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Just my thoughts about it
Relky 20 Reviews 6616 reads
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1 / 8

Several times I've contemplated seeing traveling providers who are visiting my area. But often their schedules seemed to be jam-packed with client after client. For example, I recently made an appointment with a visiting escort but I was delayed a half-hour due to unforseen circumstances. When I contacted the provider to let her know I was going to be late, she suggested rescheduling because she didn't want me to be rushed,  nor did she want another client showing up while I was still there. She was very cool and apologetic about it, but unfortunately our schedules did not coincide for the rest of her visit.

I don't know about other hobbyists, but part of the fun is that the escort MIGHT actually be enjoying the encounter as well. However, when I think of myself as her "2 o'clock appointment" sandwiched between a dozen others, it sort of ruins that fantasy.

I once contacted a respected Florida agency which regularly sends providers up north. The ladies are all well-reviewed and consequently are solidy booked up from noon to 10 p.m. For me, that kind of turnover just ruins the mood. It would be too distracting, knowing in the back of my mind that a guy had recently departed and another was about to arrive. (In a previous posting -- I believe it was by iceman -- he told of one encounter where he could actually taste the condom of a previous client during DATY.) Obviously, most fellow don't mind this arrangment because the girls' dance cards are always full.

Ladies, I understand this is your profession and you want to maximize profits, especially on the road with travel expenses. But just how enjoyable can it be to be seeing a dozen guys a day?

I'd greatly appreciate any provider viewpoints as well as any client viewpoints.

Thanks.

MyLifeAsMe 8 Reviews 5603 reads
posted
2 / 8

Excellent question, and topic for discussion, as I have often wondered the same thing myself....

The thought of sharing intimacies with a woman after another guy has done the same ABSOLUTELY leaves me cold, so I try to do a couple things.

1) It has been my observation that the independents I tend to see, those upscale enough to not be "production line", yet not popular enough (read: porn star) to have much more business than time, typically will only see one guy a day, because, typically, they either have another "civilian" job, or they are out of work for whatever reason, which is why they are in the business, but really don't think of escorting as a full time endeavor (for whatever reason, they don't want to be become that)

2) When I go the agency route I ALWAYS ask to be first appointment of the evening. I have flexibility in that regard because I work for myself (there is an older post regarding a self employed guy and "verification" problems...I can *SO* relate) and I live alone. I have seen providers in the middle of the day, and early evenings, just to make sure I was "first in the pool".

Besides being squeamish at the thought of getting "sloppy seconds" (no insult intended ladies, I know you do your best to freshen up...it is a mental block for me), I am also left to wonder, just as you mentioned, how "enthusiastic" a performance I am to receive for my hard earned dollar from a woman who has seen 3 or 4 guys ahead of me. I mean...at some point it has GOT to become routine...and if I wanted routine, I can get that from my ex...lol.

I have to say I sort of chuckled when I read your post, because I might actually BE the sort of guy that you and I both feels cause trouble for all of us. In a post below "Sweetsable" makes reference to men who "want to 'Bust the bottom out' ". I have to admit I am guilty as charged. As I was reminded last night during an online chat with a friend "in the business" I have seen, I am not a "small" man, in more ways than one. Combine that with the fact that I am very slow on the draw when wearing a condom, and, well...suffice to say more than one lady has had to "tap out" (wrestlers term) when she couldn't take anymore. I have been told by another friend in the business who owns an agency that the two girls she has sent me BOTH went directly home after leaving my place, even though I was their first appointment, and despite the fact that they had originally planned to take calls all evening. "You just wear them out" she chuckles.

Sorry.......apologies to all....lol.

But back to the question...which I have asked my agency madame friend as well...just HOW MANY GUYS can a gal see in one day, and at some point, doesn’t it get to be at best mechanical, and at worse...just plain ole WORK???


Ladies...chime in please...

SNOW@SBC 5456 reads
posted
3 / 8

This is an exact conversation that I just had with a regular visitor of mine, which is also why he preferably tries to see independants, and when on the east coast have early appointments, or be the first appointment with a new girl, when booking through an agency.  

Because I am independent, my time is not as highly in demand, as it was when I worked through agencies, so now I see anywhere from one to three guys a day, depending on the circumstances, and the best I can say is take a shower between visits, so there is NO residue or energies in the aire that may be disconforting or unattractive to the next patron.  As you put it, if you freshen up between visits I dont know that those things should be an issue, but for the girls that work for madams, I know it is a little more hectic, in terms of multiple back to back appointments.  However a good madame, will encourage her girls if not demand of them to be extremely clean and sanitary, for every visit, as the girls represent the interest of the madame.  

In terms of too much, I think that is an individual choice, and I assume it is different for every provider, for instance I once had an appointment with a gentlemen for six hours and well to say the least it only lasted four, but the entire time we spent in bed.  I was exhausted by the time I got home.  I felt like I had just worked an eight hour job, and all I wanted was a nice bath and to sleep in my own bed.  Point being that sometimes it is not about how many but more about how much.  I mean first off $EX is one of the best forms of exercise in terms of burning calories, and most of us really enjoy our time, but there is a limit for all of us.  I think for me it is more about time then it is about multiples.  

Just my clouded opinion
Always Dripping Wet with Anticipation
SNOW

N.C.Tammy See my TER Reviews 5032 reads
posted
4 / 8

As a rather new provider I have made guidelines that I want to try my best to follow.
I have not seen more then one client a day, although I will see two as long as it would be a bunch call and an evening call.
I love sex and do not want to get to the point of feeling that it is just something else I have to do during the day like a chore.
Besides if I see a client that I really click with and he wears me out I don't want to be to tried for the next client that thats looking for a great time not a zombie.
I do not cancel appointments and I don't plan on it because of to much dicky from a pervious encounter. :-)

Just my thoughts,
Hugs,
Tammy

JennaX 5949 reads
posted
5 / 8

I hope I am not going to be putting my foot in my mouth by answering this question... .
On an average day I see two clients. I share a matinee with one client, and moonlight snack with another client. Providing a client with his fantasy for one hour takes a lot of non-physical energy out of me. After showering etc... I need to recenter myself and feel like me again. (Does that make sense?)
On a busy day I will see three clients and provide each one with Jenna X. at her best.
Less than a handfull of times I saw four clients the same day, and the fourth session tended to lack my fire. So, now I stop at three sessions, even if my pager is beeping like mad.
Cute&Kinky,
Jenna X.

P.S. Gangbangs are the exception to the 3 client maximum!

Talisman40 5073 reads
posted
6 / 8

is too much, at least for escort.  

That's just my personal taste.  

DC_Melinda 4614 reads
posted
7 / 8

This is one of the reasons I'm quitting the business after working for an agency for 4 months--way too many clients in one day.  Sure, sometimes there was dead (zip) days, but the average number was 3 and on busy days 5 was not unusual.  The most I had in one day was 6, and that was when I decided I'd had enough.  I agree with the above whole number (2) per day.  That will guarantee that each client will get my 100%.  If I ever decided to get back in the business, I'll come back as an independent and do this part time, and I know my body will love me for it.  :)
Hugs,
Melinda

SexyCurvesDC 5647 reads
posted
8 / 8

And I would not be able to walk out of the room when I was done. =:O Holy mother of god... I don't know how anyone could see that many clients in a day!  I have to give it to those girls because they have far more stamina than I do.  Also since I always leave at least an hour of prep/shower/relax time in between my appointments (I taste *good* and intend to keep it that way!), I wouldn't physically be able to see 12 a day unless I was working a 24 hour day, which I assure you... I am NOT willing to do. =:O

How many is too many? However many causes a lady to be so tired and worn out that she is unable to really focus on giving you pleasure. That number obviously varies from lady to lady a great deal!  

Dozens are for eggs... not for this 'biz =:O LOL

Hugs*
Nicole

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