The extras are nice but not really necessary. It's the personal interaction and quality of the session that really makes the difference.

I love incense but would never burn it before seeing a client as I know many people don't like it at all.

In hotel rooms I try to have soft lighting and some background music - same as I do for incall. I guess I set a scene that relaxes me and will make it easy for me to get turned on.  And I keep my fingers crossed it works for the guy too

really, the small touches (e.g. candles, music) are nice but not necessary.  A room with a view or a room with a little more space and no extras does more for me.

Think about it.  Once we walk in, what is occurring in no more than 5-10 mins?  The candles and the music and the placement of furniture is the last thing on our minds!  Now, doing it on a sofa or love seat overlooking anything with a view (e.g. overlooking the water, seeing the Empire State Building lit at night, watching it snow), that adds a little something to the session

The summer air, stars that reach the ground and the sound of cicadas and I might pay extra for that... (Skip the mosquitoes please)

I think that women who take the time to embellish the room are more likely to embellish the experience. Sterile is just that... sterile.

For me it is a whole experience, if I just wanted to cum, I have a hand and jar of lube for that.

...no matter how nice the hotel.  So, I just make sure there is a bottle of wine, some ice, in case the lady wants a drink instead of wine.  I turn down the lights and make sure the tv is off.  Put on some music that I like and make sure the bathroom has been well-cleaned by the hotel staff, in case the lady wants to take a shower or freshen up....

I turn down the bed, if the staff has not already done so....

Now, this is assuming I am travelling on business....  If it is just a quick bang in a motel with a local gal who has no incall place, I do not bother, since there is NOTHING that can make a No-Tell Motel anything but sleazy....  But don't get me wrong, sleazey can be fun!  MA

The candles and incense mean a lot more to women than men, on the otherhand a big mirror to get a view of the lady from another direction can be a real turn on for the guys.

I appreciate anything you do, and

for me, all I need to see is your butt-naked ass and a bottle of chilled water... that's the end game.

the entire USC marching band could be in the room and I would not notice.

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I try to dress the hotel room up with candles but many times a guy will cancel or be very late and I now do outcall but can get a room in my name.  I don't get with more than one guy a day so I guess this is for those who take more clients

I think something simple that's blended into the experience is nice. Each guy will be different. Some dudes will like a drink choice, another porn on the tv, another....??? If I'm having a girl incall, I like to deck it out in candles and keep it clean. That seems to make it safe and welcoming and !encouraging!
Ask us if you want to set a scene/vibe.
Thanks.

For me this issue is a pretty strong one.

For me it's a visual thing. I like to see a lady in her entirety. I don't care if she has an imperfect body. Nobody's perfect. I still want to see it all. When a lady tries to light the room with candles she often dims the lights then I often ask her to turn them on again. This can sometimes put stress on the session as she mistakenly believes I'm going to negatively judge her. I understand why she would feel that way but I still want to see her.

But hey, different strokes for different folks.

Great post Dani.

It's probably more for me that I put the music on and light the candles. I was a musician by profession all my life and I love beautiful surroundings.

I have a lovely incall in Tampa and when I go on the road I try to make it a little more personal for ME and for you too. But, hell, if you don't care, I'll save all that money I spend at Pier 1 on candles and leave my discs at home. They will take up less room in my luggage. NOT!! I'm going to have my room be a reflection of me. If you want me to turn the lights on from now on, just say so. I'm a romantic. I love setting the mood, hugging, kissing, pampering, pleasing, and someone the lights on bright, no music is cold and sterile for MY personality. However, it's not about me, it's about YOU. So tell me. Maybe I need to put on my Nine Inch Nails CD and red light bulbs in the lamps. LOL Watch out for the whip.

Naughtily yours,
Anneke

Re:...-- guy's viewpoint...

When having a lady come to my hotel room, I usually candles, I'll ask what beverage she likes, etc.  I like dim light with candles flickering (Anneke's incall helped give me the idea), soft music--it definitely helps set the mood for both me and the lady.