First of all, it's fun to hang out and party with like-minded people. It's also great to see the lovely ladies in the flesh to have a better idea about whether I'd like to see them. M&Gs have led to many nice dates for me.
I'm a bit leery of running into people I know from business. I like to keep those two worlds apart.
I have seen no fewer than 3 gals I met at a Meet and Greet. It's a great way to hook up.
Besides meeting potential clients, my hope is to make friendship with 1 or 2 girls. Share experiences and maybe even offer a double.
Any providers interested PM me please..
I hope to see you all there soon.
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I got to meet some ladies I would have otherwise probably not had the chance to AND I got to meet some ladies I had wanted to see but afterwards was glad I did not.
Lets just say that if a lady does not have current pictures available, it will show when you see them in person. I feel like I saved myself time and money that was well spent on others.
It is fun to meet other mongerers and trade info, stories, etc. Some guys may not like this aspect but I found it very beneficial.
It is managed properly and has some rules.
No photos
No groping
Keep it clean
I routinely attend so far no issues because the organizers are good. Great way to meet people and can get screening issue out of the way if you are interested in seeing
... and have no plans to ever do so.
If you are even the least bit concerned about being outed (which really can't happen if you already show your face) I would never attend.
I have never and will never attend any party where I can't control the guest list. I hosted one in Nola and set up one in NYC, but I controlled who was invited.
I would never attend not knowing every person there... too much to lose.
First M&G in NYC I had ever heard about was infiltrated by a news reporter.
I think it was a magazine reporter. Point is. No one knew. Except the people running the thing.
I remember everyone debating on just how dangerous that was..
That is just way to close to home for me. I would imagine even more for a provider.
It's what you don't know that can hurty
I am familiar with that incident, though I was not there. Don't take it is an example of what happens. It was a one-time thing and that host is out of the business. There have been 4 or 5 M&Gs in NY since then and all were quite discreet.
If you said the M&G was safe. I would believe you, and probably go.
That's just it though. I was very new when I read about that.
It leaves a lasting impression.. You know?
I have been talking to you on this shit for more than a year..
Probably more than two.
I have put enough together to know for sure you are legit.
Not so easy for me to say a year or so ago.
(My concept of time is shit, like my snow post)
I guess my point is..
Don't go to a M&G without the help of someone you know, and trust.
It could be dangerous to the anonymity most of us try to keep
I just hear of this M&Gs. How do you get invited to the ones in NY? Everywhere
Posted By: inicky46
I am familiar with that incident, though I was not there. Don't take it is an example of what happens. It was a one-time thing and that host is out of the business. There have been 4 or 5 M&Gs in NY since then and all were quite discreet.
It's easy. You simply need to be screened by the host.
PS: You have a PM.
Wear a burka , and leave the rest to their imagination ......
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Posted By: London Rayne
If you are even the least bit concerned about being outed (which really can't happen if you already show your face) I would never attend.
I have never and will never attend any party where I can't control the guest list. I hosted one in Nola and set up one in NYC, but I controlled who was invited.
I would never attend not knowing every person there... too much to lose.
it's a social encounter. Nothing more or less.
If you are outgoing, and love a big gathering...then you will shine. I'm personally shy in a group setting, and am more comfortable in small groups or one-on-one. So meet and greets are not for me.
Every meet and greet is different, and to a large extent, the vibe depends on the market. I found clients to be very respectful, generally. I'd heard horror stories about guys soliciting free BJ's and sex in the bathroom...and girls practically begging guys to leave w/them...but I saw/experienced none of that.
Go with a wing woman and work out a 'signal'...she can rescue you if you get cornered by a veteran bore who wants to talk for an hour about his soiled panty fetish 
Lolol.
I remember one particular M&G in Atlanta where I had to literally rescue a half a dozen different ladies from the same hobbyist. Each one of them had that "please kill me" look as they looked desperately for an escape from this poor slob. I earned myself a lot of brownie points that day. lol
but by and large, I have seen very little of the bad behavior that many women are worried about, I think the worst thing that is ever going to happen at an event hosted by a reputable host is maybe a few minutes of being cornered by a socially inept hobbyist who is the only one who thinks he is interesting. Unwanted groping, asking for "free samples" and the like is frowned on and most good hosts will show any guy acting this way the door in a NY minute.
Another thing I will say is that if anyone has a case of low self esteem, all they need to do is go to a M&G and they will feel much better about themselves. I own a mirror, and know I am not "all that" but when compared to Jabba the Hutt, I come out looking pretty darned good. lol
to your previous post, I think that your Jabba = my Jabba. There is a strong possibility...but I suppose that there are probably many Jabba's amongst us. Who knows?
Doubt that guy is getting any OTC dinners...poor dude, and I say that sincerely.
J/k.
Agreed. Im also a little shy. I also like to go with a wing woman, so I don't get cornered by a woman passing herself off as 37 who's actually more like four score and seven.
That was just for humorous effect, nobody actually talked to me about that. I'd bail on that convo, politeness be damned.
Someone did make some some overtures about an interest in fetishes, I guess to gauge our compatibility for a possible future session. I didn't encourage that, but did kinda get cornered a little. He was nice, at least.
Whether some guys approach that hardcore with someone they'd just met face to face.
I understand the digital age has removed the need for decorum but what about game
Oh also no undies , sit and cross your legs , give em a little view .......and trim always be trimmed ...and smile at the jokes and kinda laugh like a ha ha ha who who .....and lower your rates , heart attacks cause attention ! Lol
Posted By: ZoePiers
What are the pros and cons of attending a meet and greet?
Reputable providers would you go to a meet and greet? Why and why not.
Hobbyists- do you find this events fun or even beneficial.
I have never been to one and I am seriously considering attending one/ several this year.
Found one of my ATF's and met some ladies that I was wondering about. I even met a certain famous photographer.
I had a great time, mingled with some really great ladies and mongers, and would repeat in a heartbeat.
I even played cheauffer for a couple of ladies to and from. BE still...
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nothing like seeing a provider up close and personal. The M&Gs in LA are well attended by the ladies and the new host Astra has picked up right where Bond left off.
Posted By: hiddenhills
nothing like seeing a provider up close and personal. The M&Gs in LA are well attended by the ladies and the new host Astra has picked up right where Bond left off.
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If your going to get to know people like us that like the life style then its great. however if your going to see live sex shows type of stuff then skip it. mingling is OK for a hour then go gamble if its at a casino area . enjoy love Jennifer xj6
interested in seeing. As has been said, you can judge their appeal to you firsthand rather than have to make a judgment based on a posed pic.
A M & G is a cocktail party with like-minded men and women.
