These things happen but there are all sorts of reasons and all sorts of variations.  But once you "expect" or "demand" that providers give you extra time or OTC or whatever, it aint gonna happen.  

BTW OTC time probably has little to do with sexual prowess.  Time spent together OTC which is not spent in bed certainly shouldnt be directly linked to prowess.  And extra sack time is rare (if you dont count not clock-watching)and when it does occur often has some extra reason your friend forgot to mention (booze or drugs come to mind).  I suppose that once in a blue moon it's just because she's having fun -- and has no other appointments, of course.

But all in all, your friend sounds like an asshole.

I have seen many a provider off the clock, and I too have dated more than a few ladies in this business. I never thought it had anything to do with my sexual prowess(or lack thereof lol). I just chalked it up to the fact that sometimes two people like each other.

I have never resented a lady for needing to make a living, and I don't believe in bargaining a girl down on her price(it just seems to take away from the experience).IMHO some guys just suffer from a combination of a vivid imagination mixed with an extra large ego, which makes them think that every woman in the world wants them.

It sounds like your friend may be trying to convince himself of his sexual prowess, or that  he is just extremely egotistical.
From previous threads on this board, it sounds like off-the-clock time as well as dating relationships happen from time to time.  I feel that all of that should be initiated by the provider.  I agree that if a hobbyist starts to expect or demand "extras", that will most likely push the provider away. And trying to bargain the girls down on their rates? To me, that is just classless.

Runningman

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I too have seen women off the clock; all the time when we clicked from the first moment of meeting.  Most of the time I see a person more than once, so theres the opportunity to build up a relationship as well as sexual compatability.  Most often, I'll make a really off hand comment; if she picks up the ball then you know that she was truly interested in dinner, etc.  Having sexual prowess and the good luck to have a person like you enough to have dinner etc. with you are two different issues and should not be confused.  I'd be ashamed to try to get something for nothing; I'm a good lover but she still has to pay the rent after I'm gone.

things? Can't be, can it??  LMFAO  Like the old says says, if i had a nickel for every time i heard a hobbyist boast about something... lol

Do you want us to think he's a liar or a stud?