably mention it in a review, then you can make a fully informed decision about whether or not to book.

Are you a guy?

Why is it that you are assuming that she's taking time off for cosmetic surgery????

Wait a minute! You telling me I have a celebrity crush on someone who turns out to be trans?

Let us know how that goes… interesting topic & situation.

update: the conversation didn’t go well. i respectfully cancelled and asked for the deposit. after she got disrespectful the gloves came off and i confirmed she’s getting work done on her face. anyhow i’m fighting to get my deposit back. lastly knowing what we know now…would you guys risk an expensive session if you knew a provider was going to get work done on her face right before your session?

takeaway here is that there is no reason to book two months in advance.  Too much can happen in the interim.

Totally agree. It's her body and he doesn't control that.