I was doing a little DATY teasing, blowing, lightest of touches, brief caress and breath. We had time, were relaxing, sensually playing after some hard sex, and I was enjoying the view, toying with the sensations, watching her response. She let me do that for a while, and then just shoved herself in my face so all I really had to do was hold my tongue there while she used me like a toy to get to the spot that needed attention. The orgasm, real or not, came very quickly.
It was wonderful. Not saying I do not love giving a lady a shuddering, shivering orgasm (which I am sure has really happened at least once), but those moments when I feel really desired, needed, the object of almost uncontrollable lust, that is one hell of a rush for this old guy.
Tease and release when done well to me is also great.
But I would not say any of these things are the one best thing - variety, exploration, novelty are what keeps it fresh, exciting. Ask me tomorrow, and I am sure there wiil be something else that blew me away.
zig
What is the sexiest thing about a woman...To me its the point where you have made them have an orgasm....Nothing hotter then that IMO!!!!!
blah, blah, blah.
But then I thought about it and began to think:
You make a heck of a good case there.
Bringing a lady to an actual orgasm (or two or three) is certainly exciting and at the top of my list of things I want to do during a session; however, I am not sure I would count it as the sexiest thing... here are a few things I would put on that list:
1. Girl Next Door / Sex Kitten - IMHO, there is nothing sexier than meeting the GND, who looks innocent, sweet, and shy (librarian type), and then she flashes you that look - the one that says, oh yeah, I am so going to jump your bones...
2. The Reveal - a lot of ladies will greet you in lingerie; however, when I am on travel and the ladies visit me at my hotel, I find it incredibly sexy to slowly discover these hidden treasures by slowly undressing her, or via a private striptease.
3. That First Kiss - meeting a new lady can always be awkward, as much for them as for you, but that first kiss sets the tone for the entire session - it can be incredibly sexy or incredibly dull - I have had sessions ruined (for me) because the first kiss just did not excite me. But, when you do get that fireworks kiss, very sexy.
4. Take that hair down - I was with one provider, who had her hair up, and then when she was riding me, she undid it so that it fell down (very hot).
5. The Disappearing Act - I can still remember the first time I was with a provider who allowed CIM and swallowed. I was still very much a newbie, and did not have private access to reviews, so I had no idea that she allowed this. But watching her take my load and make it disappear was very sexy...
Once a man that I care deeply about told me something like:
" A woman who is an enigma is most sexy, someone who is both sensual and seductive and a mystery whom you never tire of trying to figure out, yet knowing that you will never fully own her is what makes her eternally sexy"
Very profound words that still ring in my ear from time to time,
Sitara
the sexiest thing about a woman is not when I MAKE her have an orgasm, it's when she loves sex and is so heavily invested in the action she demands an orgasm and takes it from me...
I was doing a little DATY teasing, blowing, lightest of touches, brief caress and breath. We had time, were relaxing, sensually playing after some hard sex, and I was enjoying the view, toying with the sensations, watching her response. She let me do that for a while, and then just shoved herself in my face so all I really had to do was hold my tongue there while she used me like a toy to get to the spot that needed attention. The orgasm, real or not, came very quickly.
It was wonderful. Not saying I do not love giving a lady a shuddering, shivering orgasm (which I am sure has really happened at least once), but those moments when I feel really desired, needed, the object of almost uncontrollable lust, that is one hell of a rush for this old guy.
Tease and release when done well to me is also great.
But I would not say any of these things are the one best thing - variety, exploration, novelty are what keeps it fresh, exciting. Ask me tomorrow, and I am sure there wiil be something else that blew me away.
zig
Agreed - there is a rush to bringing a lady to orgasm. I once met a semi-pro (struggling artist) in San Fran, who needed some extra cash. I was able to bring her to three orgasms via DATY, and they were real ones because she begged me to call her again next time I came to town...
It can be a super rush when it is real (and not just the lady faking it to make you feel better about yourself...lol).
Agree...And I meant when you know its a real one..Not any other time it happens
I will agree with you about the power of seeing a woman having an orgasm. But the word that always comes to mind for me is not "sexy", but "vulnerable."
The sexiest thing about a woman, in my mind, is something I did not notice before. For example, how really soft the skin of her neck is, or how slim her wrists appear.
I realize this is subjective, and sure there are things like body styles, clothes, triats that make a woman sexy,however when you know you have made a woman have a really good orgasm that's when to me a woman is sexiest. Nothing excites me more!!!!!
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