Is the amount you spent something you want to know, or not think about?
And don't want to know. Probably too much but hey, you can't take it with you.
$4,000 I think. Would've liked to have spent more though.
I normally hobby when I go on vacation, and my last vacation to Chicago, I stayed with a friend, so no hobbying there.
I saw a few body rub girls, and only in the last few months, so approximately $600.
I don't see full service girls anymore. That makes my total conspicuously less than it would be otherwise.
Almost $20,000 but one high end provider accounted for almost half that. I probably became addicted to this hobby which is never good and very pricey. I don't have another $20,000 so I won't have another year like the last one,but I need to think with the big head more and not the little one. I need discipline to say no to instant gratification and an escape from everyday life and if a provider I like comes to my city every month I don't need to see her every month and maybe just 6 times a year. Discipline mentally is what I need as I still want to do this hobby in moderation though.
My calculations: I think I'm spending more at strip clubs now. I definitely spend a lot more hours at strip clubs than with hookers. Unfortunately gaining weight drinking all that beer at strip clubs.
In other words, I don't really know.
Me too. I began my hobbying in stripclubs and got a bit burnt out with AMPs and escorts this past year. I always will find my way back to VIP and regain my enthusiasm all over again. As to how much money I've spent? Waaaaaay too much, but I don't keep track or care. Yolo baby!
The excitement of the chase.
As long as I'm living within my budget I don't worry or really pay attention.
'I spent half my money on gambling, alcohol and wild women. The other half I wasted.'
but probably between $25K and $35K.
That's about where I budget, and a quick mental calculation says it's pretty close.
This is payments to providers.
I don't count what I spend on hotels, meals, etc... in my fun time spending.
Give or take 15000 to 20000
But this is Aus dollars
Roughly 40k. Lots of duos and those hotel rooms for assignations add up.
Probably two kgirls a week for half the time! One a week for a quarter and one higher priced girl ($400-700) for a quarter. Mix those up weekly! Add in a few binges ( three days in a row), a few splurges ($700-1200) and a few doubles! That probably comes to $25-30k?! Ouch! I’m not going to be tempted into responding to this one again next year!
I try not to think about what I spend on escorts because I enjoy it so much. Plus I am not getting any younger.
A quick calculation of $400 per week over 50 weeks is $ 20,000 and probably a bit low. For sure much less than pre covid spending. Still it makes a guy think about how much value is received for that 20K. For the cream of the crop it was not enough, but for the majority it could have been spent in a better way. Great thread and question that causes some reconsiderations and soul searching.
I haven't seen a FS girl since 2015 or thereabouts. I find other options elsewhere more appealing.
In any event, it's still money spent. Or not.
We all have to determine how we get the most bang for our buck, and time.
60's now, I think it's safe to say I spent less this year than last year and more than I will next year. During my peak years I was spending six figures a year. Was I out of control? Yes. Am I better now? Also, Yes! I'm much more focused on quality now then quantity, so I tend to repeat more with the ladies I have a connection with.
Yow! I thought I was out of control .. my spend rose to $30k/yr during COVID, as I couldn't do other things (Travel, Socialize (Dining out, Drinks, Sporting Events, etc)) and I got lonely.
I used to see AAMP ladies once every six weeks, went 3x/week as they were the only ones working during COVID.
AAMP ladies are "strictly business", not much bonding or OTC time...
Makes me wish I had gone into Sales or Finance, those guys are the big spenders...
I keep a close eye on my spending and looking back at this year, I’m at $20,875 in hobby spend with $15.4K being donations. I don’t hobby in my home city so the rest was hotels and travel expenses not tied to non-hobby functions. I think this was my second highest spend year but I’m rethinking my “no hobby at home” rule so maybe next year will see donations up and travel spend down.
Just over $9K. $6K with my main squeeze and $3K+ catching up with old friends and a couple of new acquaintances.
I had to hit the like button on the poster & several responses. I love it! Thanks for sharing fellas. This makes the board rock harder in my book. Is there anything you would have done differently?
I should have bought more life insurance on the wife...and encourage her to drive at night.
Hmm, I can still try that.
I did keep track this year and between hobby and sugar dating it came to around 13k
10.5k on cash donations / sugar ppms & allowances
2.5k on hotels, restaurants etc
I would call this about average year for me
but of this, probably 4k was wasted on subpar experiences — too high !
next year my goal is to spend atleast as much or more, but keep that subpar experience number to a minimum as far as possible - I understand there will be some, but need to use what I’ve learned this year into vetting better for next year
When I had large expense accounts where there was no auditing. Lol. Went balls deep in so many sluts I’d get skin peeling on my cock from so much fucking. Like 5 days a week.
I thought 10,000 was a little to much, and I told myself I need to cut back, but my 10,000 is nothing compared to some of the hobbyists on here, so I guess I don’t have to cut back😀
For 42 adventures.
About average for me I guess.
I have never for one day wondered what anyone else spends.. I consider it none of my business.
Valid point but folks really like to benchmark, whether it be the average salary for pertinent occupations or the amount saved for retirement by age groups.
Every fucking dollar. Fuck prime ass and pussy. Walk away. Priceless.
...30K on other providers.
.... less than I wanted.
Being a part time hobbyist.
I'm processing all the 1099's as we speak
I started this thread for mongers spending on the hobby for the year.
It did occur to me to ask how the provider's made out for 2022, but that would be awkward.
Net of their 1099's of course .