Prior to becoming a provider, the majority of my sexual experiences were interracial. My first boyfriend in High School was white, and he was the first guy that I'd ever had sex with. I suppose he sort of set me on a path lol.

And I'm the opposite of you.  All of my boyfriends from High school thru age 24 were black.  At age 25, I dated very seriously a white guy (he was so hot, oh my god!).  Anyway, we considered marriage but it didn't work out.  Soon after, I dabbled into providing for the first time and liked it!  The rest is history.

I have had clients play up the race dynamics as well, and it can be an absolute turn or a total turn off.

Don't you look at her site first?

Go fuck yourself.

Lol, I don't think it has anything to do with the size of your butt lol. I'm sure your bottom is adorable

All through school, too light to be black, to dark to be white. Always hung out with folks that were "other" races since in the suburbs I lived, even they weren't considered popular despite same affluence. Later, serious crushes on guys of white and other races, but neither of us thought of going there. Fast forward, since I am such a late bloomer, in college, had a big blonde frat guy with blue eyes that I was oral buddies with, strictlty BBBJNQNS/DATY after the parties, he snuck me in the frat house and we never spoke in public, but he was just "trying" a black girl and I guess I was easy enough, and then ended up seriously dating my darker skinned GF. WTF, now realizing how messed up that was. WOW!  

I'm white, and one-third of my hobby experiences have been with interracial.  Compare that to zero as a civvie.  

So, yes, I've seen my share of African/American women though they are not in the majority.  But if you're hot, you're hot.

Black men TEND to like big asses and curves.

....and will continue long after my hobbying has run its course.

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Interesting statistic.  It does mirror the experiences of most providers.  However, I wonder if there are any cultural issues behind these statistics?  I think some ego issues keep Black men from participating in the hobby.

This is not a scientific study, but it seems to me that white providers are generally more expensive than AA providers.

Interesting you would come to that conclusion.

Prior to hobbying I too have had a long life full of interracial sex and relationships. It is not and never has been out of the norm for me or uncomfortable in any way.  

But how/where did you interpret that I'm saying black men don't treat black women well?  Thats not what I was trying to say at all.  

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but it just seems to make sense that if we (in this little world) are a fairly representative sample of people in the US, that AA men and women would represent a minority in all of the statistics we might encounter.  

Most of my clients are white followed closely by Indian. Asian is a distant third. I get very few Black or Hispanic customers.

Older men have more money than younger.

Other people in the world see prostitution and mistresses as acceptable and normal facts of life. Women take on the role with less stigma and can freely go about their business luving and being supported by many men.  

Maybe black men don't need to hobby (paying for it) as much as other races because they're blessed with two natural gifts: 1) gift of gab and 2) gift of "big tool" (LOL

When I was adolescent growing up I was absolutely crazy about white girls, especially the stereotypical blond hair blue eyed type. After college I started finding hispanic girls alluring and intriguing. Not long after I started dabbled in the AMP scenes and was really into asisans. However about five years ago hobbied with a black girl that ended up being my first ATF.  

I had a black lady ask me if I was into black gals. I said "No!...I'm into beautiful ladies!"

Do you engage in interracial sex in the hobby?

Ok, maybe not with that handle lol.  

I was only asked by one AA man.  I told him I hadn't before and I might feel awkward, he demurred.

Just wondering. Discussions are quite always black and white (no pun intended). I was wondering what gals here thought about perceptions of Asian men in hobbying.  

Posted By: TaylorMassage

Prior to becoming a provider, the majority of my sexual experiences were interracial. My first boyfriend in High School was white, and he was the first guy that I'd ever had sex with. I suppose he sort of set me on a path lol.  
   
 As a provider, I very rarely meet gentleman that share the same race as me, honestly I could probably count them on my hands. Most of the gentleman that I see are white, with men of other races thrown in there every once in a while lol.  
   
 I so often wonder if I am the first interracial experience for a lot of these men. I know that to be the case for a few, and I find that to be a bit flattering (is that odd?). I also wonder how common interracial sex is in the hobby, although it is very common for me, I imagine most hobby encounters are white/white, black/black etc. I think the lovely thing about this hobby is that it gives us the opportunity to engage with people that we typically wouldn't otherwise.  
   
 I also have found that the hobby has opened my mind in regards to what I find to be attractive. There were certain races that I found to be unattractive prior to becoming a provider, and certain body types and ages. But having the opportunity to be with men that were a part of those groups, helped me realize how silly my thinking was, and it helped me to see those types of people as a attractive, sexual beings in a way that I did not before.    
   
 So... on to my questions:  
   
 Do you engage in interracial sex in the hobby?  
 Was the hobby the first place you engaged in interracial sex? Is it the only place?  
 Do/ did you have you have racial fantasies that you wanted to fulfill?  
   
 All comments welcome

At least they did for me. Those first sexual encounters sear themselves onto your being. I sometimes feel helpless to their fury. One of my first experiences happened in a land far away, with a girl from a different race. Another early rendezvous took place in a different continent, with yet another race. Of course I had experiences with my own race too. Needless to say, those early, out of country experiences left me with an taste for the exotic. Therefore, I am open to any race, and have had atfs in many. Being a world traveler, I love learning about other cultures. One of the best parts about being a world hobbyist is learning the sexuality of those cultures. And trust me, just like with every woman of the world, they're all different.

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that I've never been with a black woman?  Honestly, I've been in interracial relationships before, just never with a black woman.  I never booked a black provider either, there just aren't that many of them of shall we say... legal age... where I live currently.  That is not appealing to me.  The ones who are of my age bracket tend to be BBWs, which are not my type either.  What gives?  So there you have it, I've never officially been with a black woman.  I admit it.  That is the expanded version of what I was trying to say before in a manner that would fit on just one line.  LOL  

And having a sexual preference (or revulsion) for a certain race doesn't make you racist.  Well maybe it does a "little" but I admit there's a certain ethnic group whose men I find extremely undesirable.  It's due to how I perceive them to treat their women, and also from a bad experience I had with a client of that group.  Surely theres some demographic of women you just don't do..

Please be tolerant towards others' preferences, biases, etc.  You're lucky that you are open minded but lots of people came up in older generations or had life experiences that shape their opinions and sexuality.  Nobody is "wrong" here in my opinion unless they're into hurting people or full of hate.

You can have the beauty of the world come to you?
I'm of European decent, but have mostly been with ladies who aren't.
Lovely asians (Thais, Koreans, Chinese, Filipina), Latinas, a couple with Middle Eastern roots, several great AAs.
I don't really go out of my way to look for any race, I just look at ads and see who attracts me and fits my height and other criteria (one of which is budget, which often eliminates many of the highest-rated ladies who share my skin color).
Beautiful women come from everywhere.
And it's truly a pleasure discovering the UNIQUE beauty of each individual when we meet

Slipping into a ConantheGrammarian moment here but that isn't nationality.

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to do any "swirling." The hobby has let me experience that, and that's a very good thing!

So seeing a different variety of woman in this hobby.

I'm white, and for me interracial sex has always been with African American women, and those experience have been some of the best I have ever had.  I have this incredible attraction to AA women, and they seem to like me too lol, and I have fortunately had more than a chance or two to indulge in the the civie world.  Something really turns me on too, about watching us in the mirror.  I guess opposites attract.   I have not hobbied inter-racially though for some reason, but as I read this I am asking myself why not...  and I think it's now become time to expand my horizons and that will change sooner than later.  

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Talent.

one of many positive things about the hobby is that it gives a lot of people the opportunity to learn from a very personal experience how little (if any) difference there really is between people of different racial groups. The meaning and truth of the well-known saying that "race is a social construct" becomes much clearer if you are intimate with people of other racially designated groups. I have had wonderful experiences with lovely ladies of just about every racial category in the hobby. It has opened my eyes and I am grateful for that.

Maybe if you just view them as 'women' and not 'black women' which you reiterated over and over again, perhaps you'd have a different frame of mind. Just a thought but makes sense.

when I noticed how attractive the Native American girls were.  I still prefer women of color, and if things don't work out in the civvie world, p4p is here to help.

Since Im a mixed man almost every single encounter I have is interracial.  
No Ive had several different races of ladies outside of the hobby.  Ive never had full asian or an Arabic lady yet.
Well I really want to have sex with a full Asian girl.  Halfs dont count.  Im also interested in Black girls BUT being fully honest Black ladies have be extremely attractive for me to want to have sex with them.  Idk why, just my thing.  Aaliyah for example.............just wow.  That sums it up for me.  

Posted By: TaylorMassage

Prior to becoming a provider, the majority of my sexual experiences were interracial. My first boyfriend in High School was white, and he was the first guy that I'd ever had sex with. I suppose he sort of set me on a path lol.  
   
 As a provider, I very rarely meet gentleman that share the same race as me, honestly I could probably count them on my hands. Most of the gentleman that I see are white, with men of other races thrown in there every once in a while lol.  
   
 I so often wonder if I am the first interracial experience for a lot of these men. I know that to be the case for a few, and I find that to be a bit flattering (is that odd?). I also wonder how common interracial sex is in the hobby, although it is very common for me, I imagine most hobby encounters are white/white, black/black etc. I think the lovely thing about this hobby is that it gives us the opportunity to engage with people that we typically wouldn't otherwise.  
   
 I also have found that the hobby has opened my mind in regards to what I find to be attractive. There were certain races that I found to be unattractive prior to becoming a provider, and certain body types and ages. But having the opportunity to be with men that were a part of those groups, helped me realize how silly my thinking was, and it helped me to see those types of people as a attractive, sexual beings in a way that I did not before.    
   
 So... on to my questions:  
   
 Do you engage in interracial sex in the hobby?  
 Was the hobby the first place you engaged in interracial sex? Is it the only place?  
 Do/ did you have you have racial fantasies that you wanted to fulfill?  
   
 All comments welcome

and many are projecting without a clue. I am not black myself, but neither am I white, and like you I can count hundreds, maybe thousands of black guys who were exactly as you described, said description of course fitting virtually all males of all races. lol

Speaking for myself, as a "Breed" I just by default all of my sex has been bi racial, and while I certainly have my preferences, I honestly can't think of more than a couple of nationalities that I have never been with, much less races. I have not only fucked, but I am sure I have had at least one or two actual girlfriends of every possible color combination I can think of.

If I used the words "women" instead of "black women" in the context of the comment I wrote, it would have said that I've never been with a woman before, the comment wouldn't have the same meaning at all, and besides that statement wouldn't be true, my overly judgmental friend.  

I simply tell it like I see it. Not judging at all. I believe you said those words, not I. It's simply pointing out my interpretation of 'your' words. You are more than welcome to have the choice to not see anyone but blondes if you so choose. I could care less. That clearly wasn't the point. There's a way of stating things with tact. You are not the only on this thread who didn't do so IMO. So don't worry, you are not alone. But perhaps you'll think twice about pairing those words again in your context next time....but maybe not.

How many men of color even have enough disposable income to play at the level we see here? Income disparity is alive and well and plays a part in every facet of American life, even the illegitimate parts.