I’ve been thinking about this question a lot lately, as it’s one I get asked quite often by new clients: What can a man do to ensure a truly wonderful first meeting?
Today, I think I finally articulated my new favorite answer. I love it when a man is completely, unapologetically clear about what he wants. Whether the dynamic he is seeking is innocent and sensual, or rough and taboo, there is nothing better than a man who has taken the time to connect with his own desires before walking through my door. When a man knows what he wants, he brings a grounded confidence into the room. It gives him the energy and authority to ask for it (or command it), and it gives me the freedom to surrender. Gents, how do you show up to ensure the session is amazing for both yourself and your date? Providers, what's your hot take?
It usually involves some making out and slow undressing to kick things off, and if the gal is amenable, some DATY and/or BBBJ.
From there I like to massage the person with oil, and then have them flip over to continue on leading to whatever menu items I can afford and/or she is amenable to, leading to my orgasm.
After that I like her to massage me for a good long while.
There is some variation here as some gals are massage only, but that is the gist of it.
I recommend that gals read the guy's reviews (assuming he has some), and see what he engages in. This was they can be prepared for what to expect.
I love knowing what arouses a person! I find that when people are openly honest with their desires the encounter always vibrates higher! Great question. 🙋🏽♀️
Made me think of that dress you wore at the restaurant the last time we saw each other. The one that every male in the place was waiting for you to fall out of.
MOST IMPORTANT things that will take any session to a higher level, but I also like to get a sense if the provider prefers to be the aggressor or more passive on the first meeting. This sets the guidelines for eliminating anything awkward and having the session flow smoothly.
I know what I want and desire like the back of my hand. That’s the easy part. And, I’m not so vanilla that it’s just one thing. So, it’s not about coming in with just my demands. I need to know who I am walking into to see.
For my part, I read her website, word for word. I reread it. I think about it. I read any ads she has. I reread them. I read her reviews. I reread them too. The more I read and learn about her, the more I learn what I will do with her. It helps instruct my behavior. When we meet, I already feel I know you.
Occasionally, I will book a provider. And, she will ask questions before I arrive. Maybe by email. Maybe by text. She will ask about me and what I like. I have had a few read my reviews as well. This is her doing exactly what I am trying to do. She’s trying to get to know me and what makes me tick.
When we both meet, but it’s like we’ve known each other for a long time, that is about as hot of a start as there could be. The small talk is so much leas awkward. It feels more natural, like getting together with an old friend, or better yet fuck buddy. The passion that follows is like that of a lover. And the sex is so much better when you feel you know each other.
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