I had no idea what I was doing over seven years ago.  I was in a strange city, bored, with nothing but a few drinks to entertain myself.  I started calling the personal ads you used to see in the free, independent newspapers distrubuted in the hotel lobby, until I got someone to dispatch an outcaller.  I had done this a few times before, with mixed results.  The girl who came to my room was a young sweet black girl, my first black experience, for sure.  A little tall for me, only a few inches shorter than me (6 ft), and perhaps not model material.  But she was thin and tight, and had a naive submissiveness that I should have appreciated more.  She didn't say no to anything, and acted like a horny girlfriend.  Ended up doing greek, she didn't complain that we didn't have lube, and I did not know that this may have been hurting her until I saw faint blood on the sheets afterwards.   She took a shower, told me I was a good lover, gave me a deep kiss and even gave me some extra covers for the rest of the weekend.  I definitely would have been more appreciative and accomodating on my part had I been more "educated" in the hobby at the time, and if I ever come across her again, forget the name, I'd like another try.

other than the lube thing, anyways?

Sounds like it was a pretty hot time.

"Taking one for the team" by visiting with and reviewing providers who have no reviews at the time I met with them has worked out well for me in most cases -  but I don't do backpage / CL -  it's mostly been through some known reliable agencies...  

My first time, I knew nothing, I stubbled onto an ad website while looking at personals. I thought about it for awhile, made an appointment. Lucky for me it was a great lady and we had a great time. I sure didn't know what I was getting, but lucky for me it was a great GFE and it blew my mind. I think back; if it had been one of the few bad experience P4P I have been with since then I probably would not of returned and would of never got into the hobby. I didn't play again for over a year. I have since then tried to no avail to find the same woman but she has either moved on or retired.

Well, I probably would have staged things better, since she was definitely a submissive personality.  I wouldn't have had any drinks before, as that always hazes things for me and inhibits my performance.  And I would have been nicer and more appreciative.  On a more selfish note, I may have asked if she was a swallower; for me, that's incredibly hot, and haven't had it in the hobby.

But it is probably worth it in the long run.

For example, I like to do COF, and at least 3/4 of gals I have asked were either enthusiastic about it or willing to try it once.  The rest just politely demurred, except for one who just got up and walked right out of the room.

You just never know sometimes.

That's always the dilemma.  I ask, "do you do fetishes," if there's a good response on walking in.  If yes, then I elaborate.  Problem is, the catch 22.  "I'm willing, but you have to tell me first, but I won't discuss particulars before I meet you."

bar where providers hung out and they came and sat down at our booth.  Soon the talk got around to what are you looking for?  We ended up going to their motel and each of us was with one of the girls in separate rooms, until we popped.  No such thing as GFE back in the 1970's.

Oh well, if she seems like a keeper anyways, you can always arrange something for next time.