well, the times it has have always been when the lady doesn't seem to be making much of an effort to get me out on time even when I make a comment that we're near the limit.
I'm not sure why anyone would feel any pressure to perform in this setting as the entire point is for having a zero-pressure setting which is basically about making me feel happy and relaxed. I think if guys are getting stressed about performance within some time period they might want to reconsider their approach and expectations about themselves.
Of course, if the provider is not helping you get to the release you're looking for and making you feel comfortable regardless of your performance, well, I'd say find someone else. But please don't worry about the clock or feeling like you need to impress the provider. If you're doing either you've making your own session less than it could be.
gents does knowing there is clock ticking make a difference with provider??/do you feel pressure to perform...ladies..has knowing clock ticking with amazing friend ever change ur biz-knowing next appt arriving soon...how often has pleasure changed your business??..if ever
First of all, let me just say that when it comes to being a Provider (Which I have been for 20 some years. Almost 30 years). This is a business where I can make $$$$MONEY$$$$. Not to just get laid (That's not what an ESCORT/PROVIDER does). Doing what Providers/Escort do.......Is about making $$$$MONEY$$$ to support ourselves (Pay Bills). And It seems like men approach woman as if we are sex objects (So, If we "THE PROVIDERS/ESCORTS" can use that to our advantage (Squeezing in as many men as we can to make $$$$MONEY$$$$ off of). Then that's what we will do. So, Stop bitching and just accept what's being given to you. There's no strings (Emotions & Etc.) attached.
dose of reality. You make it sound so inviting. Lol Seriously, a lot of guys don't get it, so sometimes you have to hit them over the head with it.
I would, like to think if this is your business you would evolve over 3 decades & get better, but your an example of how to improve. Thankfully, you don’t speak for the rest of us who are reputable & respect the gentleman that book escorts. I make friends for life, so we’re different. Emotions do come into existence when you have a mutual beneficial relationship that has developed over a decade with a man you met because of money. If your really good you can make men fall in love with you. Buy you a lifestyle you couldn’t afford, but not with that caca attitude.
I don't understand the constant strain of bitterness in her responses.
As for the substance of the issue, one of the reasons I see ladies of leisure is to take a brief holiday from the humdrum of everyday existence; not to feel like I'm on an assembly line with someone who's going to vacuum out my pockets as fast as she can. If I wanted that treatment I'd go to a strip club in Vegas.
And people wonder why I give some sex sellers flack.
Let's all look at that statement.
What other business can afford to openly say so (not think, not say it behind peoples back/closed doors, but rather say it openly?) Can a restaurant say this? Lol that'd be a pr nightmare, wouldn't it?
But hey Johns are just stupid dirty atms, amirite?
A customer has all the rights in the world to complain, criticize literally abything that relates to the seller, including the seller him/herself, their practices and their business strategy, their product quality and so forth.
The moment a seller says shut up and eat your soup whe the said soup is garbo, I have a sudden desire to take their head, dunk it the bowl of said soup and make them experience what they just told me to. And they don't even have to pay money for it like I have!
....so why do some providers book several back to back to back appts...knowing that some appts are better than others and not allowing a few moments to finish with those you want as regular friends and having time in between....clock ticking is from friends that have booked another appt too close to ours and letting me know biz before pleasure
I like to take my time and not have to rush. It's one of the reasons I haven't offered 1 hour dates in years. Even when I'm traveling, I see a max of 2 people a day.
While I have to make a profit , I like to experience the city I'm in.
Steph XO
I have only been felt clock pressure twice in 11 years doing this.
Once when a lady hustled me with 45 min of conversation only to hit me up for another 30 min of escort time. All I got was a view of her tits and a subpar BJ.
Second time was when a provider looked at her watch while I was in the middle of DATY.
It's always there, in the back of my mind, however. Not in a bad way, but more a part of having good manners. Being respectful. With someone new I ask them to set the pace, so we do not go over or run out of time.
Never stopped me from having a good time.
If I enjoy someone’s company I will share more time with them if I’m able to do, so I am no clock watcher. When I started long ago I booked back to back & saw several guys in 1 week, but now that I’m older, and have many responsibilities I am lucky to play once a month. I spend time with gents who respect my time. Time is something you can never get back. I love choosing my time wisely & prefer longer play dates!
take too long to accomplish anything meaningful. I see ladies who will book front to front. You can do a lot more when you are facing each other.
Seeing a new girl.. new to biz.. I get there 10 minutes early.. text her at 5 before.. she sends me room # & says.. hope your ready for some fun & adventure.
I go to hotel room.. door is cracked.. in I go.. and she is on all 4's butt in the aIr.. & very much wide open I say
. So nice to meet you.. I hear chuckle.. standing In The bathroom door is a guy.. she says.. I hope you don't mind.. he was the hour before you & wants to watch. Doesn't that sound fun?
I only can think to say... I don't like surprises.. & out I go..she texted me later to apologize.. I never replied.. too creepy..
I've done an MFM.. it was great.. but planned.. I've never forgotten it..
Now that is a creepy experience.
well, the times it has have always been when the lady doesn't seem to be making much of an effort to get me out on time even when I make a comment that we're near the limit.
I'm not sure why anyone would feel any pressure to perform in this setting as the entire point is for having a zero-pressure setting which is basically about making me feel happy and relaxed. I think if guys are getting stressed about performance within some time period they might want to reconsider their approach and expectations about themselves.
Of course, if the provider is not helping you get to the release you're looking for and making you feel comfortable regardless of your performance, well, I'd say find someone else. But please don't worry about the clock or feeling like you need to impress the provider. If you're doing either you've making your own session less than it could be.
One of my faves, who is incredibly generous with her time with me. We always hang out a while before getting going, which usually isn't an issue because she won't book anyone after me. But one time she had to go to a bday dinner by a certain time. She told me before setting appt. We hung out like normal and got going way too late.
She performed as usual but the time constraint messed with my mind. Long story short, she came and I faked it lmao....ripped the rubber off myself quickly. I didn't have the heart to tell her. It was the only time an appt didn't run super long (we still went over) so I chose to just shut up. In probably 50+ encounters with her, that incident and 1 cancelation with plenty of time, are the only mishaps so I won't ever tell her.
I mean they're selling a fantasy -- by the hour. Of course you can strike up friendships with anyone, your pharmacist, your grocery cashier, the plumber. But the service must be paid for. So the clock ticks and I am aware.