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Some ladies (like myself) have a normal civie life work kids etc and aren't always able to text (nosey people rubber necking) If the lady tells u to email and you don't get a response just move on.  

Take care
Krystal Love

A lot of ladies DON'T take text requests... So if you see a number with an ad or on her website, don't assume she wants you to text. Read all info BEFORE texting or you may have just slammed the door in your face.

Also, there is a difference in a sincere request for an appointment and a nosey inquiry. Your statement sounds like a nosey inquiry. I am apt to delete your question and keep it moving because I am not telling any "stranger" when or where I am available. aka: time waster  

Your best bet is to contact  the lady in her preferred method of contact, email or call. Introduce yourself briefly, offer your expression to meet her with a specific date and time, and let her know you have the required screening info available if she is interested and available. Then let her answer you back. Some patience would be nice, some ladies are traveling and busy with other things besides appointments, so give her at least 24 hrs to respond. In the mean time, contact others that may be available for the date and time you have available to play. Option A, B, & C.  

I wouldn't suggest you blab all your reference info in the first contact unless she requires that. I would suggest getting pre-screened by local ladies that would accept a same day request if you happen to have unexpected free time. I would suggest that you respect that she is a person, and not a fast food joint, and your first impression is made while booking the appointment so get your stuff together and make it count.

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And use an email as the first line of communication.

I would look at that text and delete because it does not give a name, nor any screening info that you would have read about had you carefully read my website.

Clearly if you are not getting anything back would it not make sense to change your way of communication to something that does get a favorable response?

To do the same thing over and over and expect different results is the definition of insanity..............just sayin.  

We don't write all of that stuff out for shits and giggles, we write it in the hopes that you'll actually read it. If someone contacts me with nothing more than "hey, are you available?" (no screening info, no "I saw your ad on xyz", no attempts to do his research), then I'm going to assume that it's going to be a waste of time to respond with anything other than "please read my ad/website for my screening and scheduling requirements."  

Furthermore, if you're trying to get a same-day noon appointment, you're drastically lowering your chances of successfully getting through. I don't know where you shop exactly, but most of the ladies who participate here aren't available 24/7. I hate to sound harsh, but when a guy doesn't bother to take a few minutes to do his research, to me that's a sign of laziness. A lot of us just don't have time to keep regurgitating info that's readily available on our websites. Those appointments rarely end up panning out anyway (typically because they're last-minute, or because the guy also failed to check out our rates to see if we're even within his budget).  

Don't get me wrong, there are ladies out there who are willing and able to accommodate a new client at the last minute, but you'd likely get a much higher response rate if you do a little homework ahead of time.

If she accepts texts, that is.

If she does accept texts, say something like this: "Hi Jane Doe, I'm John and I would like to set an appointment with you for tomorrow at noon. I have all the required screening info. Thanks."

And, to be honest, I give guys a pass that don't email first if their text contains a lot of flattery.

You sound like a fogie texting a doctor. Can't say it'll work but try something like "hey" "saw your ad. do you have time to hang out? like around noon"
My text game's not that great but i learned its best not to interrogate girls over texting.

Many providers do. But how soon depends in what's going in and where I am. For one I have to be alone. Can't chance anyone finding out about my superhero life. And I will still need references and to check them/you out.  

  I wake up early , not at noon like someone mentioned. Lol

I have actually been with providers when they received texts like that, and they just shake their head and show me the text and say sonething like, "Can you believe this idiot? 'Wanna hang out?'...uhm NO!

Like everyone else said, you have to read our websites! All the info you need to know is in there. I have a screening form with 3 simple questions. Any emails that don't include all the info I requested (up front) get ignored.

That's a wise policy for both clients and providers, but some providers request texting. A client can ask her to go with email, but...mais en fin.

She knows what your intentions are. If someone texts her asking if she has time, she should know whats its for. Its just a way of asking without blatantly stating to hook up.

is "wanna fuck" better?

Btw, add more "and"s to your sentences. And please give us more advice as the dude who dates escorts.

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I know some providers do same day appointments but a lot do not.  Also it being noon is not the best timing for same day leaves little time for looking into you.

One thing I have come to realize is guys seem to forget we have lives outside this line of work. Some of us have schedules and have it posted on ads, our websites, etc biut guys seem to ignore it thinking we are available 24/7 so PLEASE do your research. Like a lot of the men and women posted, the providers you are texting may not accept texts and may have that stated on their website so I would do a follow up email (also in case they are out and about and not in area with good reception).

I have no problem with same day apts but I require the following steps to be taken
- 45 minute notice minimum (that is more than fair)
- Need to know what time you are looking to schedule (A question like "are you available" doesn't mean anything because there is no information)
- Length of appointment you are looking schedule (don't ask for time I don't offer)
- Did you read my ad/website and know that I have pets so you won't be shocked when you arrive? Did you see the information I have on my website that specifically state what not to expect so you don't have to waste your time or mine asking or pushing boundaries.

As you can see I don't require a lot but these 4 things seem to be extremely difficult for many men to do.  

xoxo
Malia