I always try to get providers who offer GFE and reviews show they kiss. Kissing attractive women is so intimate and really turns me on. I’m 55, and have had ED issues sometimes when I go to providers who don’t kiss.

Exaggerated reviews and YMMV.  Honestly are you surprised, especially with kissing, that mileage varies? Yes they pick and choose and it’s pretty understandable.  

that after getting the brush-off for kissing the first time, and reading reviews that she has kissed other guys, you would make an appointment to see her again without verifying when you booked that kissing would be on her menu for you.  Your ED was because you finally realized that she was not into you.  There are many guys who have selective ED that way.  Some tell me the way around it is using Trimix.  Your boner takes on a life of its own independent from your brain and any insecurities or concerns you have.  You can't even WILL it to go soft until the chemicals have been metabolized.

Your mileage may vary…from my own experiences I have been fortunate that most providers I find on TER and p411 who will kiss….i have even had a few who would not kiss on the first encounter, only later to open up and passionately kiss. I attribute that to good chemistry, good hygiene, and fair treatment!  Yes some of these reviews are embellished, but if your personal needs are not being fulfilled, I would move on, especially since many new young hot providers have the attitude that they really don’t have to!

As providers typically don't care about that as they tend to REALLY care about hygiene, imo. I am not saying you fell short in that area but there could be a number of reasons why she didn't kiss you. I think everyone experiences what happened to you if they play long enough. It just it what it is. Their body, their rules.

DFK is one of the criteria that TER requires to increase a provider's score by a point.

This provider doesn’t put in her ad that she kisses. So she isn’t falsely claiming that she does. I thought she did based on the reviews by several reviewers saying she was a great kisser.

1. Say to her, "I hope you have good oral hygiene. I hate kissing girls with bad breath." Maybe she'll resond with, "Bad breath?! I'll show you bad breath!" followed by DFK proof.
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2. Tell her you're really a prince.

When booking this gorgeous provider did you send a selfie of you holding your id? I would imagine if an entertainer only kisses people she’s attracted to you this would be a good way to know lol. Smile for me!  
Unless you have an obvious outbreak that’s visible, or really bad breath I don’t see why any professional GFE would not still provide you with a kiss. 💋  

I always ask if I can kiss them.  I can't recall if anyone ever said no.  Maybe once or twice??  
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But it's not a big deal for me.  No matter what restrictions they have, there has always been something they could do to "entertain" me.  

This has happened a few times over a decade of playing or so. Only one I can recall. Maybe one other. A few I knew going in they didn't kiss so it was no surprise when they didnt DFK me so they don't count. Where we differ though is that DFK is VERY important to me as it sets the mood and gets me excited. lol.

Typical kissing is kind of a sign of friendship to me.  However BDSM type kissing is pretty hot.  That's where you maybe grab them by the back of their head, tilt their head back and start sucking on their face.  A nice show of dominance.  Also when you are pounding them in missionary, sucking on their face is also pretty dominant/hot.

Well, I've been doing this since I was eighteen & a half. And a Provider has the right to decide what services she wants to give to each Hobbyist. The Hobbyist does not have the right to demand or force a Provider to do what she does not want to do at that time (Unless he is willing to pay more then what she is charging).    

I do kiss and very much enjoy kissing, and it is nothing to do with attraction and everything to do with hygiene.  
Floss+brush teeth+brush your tongue+mouthwash. Do this right before your visit. If you have facial hair SCRUB it well before your visit. Also what you eat and your digestive health can have a huge impact on your breath.  
Eat light and healthy before a visit (think fresh fruit and veggies) stay away from onions, garlic, fried food, heavy meat, dairy.  
Also I will not kiss a client if he has any obvious tooth decay or is missing any teeth. These germs can pass from person to person from kissing and this is a risk I am not going to take.  
I have had guys that have not been to the dentist in years and have obvious gingivitis and plaque buildup and brush their teeth for a whole 10 seconds every morning and are dumb founded when I tell them kissing is off the table. (You should brush for 2 minutes twice a day plus everything I covered above)  
Not sure if this is the case here with you, but a very good start for visits to providers, and to your health.  

That is not the point here!  Client was expecting a service others had been offered and he was denied! We all know the cliche my body my rules!

Tooth decay germs can be in any person, not just those with visible decay.  Chew Xylitol containing gum to destroy these germs.  Here are some snippets from a US Gov publication on the benefits of Xylitol for tooth decay prevention.  And also a link to the full paper.

And you reminded me I really need to go see Florida again. Meet you for real and kiss you till my lips fall off.  

Bob Hope did the "kissed her on the veranda" joke first.  Unfortunately I can't remember in which movie.

Did he really? I’m gonna look that up and watch it. Good stuff.

So you were born in the middle of a meltdown. That must be why you’re so damn hot.  

Hope has some interest in (I can't remember what exactly) a chick and a friend informs him that she saw another man kissing her on the veranda. Hope kind of gulps with a nervous shocked look and repeats as if a question "Right on the veranda?"  Or something like that.  I wish I could remember the name of the movie.

Excellent advice! Listerine is crucial.

I have a provider I’m well acquainted with, having seen them at least 8-9 times. They never kissed me during the first 7-8 encounters; at most a small closed-lip kiss during missionary maybe once.

I've had similar experiences.  I always aim for GFE+ ladies but sometimes a lady will be very attractive but only offer LFK.  I'll still book.  One lady who is a knock out (10/10) I met a year ago.  Two hour session.  First 45 minutes was slow and easy going.  Light kisses, but once we got into heavy sex she started losing it and I went in for a DFK and she returned it amazingly.  The rest of the hour was nonstop DFKing and pounding.  Tongue down my mouth, telling me how to fuck her, etc.  None of her reviews mentioned these things.  She ended up giving me her real number (she is from Brazil and used a local agent) and mentioned she'd text me the next time she was visiting my area.

Definitely YMMV.

That's unfortunate. I love to kiss on a date regardless who it is. I just think it's really fun and it's a great way to warm up to other things

Since your official name is PRINCESS Chloe Mercer, does that mean that Queen Bia is your mom?  

In nine years of this I've had plenty of providers tell me looks do matter.  This is real life and while it's a job to them it's easier to have sex with someone who's reasonably good looking versus someone who is ugly or grossly overweight.  That's just common sense.  I only know one guy in RL who also does this and sometimes we compare experiences.  It's interesting to see which ladies do DFK, how much, BBBJ, more GFE, etc.  

Very cute question :p

would be amused.  Lol   You have a very nice website.  

I call BS, Robert.