TER General Board
She's hoping that with the incredible talents that Bob.Sugar has I'll be able to help her career along
Lol then I REALLY wouldn't believe it! 
I am particular 
I have a physical type that I like and prefer to be around a man with a few common interests to my own…
Weight has not come up, but I’m not surprised. Americans (esp Californians) are ‘look-ist,’ and I don’t see a lot of companies or middle management run by overweight people. If anything, my clients tend to be eerily similar- healthy, wealthy, disciplined, clean, well mannered and middle-upper class. Handsome.
Strangely enough, the better looking they are, the nicer they tend to be, too.
It’s usually the runts that have the prickliest of personalities. I have to discriminate.
I require work verification for all my clients, but I am especially weary of anyone under 34 and non white. Unfortunately, they are put under more scrutiny during screening and communication is key.
I don’t care about being politically correct when it comes to my physical safety and well being. And unfortunately, stereotypes are often more true than not…
Luckily, most of the men who screen with me provide their work info. rather than referrals from their other Providers. So, no biggie… *Also, if I don’t like the way a client does something, or if he fails to do something important for me- he talks too much, is clingy, draining, bad in ^&*, etc… it’s too much of a drain of energy. It’s not a match. At the end of the day, I don’t really make money of one timers. It’s my repeats that keep me interested and in business. I do my best to earn and keep their business. I prefer getting a msg from someone I genuinely have chemistry with- knowing I am going to enjoy a wholly satisfying session with them- it’s wonderful… So, yes- I am particular and thanks to my Peeps, I can afford to be
I don’t mind 1hr clients, I actually think these are great! Keeps the suspense going in the arrangement. It’s the one-timers, collectors and out of towners I’m not so fond of…but then that’s because I prefer arrangements.
Many of my clients are repeats and I often say no to new screenings based on job title, race/socio-economic background, location and or referrals.
I have a physical type that I like and prefer to be around a man with a few common interests to my own…
Weight has not come up, but I’m not surprised. Americans (esp Californians) are ‘look-ist,’ and I don’t see a lot of companies or middle management run by overweight people.
If anything, my clients tend to be eerily similar- healthy, wealthy, disciplined, clean, well mannered and middle-upper class. Handsome.
Strangely enough, the better looking they are, the nicer they tend to be, too.
It’s usually the runts that have the prickliest of personalities.
I have to discriminate.
I require work verification for all my clients, but I am especially weary of anyone under 34 and non white. Unfortunately, they are put under more scrutiny during screening and communication is key.
I don’t care about being politically correct when it comes to my physical safety and well being. And unfortunately, stereotypes are often more true than not…
Luckily, most of the men who screen with me provide their work info. rather than referrals from their other Providers. So, no biggie…
*Also, if I don’t like the way a client does something, or if he fails to do something important for me- he talks too much, is clingy, draining, bad in ^&*, etc… it’s too much of a drain of energy. It’s not a match.
At the end of the day, I don’t really make money of one timers. It’s my repeats that keep me interested and in business. I do my best to earn and keep their business.
I prefer getting a msg from someone I genuinely have chemistry with- knowing I am going to enjoy a wholly satisfying session with them- it’s wonderful…
So, yes- I am particular and thanks to my Peeps, I can afford to be.
That could be a helluva book....especially if you include illustrations
You fit in perfectly with all the gals here who swear they never negotitate on the boards, but do so bcd.
Do you even know what kind of emails we get? lol! Being financially stable enough to ignore the ones who can't be bothered to type a whole sentence, set an appointment up within 20 emails, or who pop up on blacklists can move a lady into the "very particular" zone very quickly, depending on where she is and the type of market she's dealing with. Not everyone is lucky enough to be able to do that, but almost everyone has a line where they'll say "no... not even for the money", and you would be surprised how often that situation comes up before an appointment is even set.
Beyond some of the emails that make you question the entire male gender, there's also just flat out screening. Again, depending on the market, you're going to have at least a few people who think that simply having cash is enough to see you, making that group fall out of the "Potential client" category before they send even the first time wasting email. And when you factor in all the different ways screening can be handled, it's pretty obvious that a woman can be more or less particular about who she meets. Some want you to call on the phone and promise you're not a cop, some want even more than employment verification. This alone makes your comment "I've yet to see any hooker screen out the dudes who have the dough" very confusing. You're either offering her that full time job from a few months ago up front, or playing in very different fields than you've been telling us
And then of course there is the behavior in appointments. Some women won't even see you if they hear that you like face slapping, are high energy, enjoy role play, are extremely overweight, or over or under a certain age. Those are all examples of women being picky about who they meet with. Some are even particular enough that they will kick you out for bad behavior. Again, not everyone is lucky enough to be in this position, but showing up cash in hand isn't even a guarantee when you think about it. Some can and will ask you to behave like a gentleman or get out of their sight.
The above is mostly educational, not necessarily directed at anyone in particular. This just seems to be a very common misconception - that if you have cash, you can kind of behave however you want. Sure, you may be able to get away with a little more than with your wife or civilian girlfriend, but if you think you're going to rest on that excuse for much, then you're going to be stuck in the dregs of back page almost as fast as a bait-and-switch girl.
You, Sug, are light trolling, I know. But you're throwing some very particular shade lately for someone who never has trouble flashing the cash and getting the girl
There was no male bashing. Sorry the voices in your head are so distracting 