I went to an AMP that advertised
a new young girl and when I got there
I asked about "The new young girl"
and the owner said there wasn't any!
So I walked away and left.

The conversation didnt match at all to our email conversation.  
It was a red flag for me that he either lied to me in email or it was a different person all together and had help with the email and screening part.  

I don't offer a cancellation fee, or "taxi money" in the case of an outcall, or any reward whatsoever for lying to me.

Like you, I wish every other guy would do the same thing. The only reason that women pull this shit is that they know that most guys don't have the stones to cancel, either because they don't want to "hurt her feelings" he is scared of a confrontation, or all the blood has rushed from his "big head" and he is too horny to think straight.

As long as guys put up with it, there will always be B&S and ROB providers lurking in the shadows trying (and succeeding) to make a dishonest living.

when he filled out my General Description area on my Appointment form - looked nothing like what he wrote eg. put blonde hair, 5'10", white - yet some brown haired latino guy shows up.

Fortunately this has never happened to me as I've always seen only reviewed providers for exactly the reasons you stated, primarily fear of confrontation.  Not that I'm a pussy or anything, but who needs to have some girl freaking out drawing attention, or worse, a pimp standing in the shadows who is going to rob you one way or another.

With the hot pics if they took a few minutes to run the images through tineye or google images most of them would not even waste the gas or their time.
From what I have heard from the guys I have spoke with who unfortunately have had a B&S experience.
I think out of the few guys I spoke with only a couple actually turned the lady away or looked through the peephole saw it was not the same lady as the pictures and did not open the door.
The bait and switch people would be out of business if all of the guys thought like you.

The last time was about a year ago. I went to see a provider who was supposed to be 5'4" and 105 lbs. I get there and see a beach ball about 5' and 140 lbs. So I told her she was not the provider in the photo and she whips out a photo of herself that was probably 5 years old and said "see that's me" I just shook my head.

The more that do this hopefully the less it will happen.

I think it's fine to cancel if there's been dishonesty, of course.  But I have to wonder about how naive some guys are.  Like falling for ads with professional pictures of supermodels. Why would that girl be charging 80 dollars an hour on BP?

For me, the recurring nausea I experience when thinking back to the times I actually paid to doink something I wouldn't touch for free without being stone-drunk is far worse than the brief discomfort of turning on your heels and walking away.  If you're nice, you can always leave a small meat-and-greet fee and chalk it up as an expense for the learning experience.  As to AMPs, you shouldn't feel bad about that at all.  They totally expect it.  They might give you some false pouting, but they know the score.

just because a guy is foolish enough to fall for an obvious B&S ad in the first place doesn't mean he should have to follow through on his error once it's plain she is a liar and a fraud.

Of course never booking in the fist place is the smart thing to do, but once the scam is revealed he should feel no obligation to reward a liar by going through with the session, or being guilted into paying a "cancellation fee". It's simple, a woman lies to me in order to induce me into booking with her, she doesn't get a single red cent from me.

That only reinforces the notion that she is somehow "owed" something. Let me repeat, when a person attempts to deceive you, don't reward them for trying to fuck you out of your money. Give them nothing, except for perhaps an earful.

You are 100% correct. Paying them just encourages them to continue the practice. Even if it's $50. That's $50 for 2 minutes of nothing but deception, not to mention the wasted travel time and blue balls at our expense.

I don't take chances with BP same thing happened to me on Eros when I first started n the hobby.  

not the gal in the pictures.  what makes me stay, is the gal is a close enough approximation to the gal in the pic, Same ethnicity, hair, height and weight are in the ball park.

on a new lady I wanted to see. Found out last minute her pics were WAAAAYYYY Off.4as well as she was not on line for 3 days so I got a bit nervous.

Which ends up costing more if they also get robbed , which many do but won't say. And then there is the upsell which also happens . Penny wise dollar foolish.

Called for the incall asain massage FS.  Add said 24 and DD.  Asked during texting please be honest, are you really 24.  She said 27.  Said okay, close enough, drove over.  Walked in, probably 40 something, thin, no tits.  Plus two beds, one not made and a bad vibe.  I just shook my head, said you are not even close to picture or 27, said this is not happening and left.  She tried to persuade me.  Best part, just as I got back in my car, sheriff cruised the parking lot.  I think it was only timing, not a sting, but got my butt out of there.

I've used BP 3 times, the second time a girl arrived that was a completely different race than her photos. I'd like to say that I'm absolutely not racist, I was just looking to spend some time with someone close to the advertised photo on that particular day. So, after she walked into my room and I said "you aren't the girl in the ad" she said "I don't put my real photo online for security purposes". I said "I understand", handed her $20 for gas money and politely asked her to leave. You might ask why would I use BP a third time and my response would be "I was stood up by a provider I had scheduled time with and I really wanted to spend time with someone". I can tell you it was a mistake all three times and it won't happen again. If we don't learn from history, we are doomed to repeat it.

Have you ever been to
that place before?

Got to the Incall and the look of the place made that little guy inside of me start screaming.  I listened and just drove away 'no call, no show.'   Done it a couple of times.