I love kissing, but I think I'm bad at it.  I never seem to be in sync with the woman I'm with at the time.  I'm actually kind of embarrassed about it because it's something I should have conquered long ago in high school (and I almost posted using an alias, but awww, what the hell).

Anyway, the post a few days back that asked for help from the ladies about DATY was really good reading.  I was hoping I could get some similar advice on this topic, such as what's good, what not to do, or just any advice in general.  

Thanks.

In saw one provider in Chicago (in my reviews) who was an incredible kisser.  What I did not mention is that she kind of guided me at first so that I knew what she wanted and the whole thing was great (at least for me and I had never thought of kissing as so erotic, just very personal).  Search the reviews for a great kisser or at least one hell of a GFE and pay for a couple of lessons...

It seems like you have had access to some pretty good experts in your reviews.

Why not just ask the next woman you're with to teach you?  Actually it sounds like a pretty good line... "I've never had a proper education, can you teach me to kiss?"  

Now that I think of it, I think I'll use that one next time.  Thanks for bringing it up.

Well, now, this is a bit more difficult. Cuz, I am very particular about kissing - it HAS to be good, altho great is better!

I sent a very detailed PM and email many months ago to a few gents who asked me to explain why I felt KISSING was almost more intimate than INTERCOURSE and what the big deal was about kissing.

But, your topic is not about that, but about technique, and I'm not sure I would know offhand how to show someone to kiss. But, then, I've never tried!

I do want to commend you for humbly asking how to do better. Good for you! Practice makes perfect, LOL!

I feel the same way about kissing.  It's the kissing I think about a week later and is reason I would consider returning to visit a provider.

If you still have that PM about how kissing is more intimate than intercourse, and wouldn't mind sharing it, I'd love to read it.  (However, I don't want to butt into what might have been a private conversation.)
 love,
jockeypants

Although my handle may say otherwise, I haven't been shy when it comes to discussing my inexperience with women, both socially & sexually.  The ladies I've seen haven't really had a problem with it.  For the most part, they have been very accommodating & supportive in the instances they have been made aware of my difficulties in these areas.  Admitting the same things to women I've encountered in everyday life has been the exact opposite.  Nothing turns off a woman more than to tell them you're clueless.  I was lead to believe that women liked it when men showed their "vulnerability"; so NOT TRUE!!!

You shouldn't have any problem finding someone who will help you with this.  Spend a whole session or two doing nothing but kissing.  It will be time well spent.

Personally-  I do not like kissing- never have.  Been told I am good at it- never understood that- just did what the ladies seemed to like.  One of the things I like about this game is that so many ladies don't go for it.  Takes all kinds to make a world doesn't it?

seems to be the best advice about kissing I've ever heard. Amazingly it was a pearl from my father. Another one was," Don't come home with anything that drips or cries."

I love to kiss and have been given great comliments on it all times.. I just generally follow the leader. Dont get too into it.. as for instant.. too wild with your tongue.. dont try to suck their tongue out of their head as well. this goes good for down below on women as well men.,,,,hint hint... Just try to relax and sit back and wing it. have fun and enjoy yourself.. all you have to do is try and the more you  do it the better you get. Good luck sweetheart..
Renee (tampa)

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... I have had suprised looks from providers (and my wife) when I have told them to stop going down on me & start kissing me.  Your face, your voice, and your eyes are windows to your soul (big brain for the agnostics) .  You show yourself, your desire, your feelings, and your attitudes to your partner when you kiss -- and I personally don't know how to do it any other way.

IMHO, A woman who can't kiss can't fuck.  If the TER menu doesn't show DFK, you have picked a loser.

My $0.02, flame away.

I have had pretty good luck with kissers/friends, and I consider myself a very passionate kisser. However, there have been times when I ask the man to hold his lips still while I move my head, mouth and tongue very seductively. Sometimes people don't feel a kiss thoroughly, so they need to pause, let someone give them a kiss and feel every curve, every space inbetween and every inch of skin.

Hugs,
Ciara