Had a wonderful time with a lady who loved daty and clearly was turned on by it as evidenced by her biting the pillow to quiet her screams. The only issue was she never spread her legs and kept closing them making it more challenging. She even said at one point she was going to squirt and them closed her legs to make me stop. I asked if she was enjoying it (and for instructions) and she said she was sensitive. She also enjoyed FIV.
Any advice for next time? I really want her fully spread and hopefully get her to squirt.Try not being so gullible. Lol
...you are right, but I have come to accept it, sadly. lol
If I’m enjoying myself as much as she claimed too with FIV & DATY why would you not open your legs? Sounds 🤨 suspicious 😒 idk I’m just a girl who enjoys getting her kitty licked if it’s done right I will climax, and possibly squirt. Why not just tell her to spread eagle for you? Closed mouths don’t get fed. Lol Smile for me!
Deep down, I am kinda shy. so I didn't say anything. Next time, I will!
I don't know, when it is really good I ask them to hold my thighs down because it's so intense they close.
I think a lot of the open legs are a porn thing. The build up of orgasm naturally makes the body tense up...til it explodes.
And also, I sleep with a lot of women too and they do the same thing when close.
I prefer motionless to fake. Too distracting.
necrophilia. That's about as "motionless" as it gets. Lol
pretty similar to fake! HA!
I wish more (any) would be honest about wanting daty or not. I do it out of professional courtesy. If they don't want it, that's just more me time. So please be honest.
I had one tell me I was the only one she let cip. It was cute. Comical but cute.
I had one from Vegas tell me the same thing. I felt special for a brief minute.
Always tough on the provider to discern who genuinely wants an honest exchange when they ask what you're into and who is just baiting you into communication only to complain vociferously when they don't get what they want. It's pretty exhausting tbh. Personally, I just made a decision a long time ago to not pander and be clear with the client if they ask about my preferences. But I'm also a huge slut who is pretty sexually open so I guess this issue is moot most of the time lol.
.... during DATY, which makes it very challenging for the woman providing it. Sometimes my legs will instinctively slam shut at the beginning of an O, so I guess that might be more common than I had realized. So perhaps this provider was the same way? Of course she could be faking it, but just wanted to flag that this type of situation is not unheard of.
I've encountered a few women who instinctively close their legs when they're maximally stimulated. It just happens. My response is to let them enjoy the moment. If they'll allow a few more licks, all the better.
In P4P, it could be that or just a lady telegraphing that it's time to move on. Either way, same reaction as above.
Having said that, being a very visual creature, my strong preference is to see a woman spread her legs as wide as she can. And I'll do all the worshipping she'll let me.
This derogatory comment about provider hygiene jus shows your inexperience with women in general. In my own extensive experience, I have found, as a group, providers' hygiene standards are significantly higher than civvie women. Ther are outliers in both groups, but collectively, when it comes hygiene, I think providers are better at keeping the parts I'm interested in clean. Calling civvie women "the clean world" rather than providers is back-asswards.
on the K-girl board:
"...(K-girls) will not usually let you watch while they clean the creampie remnants out of their pussy, so us assuming that they DID do it requires a leap of faith, to say the least."
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/k-girl-113/you-are-correct-----32336?page=1
there were outliers on both sides. Sadly, you still don't know when I'm being mildly humorous unless I specifically say, "Lol."
"The Clean World" clearly does NOT refer to providers' hygiene. But you knew that.
Congrats on being the most compulsively combative poster on TER.
That said, I'm pretty bad myself. So it's nice to have someone like you to give me cover.
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We're you referring to the guy who posted about having multiple STDs over and over and wears it like a badge of honor?
that of a third-grader. If you do the math, it amounts to one STI for about every 150 providers I have seen. If you think that amounts to "over and over" you are a complete moron. It's not a badge of honor, but it's the reality of the situation for mongers who are high-volume. Of course, you wouldn't even come close to knowing that because you are a marginal hobbyist. Your dick spends more time in your hand than in a pussy. Lol
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Odd take.
Do you think the extra hygene is due to the 20x the amount of different dudes sticking dicks in them?
I do.
Its apples and oranges.
Masters and Johnson pioneered studies on Human Sexual Response.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masters_and_Johnson#Four-stage_model_of_the_sexual_response
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I never read all of their works, but I do remember that they observed that some M and F curl their toes while jacking / jilling off so you've got "toe curlers" and "non-toe curlers." I don't know if they studied the leg angle preferred by women (or men). I'd have to guess that they did: acute, right, and obtuse.
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I'll let you know if I'm ever in your area (CA), and I can stop by with my protractor!
.... during DATY, which makes it very challenging for the woman providing it. Sometimes my legs will instinctively slam shut at the beginning of an O, so I guess that might be more common than I had realized. So perhaps this provider was the same way? Of course she could be faking it, but just wanted to flag that this type of situation is not unheard of.
a few years ago for several months that liked both sex and DATY with her legs in a straight angle. It was weird at first, but I learned to appreciate it after the first few times. It rolled her pubic area up a little for better access.
The straight angle is popular among cheer leaders and gymnasts. The reflex angle, otherwise known as "ankles behind ears," is popular among yoga practitioners. (The circular arcs [and right angle] in the figures represent the va-jay-jay. Arrow points are feet or toes.)
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I still don't know the if M&J studied this important issue. Is there any data on orgasm pleasure (OP) vs angle (theta)? But I'd like to collect some data from willing volunteers! I will bring my own protractor!
a few years ago for several months that liked both sex and DATY with her legs in a straight angle. It was weird at first, but I learned to appreciate it after the first few times. It rolled her pubic area up a little for better access.
