Fellas how often do u visit your ATF girl b4 calling it quits? I have seen my atf a few times and I feel like the novelty wore off, the first few times were awesome but after some time it is becoming mundane, do u fellas take a long break between your favorites or do u stop seeing her after u had your fill. Your thoughts

After over a year she's still great. I see her at least once a week. (last week I saw her twice) I haven't seen any other girl. The Novelty with her is still there. Will I get tired of seeing her? As of now, No. I've been seeing her for well over a year and she's still Awesome.

I seldom see the same gal more than once every 8 - 10 weeks, and often less often that that.

This way every time I see them it's like reconnecting all over again, with the delights that come from that.

I've seen her only three times, each session three wonderful hours in length. I expect I'll visit her quite a few times more. So far, it has been a better experience each visit. I have felt the need to take a couple shorter excursions. I enjoy role-play and elaborate fantasies, which doesn't seem to be her forte, and sometimes I like to have a CMT trained provider or Tantra, and that too is more fulfilling elsewhere. But my CF is a 10/10 dream, and the only woman I can imagine spending a full evening with right now.

I am a big believer in keeping it fresh, and keeping it real, not going down that gfe primrose path.....

Are you ill, ROG?

She's out of state. But an Awesome Provider. She's retired from the Business. She's sees very few Regs. Me being one of them. Will drive out to see her this Fall. If she still lived in Chicago I would see her only.

to get tired of a fantasy.  Don't they think it's weird when you check into Sybaris alone, talking to the air?

8 months, but she fucked it up good so I'm back to having fun by enjoying all 31 flavors. And ya know what ... this is better!

i have had 3 ATF's and lost every one of them to a guy with a big bankroll..Money does all the talking in this business..

but that's about all you will do with them.  

Money is the way to keep these Girls or any other Girl around. You have to spend Money on them . No Girl is going to stay with or see a guy with no Money.

It vaired. Generally speaking a few months to almost a year.

Air is The way to Keep alive.  You have to Breathe air.  Nobody is going to stay Alive or be Not Dead with no Air

The other day, I almost made a snide response to the following post, saying that her remarks would have been better if she had written them as a Haiku. Then I looked at her profile and realized she is in fact Asian, though Thai instead of Japanese! Lest my remarks be taken as a racial comment as opposed to a linguistic critic, I bite my tongue. I am basically PC-policing my own attack-poetry. Lol. Where is Ridgetucky when we need him? I feel a Shakespearian sonnet about disgruntled, black bank employees who pay to urinate on white women, forming in my fevered mind. Then again, ever Chaucer wrote about "pisse," I mean, "SQUIRT!" Lol.
 

I am literally LOL

Re: All three to the same guy? eom

nope..3 separate high rollers..they always flatten the everyday hobbyist.

What a tragedy!  Is there any chance she will return?

... because she's not just sexy and beautiful.  She's smart as a whip, clever, witty, fun, imaginative, versatile, and laser-focused on her clients' satisfaction.  I'm not sure I'll ever "have my fill" of her.  But I know her career plans and that someday in the not too-distant future she'll leave the hobby.  And I'll be very happy for her.

I still see the lady I first hobbyed with over a decade ago, and maintain years long relationships with several other other special ladies, and see them with various frequency.  Works for me.

Even the best and wildest sex with the hottest looking lady often becomes rote when visited too often and the intangibles of mutual compatibility, friendship, and/or genuine caring are not present.  

Good post.

omen will never ever get Bored of Money.

used a bit rather too loosely amongst you gentlemen. A Favorite is a Favorite...meaning she's the Best and quite frankly you have no need or desire to see any other women here. At least that's my take on it. Now if it means something different, I would coin another phrase for those of you who still fuck other women whilst still seeing your All Time Favorite (which is really what is going on here in most cases). But if she is your true ATF, maybe call it something a bit different like 'Exclusive Favorite' or something to be a lil more clear. It can be quite confusing to us women to be honest otherwise. I would suggest hold those words in and don't use them whatsoever, or at least 'define' it to her what it means to you before you start throwing the word around while racking up the reviews yourself like a $2 ho lol. Just like 'GFE', it can mean 100 different things to 100 different people. Just my take on this silly term....or simply don't bother to use it at all. That's a better idea if you ask me. Silly, silly, silly.

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I agreed. Just wish I knew that a few months ago. It's sooo much better when you keep it fresh.

When I find a provider that to me is beautiful, sexy, sensuous, turns me on, makes me feel like I'm the only guy in the world when I'm with her, is in tune with my wants and desires, has me leaving with a smile on my face and wanting to hurry back for more, then I'm on an ATF ride.  Take away any of the above, then I'll have had my fill and move on.  I've pretty much always favored this type of hobby experience over pursuit of variety.

It's sort of like when I learned the phrase 'best friend' as a kid from someone who claimed to have like 20 best friends

... but I also enjoy several other brands and flavors of ice cream.

Without a doubt the best flavor ever created... which leads to the question,can two people have the same ATF?

PM's I have received regarding this lil here post in the short time it's been visible...I'd say I deff struck a chord. Good to know. Lemme spell it out again. If she's your ATF, she's your ATF, and NO other woman comes into play. If there are OTHER women involved, she's NOT your ATF so leave it be and you're not an ATF kinda guy. If you're not an ATF kinda guy, that's cool, just don't CLAIM to be one. So in plain ingles...CIO (cut it out). I and the other women who play in the ATF arena, thank you.

I would put you in the 'other' bucket of understanding what an ATF is then. Need I remind you, we're talking about 'women' here not 'ice cream' I'm afraid. If that's how you view this phenomena (imparticular your ATF) I suggest you make sure she's not reading this then.......unless of course you explained to her 'your' definition of that silly 3 letter abbreviation, just so she's crystal clear, ya know?  

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I was trying to explain in a light-hearted way that a provider can be an "ATF", but it doesn't necessarily mean it's an exclusive relationship.

now isn't there? LOL. My argument is the term ATF...it's stupid and corny and thrown around here like it actually means something, when it doesn't. 'All Time' means 'One', to me that is. Define it as you like, label it as you like, I simply don't agree with yet another term used here in the 'hobby' (another ridiculous word if you ask me LOL). Who coined all this stupidity is what I wanna know. Good lordie.

Methinks thou doest protest too much, LOL. I will NEVER understand what part of All Time Favorite denotes, insinuates, obligates... "exclusivity" the way you made it out to be. First off a person can have more than one favorite of anything, cars, watches, ice creams etc... does not mean that he's stuck by obligation to stay with one in particular.

I'm going on about 8 months of weekly visits to my ATF (only saw another lady once early on for something not on my ATFs menu).  I keep seeing her because of chemistry mostly; the spark is still there.  She is really a part-time amateur, without a facade or usual P4P tradecraft.  She is also a wonderful human being who has been extremely understanding and acted as a sounding board/female advisor.  We stay in touch during the week.

That's something I've seen in providers sometimes - to my surprise.  I would think that it would be difficult for a provider to keep regulars for extended periods without increasing the menu selection, working hard to keep the enthusiasm up, varying the sessions to keep them novel or becoming emotionally involved.  From what I can gather, most of the mongers have variety as a major motivation, deterring them from seeing the same lady too often.  I assume financials are the overwhelming driving force for providers, once the safety hurdle is cleared.

Allow me to illustrate with another example. This time I'll use people, so you won't jump all over me for comparing providers to ice cream (which I wasn't, but whatever).

Ranking?????????? And Relief???????????? What???? Who, what, where am I LOL

Seriously.

really were comparing the two but whatever. I didn't strike a chord did I?  

Blonde all day everyday if I could but I'd go broke and my tongue/dick would go broke after the third night sadly.

Glad to hear I was able to amuse and entertain you. Gladder still that fortunately you didn't pee on your pant on my account.

They didn't need to "leave me behind."  Live your fantasy if you want...doesn't sound too healthy.