For consultation services

50 minute appointment = $260

I used to see a lady who would do that fairly often. We'd discuss her problems with her boyfriends and all that jazz.

As I am properly qualified to speak about these things and charge a fee for same; I simply asked that time spent discussing problems with her love life at least be off the clock and since she wasn't paying me, anything I said be off the record.

Worked fine. There were many "3 hr" appointments where we spent 1.5 hrs talking about her life and 1.5 (compensated) hours having hot sex. She dropped the rate on the 1.5 hours to compensate me for MY professional time.

Sometimes you just have to speak up. Assert yourself. Grow a pair.

Tell her: a little less talk and a lot more action.

Yes I Have Advice.....

You Should Have Seen Me Instead....heheheheheheehhe.....

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That usually works.

call agency and tell them to set you up with someone who is not batshit crazy.

It really is THAT simple. Provider will be upset but fuck her if she don't like it, she should find another job.

What's that saying, "leave your drama for your mama" cause she's the only one that wants to here it.  Unfortunetly you got stuck having to hear it.  I mean, she knew that you would listen because she had you for an hour.  It's girls like that who make it harder for guys to be comfortable with trying out newbies.  Not all of us are that way.  Believe me I get it and Im hoping to "get it" soon.  Since Im new,  I do NOT have the case of the burn outs and AM ready to have some fun

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I don't like or tolerate gent's bitching about providers when in session with me.  But I swear I do not understand how so many people complain about a session or the provider's lack of attention in the session when they clearly did NOT address this in the session.  If got a review in '06 that said a 2nd cup was NOT available.  It was, I even asked the guy if he wanted to do anything else, he said no.  When I saw the review I asked him, WTH?  And he assumed that the provider was suppose to physically initiate the second cup, on every appt.  That's just not how it works and if he had said or indicated in any way he wanted to go for round 2, I was there for it.  USE YOUR WORDS.  At worst, "is this not a good day to session with you?  Are you too upset to afford me your attention?"  

xxx
Jinni