DFK is exchanging bodily fluids it puts you at risk of being exposed to STD’s.

Maybe we need a sex education program here on TER?  

When I started over twenty years ago I did everything covered. Handjobs, no DFK, No BBBJ the only way to abstain from STD’s is abstinence.

The more risks the more services. I get tested after everyone I see. I’m different. Single mom life.

You'll get a much broader answer than with random individual replies.

Thanks. But I'm kind of looking to gauge the street response, not a medical opinion, since DFK is featured on many, many, if not most ,reviews I've read. So it's obviously not going away anytime soon. Reaction? Risk vs reward? Not considered too much of a risk? I'd love to hear from the practitioners, not the abstainers. Thanks.

"A dental dam is a thin square of latex or polyurethane used during oral sex to act as a barrier and reduce the risk of transmitting sexually transmitted infections (STIs). It is placed over the genitals or anus, and you can use water-based or silicone-based lubricants with it to improve sensation. For effective use, place the dam over the area before sexual activity begins and keep it on until the act is finished; do not reuse a dam or use oil-based products with it." - Gemini AI
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This link shows you how to use a dental dam and, in a pinch, how to make one out of a condom . . .
http://www.cdc.gov/condom-use/resources/dental-dam.html
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Otherwise abstain from kissing or from the hobby altogether. If the latter, checkout chaturbate, AI sex apps, and those true-to-life silicone sex dolls.

And have been DFKing and other things like mouth to pussy since at least your last review in 2021. So, I guess I'm curious as to why you are pondering this now?

Steph XO

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Instead the common cold, flu , Covid etc which can take you out of work for a couple days or even weeks. If you can take that many days off sure but us ladies usually we don’t have short disability insurance or paid sick days to cover bills. So keep that in mind when you kiss a lady that you could be getting her sick and making her life miserable for weeks. If it is mono it could be months. There are lots of other things I could list off but I’ll stop there.

It’s common cold , flu, Covid etc that can take you out for days or weeks . Ladies usually don’t have paid sick days or short term disability to pay for bills. So keep that in mind when you kiss. You could be wrecking a ladies life for months if you give her mono. No work means no money for us. If you are ok being sick for weeks then sure go ahead but some of us can’t chance it.