If you were seeing a provider and found out she was charging you one price but was posting on another site and charging about half that much. What would you do? I called her on it and she said I was getting a different level of service. Ive read the reviews from the site and im not getting anything more than those guys except a lighter wallet. I met her in a strip club and used to take 3 or 4 girls into VIP at a time so she probably pegged me for having bucks from there.Give me your advise please.

For god's sake dude. She has you pegged for a mark. Find someone else among the thousands of other providers that will not take you for a ride.

negativity you already feel towards her, and the negativity she'll feel toward you.

Lap dances, you're stupid. I don't even fuck with that shit anymore. Strip clubs. You spend 4-5 hundred on dances and drinks for what?

Yeah, I took a few home and fucked the shit out of them. One for a week, before I told her to beat it.

But yeah, I'd call her on her site. Say WTF!!!

But I'm a dick, and as long as I get my dick wet, WTF?!!!

Take a shower and get a VD panel. You've been slimed. Yes, strippers and strip clubs are worthless ways to buy a thrill. There's so much good pussy on the planet, teach her a lesson and see her no more. She not only saw you as a 'mark' but likely told her friends how she had you for lunch and charged you thrice. Be pissed. I would!

Not a huge surprise. Try to talk any stripper into having sex with you and the rate she quotes will always be higher than the local going rate.

Just move on.  You ARE getting a different level of service. You are getting a bigger screwing!

she figured you had an overweight wallet!  You're definitely getting screwed, but not in a good way!
Time to kick this one to the side of the road, stay out of the club, and find some decent providers who DON'T know how big you wallet is!
That is going to be the hard part, and a problem I have not had (as I have no money)....but....guys who do sit on big loads of expendible cash normally don't like to keep it to themselves, especially around ladies....actually around anyone.  This could be tough, but getting her ass out before she can rob you of any more of it is a good first step!

Why am I thinking of Richard Feynman getting lessons in the bars and strip clubs. After a while, he figured out that the girls he bought drinks for never slept with him.

"But then, at some stage near the close of the evening, she said something that by this time I had heard many times before: "I'd like to have you come over to my room tonight, but we're having a party, so perhaps tomorrow night . . ." --and I knew what this "perhaps tomorrow night" meant: NOTHING!"

Scroll down the link to "You Just Ask Them?"

book her through that other site to get that rate.  

If she does not accept it, then tell her you will no longer be seeing her and then MOVE ON.

drop her like a hot potato

I asked her about it. She said "NOTHING was written in stone". Did I see her(?); yeah right. I informed as many people on that SITE about it. She is no-longer working. CALL ME A MANGINA will ya'?

It's clear she pegged you as a high roller.  You offered her the chance to give you that rate too & she declined.  Bye, Bye.  Time to move on.  
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I have heard of traveling providers that change rates depending on what city they are in....and I am not even sure about that.  I would definitley seek out another lady.  I think that is a grimy thing to do in this buz.
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I don't try to break them!  

Man, that's just wrong!!!!

if you are happy with how she treats you...money is nothing but a thing.

why does this matter to you? you get what you pay for!!

and what does meeting her in a strip club have to do with anything? are you attempting to cast her in a "hustler's light"?

Now, another thing...location may have something to do with it as well. Different levels of quality clients on different sites. I dont necessarily agree with this..but it is something one should take into consideration.

Should you call her out on it? Why would you do that?

Look, if you are not happy with it...then simply ride off into the sunset. Easy as that. Find someone else.

This whole question doesnt make any sense. Are you upset you are being charged more? But youre getting a higher level of service. Reviews dont say EVERYTHING there is to say...so there is prolly some backchannel stuff you dont know about. Hell, why are you so involved with this? Sounds almost stalkerish...jus saying!!


i mean, really now!

You went to the club, and you got fucked. Then you found out that you REALLY got fucked. It happens. We all let our peckers run away with our wallets. Chalk it up to part of the education process, and hopefully the next one won't take you for a ride.

If I were seeing a lady reguarly and long term (which *rarely* happens as I am seriously into once n done) I would expect to receive benefits for my loyalty.

If I found that she was seeing others at a rate lower than "mine" for the same service type / level I would consider that to be an expression of  lack of appreciation for my loyalty.

And I would move on.

but the thing is...is he getting better service or not?

reviews may not tell the whole story...and can be embellished a bit.

but i do agree with the move on part. 210 percent

plenty out there. Just wait....the OP will find someone at a lower rate..

and then bitch about the service.

and the one he is with now....does she offer him special things no one else gets??

we dont know the full story here.

I would be pissed and would move on ASAP.

then both of ya are just sillies.

i was merely playing devil's advocate. lol.

dont believe everything you read. there are a lot of holes in this story...


duhhhh

I have advertised specials in my site and also on ter. And sometimes my friends find me from somewhere else. And so they don't know about the special. And I don't know what they gifted me until they leave and I look in the envelope. And then I realize they didn't see my special, because they gifted me my advertised rate.
It's weird when it happens...but it does.
I could never charge one guy one rate and another guy a higher rate. I think you have been had.

Of nonsense.
Get rid of her like yesterday's garbage.
There are needy providers out there. Go find one who will appreciate a well endowed envelope.

if you have ANYTHING close to a regular thing with her, as a minimum she owes you her the best deal she gives to any new client.

We hear that negotiating "disrespects" some of these ladies (it does not, this is a business).  But if she charges a guy who will do return visits (you) more than some new guy from a different site, she sure as hell is disrespecting you.  Move on man!

Let's be honest her my dear, A LOT of things are said in this hobby for business reasons.  To assume her "supposed" side of the story is true carries no more weight than reviews...perhaps less.

And let me be clear as well...donation does NOT always reflect quality of service or the time spent.  I recently achieved the "20 ho" level (not all reviewed) and being bored and a geek, I did a little analysis looking at my profile.  Guess what?

1 - On average, I enjoyed the 8 appearances more than the 9s or above.
2 - On average, I enjoyed the lower rate ones more than the higher rate ones.

Go figure!  So you think I am running out to see a $400-$600 porn star anytime soon?  LOL

The reality is that this service provider based business model is completely based on "what the market will bare" (yes, I mis-spelled it).

First, was it a service comparable in type, quality and price to others?

If yes, then get over it or don't see her again.

If not, then you have to compare apples to oranges. Maybe she's telling the truth, maybe not. The bottom line goes back to my subject line.

Is there value for you, or not?

and you will lose that "mangina" status. lol

I found it amusing that even she recommended "negotiating" with the provider in question. That has got to be a first around here, A provider actually recommending negotiation. lmao