Is no daty a deal killer for most hobbyists?  studying reviews for provider that I wish to see.  profile (reviews confirm) that daty and finger in pussy is a big no. everything else looks good and she gets fairly good reviews .

My SB has made it known that she does not like fingers, but that is because most guys just go ramming their nubs in like they are trying to churn butter. It is a delicate approach that has to be done when she is ready while DATY and right before she cums.

No fingers I think I could deal with, but not being able to taste her is not something I would want to go an evening without.

MM

Oh yeah, its a killer. No DATY and no fingers? Thats a personal choice of the lady and I respect it. But I want to at least THINK that she may be enjoying what I am doing with her and it ain't all about the money. We need our illusions, no? or why bother. No DATY and no fingers, that says sorry bub, I won't even give you the illusion. It says give me the money, get it up, get it in, get it off and get it out the leave. Or get married, you get all the same crap and don't have to pay to get it.  roflmao

I've been with girls who said no finger in pussy, and that was OK

That's because its nasty and fingers and nails have bacteria on them .

I want more than clean hands I want floss brush your tongue exfoliate chapped lips DO NOTrub cologne on your private parts and above all... wash your anus. No I am not going there but a fresh clean towel will be under it . And oh.. facial hair has to be trimmed close to the skin I hate fiber wires .




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No DATY, no go!

Hi SR,

I always clip my finger nails before a session & the women don't complain about scratching the southern region when I let my fingers do the walking!

oh but I am very clean trust me...well except when I'm being dirty lol

MM

I'm always reluctant to see someone who does not like DATY, and always check out her reviews for this.  I also try to see if it is commented on in recent reviews.   I suspect I've been fortunate that the women I've seen have all enjoyed DATY and have allowed FIV.  Perhaps some of this is from taking a slower approach, rather than diving right in.  

But if I saw someone who didn't allow it, there would not be a return visit.

I don't like fingers being jammed in me just out of the blue, or before I am even aroused. Not pleasing at all. How would you guys feel if a lady just shoved her finger up your ass, without telling you? Well, many of us feel the same!

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nor is FIV, just depends what else is on the menu.

I will do anything for a woman I am dating.....

However, when I visit with a provider, it is all about me. And with providers, I also cover up. No bbbj or bbfs ever!!

KB  

especially if after 5 minutes you go trying to push in one even two. And if the last lady like to be jackhammered it does NOT mean all ladies like that approach.

And how many men actually wash their hands the minute they hit the incall/hotel. Not too many and they have touched Lord knows what since having a shower. And for Christ's sake be gentle at first and don't attack a pussy like your rubbing a stain off your tie.

And please ask..or I will grab your wrist like it's in a freaking vice and remove your hand.

So yes London, I do agree with you.

SS,

Everything you said regarding approach and etiquette is exactly how I do it. Why don't you let me show you sometime?

MM

even if I don't "know" you, but what I have read on here does matter.

Here's the deal, anyone, man or women, who intimates, alludes or outright tells me I will like something without them even really knowing my style or sexual proclivities, is a complete disappointment.

MM the main reason I say this is because of my sexual orientation....you are a guy, that makes a HUGE difference. I am not turned on by men. Even if a woman said that I would say the same thing....unless you know me sexually and have been with me to know what I like, saying anything without that info is a complete waste of time.

And MM, if I did meet you in this arena, (it would have to be this arena because I do not sleep with men outside this business), it would be the illusion and not what I really want.

Hell I don't even know what you look like.

For now I'm pretty good right here, enjoying  the time I'm already spending

MM

It is always wonderful to be with someone who in turn enjoys you as much as you enjoy them...nothing like it!

I make sure my nails are trimmed and throughly washed before our play time.  I let her guide me in DATY & I sometimes have fingers in that area.  I might have one finger there & let her accept it & determine the extent by her movememnts.  Any pressure is by her.  
I am happy with this.  I had one Fav object on one occasion but happily accept on another...  YMMV applies here.
I say again that I do not "give" a woman an 'O'.  How outageous to think that.  It is her choice.

No kissing would be the deal breaker imo.

Can survive without daty/fiv.
Can't do without kissing though.

I know you are lol! I know you have love gloves too lol!

Why not, I have big ears to grab on to....

May not be for others,

they just wish you'd get it over with.

Now if you happen to catch them on a particularly horny day...