I've been told by a couple of ladies over the years that I was their favorite customer. It's flattering but it's tough to tell if it's sincere. I certainly believe that ladies have some guys they look forward to seeing more than others.  Of course, this preference is based on how well they are treated by the guy and not on any kind of "performance" considerations.

From the hobbiest point of view-  I'm not sure I'd want to know if I was a provider's ATF.

It's hard enough for me to accept the necessary boundary of the provider/hobbiest relationship with the ones I really enjoy- tend to walk away from the really enjoyable gfe experiences a little high and wishing it could be different until a couple days of honest thinking gets my head on straight.

One recent provider with her head on particularly straight explained the dilemma to me particularly well- said that providers are human too and can suffer the same pangs as hobbiests, but that she forces herself to stay entirely realistic about "future possibilities" knowing that all possibilities are a dead end street for a variety of reasons.

Knowing I was an ATF would blur the boundary and probably make me want to run in effort to keep it strictly NSA both ways.

We escorts are rather sincere as a group. And we are also sparing with certain types of praise. If you were complimented, appreciate it. You must be pretty special.

"If I'm a MILF, then you're a DILF!  In fact, you are without a doubt my favorite DILF!"-- an unsolicited direct quote from one of my 2 ATF's.  And trust me, I know it was sincere!

I've never told any of them though... I guess I'm still a little shy underneath it all. And I'm not quite sure what I'd do if the boundaries were blurred in this arena, so it's safer to keep it to myself...

What determines ATF, in my case? It's not the size that counts - and that includes the size of the tips It's about how comfortable we feel together, and our common interests in sexual exploration. I've got a bit (a bit more than a bit?) of a kink, so it's nice to find someone I feel comfortable enough around to indulge with.

Of course, a generous and giving attitude will go great lengths with any of us