I also have a bit of a problem getting two shots off, so I enjoy fooling around for most of the session and leave just enough time at the end for some cuddling and shower.

Does anyone who's -- shall we say -- a bit older, have a problem with 2-hour minimums?  There are a number of ladies I'd like to see who will not do anything less than 2 hours.  The problem is that I'm now a one shot guy, and as much as I often enjoy the chit chat, etc, 2 hours usually involves a LOT of downtime.  It's not so much a question of cost, but rather cost/enjoyment.  

Gives me time to relax and I can usually get a second chance. Don't always climax twice but I can continue playing. It all comes down to what you can afford.

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This is especially true of a first meeting.  I am shy and generally spend the first 30 minutes looking at my shoes.  

Yes, I'm spending your money to make this happen so it's easy to say it.  But you might be surprised how different an evening can be with such a common goal.  Being brought to the edge but not over it (edging) can result in an amazing orgasm at the end, and some women really enjoy taking you on such a ride.  You still only get the one pop, but what a pop it is

Even if I've already met the provider, I still like time to get comfortable with her. I don't go non-stop, so I like a little time between activity just to cuddle and feel. It also takes me a long time to reach orgasm, so an hour may not be enough unless we get right down to business.

Hit the breaks and spend more time on the foreplay/roleplay/cosplay, mutual massage and the buildup to whatever gets you off. Edge play can be fantastic - where she takes you to the brink and then stops, cool off for a few minutes and then start again, repeat. You can fuck for a while and then stop and take a break before you finish, or just slow-fuck.  

I am older and in the same situation.  I don't do 2 hours with NEW ladies...you never know, you might not care for them (or vice versa) after just 15 minutes.  Anyway, I will do 2 hours with a few very special ladies, especially if I have to make a long (couple hours) trip to see them..  With them its more about the experience with them than just sex.  I genuinely care for them and enjoy their company.

... and I like to start with a 1 hour date to see how things go. Lately I've been doing mostly 90 minute repeat sessions. So while I enjoy 2+ hour sessions, even with only one pop (we always find other fun stuff to do), I guess a 2-hour minimum would be a deal-breaker for me. Fortunately for me, that's very uncommon for providers in my area.

I've always had a 2 hr minimum.  A few times while touring, I've tried the one hour thing but the guys always stayed for 2-3 hours and I felt taken advantage of.

Way too much intimate time. I start with one hour dates, 90 minutes sometimes, and then if we hit it off I go to 90 minutes and sometimes 2 hours.

Time flies way too fast for anything less than 2 hours most often than not and you are barely getting out the word 'hello', hey let's 'play' lol. I don't blame some ladies for offering a 2 hour minimum if that's not their speed, I know I do when I travel especially. And while I do offer a 1 hour at times, I think maybe twice overall in my personal career here did I ever actually entertain a *1 hour* and not a minute after. If he or I left when that clock struck 12 on the mark, it was only because we either had to be somewhere in real time  and there was an 'understanding' beforehand lol. And to me, I fully knew going in that'd be a downright 'quickie' in my book lol.  

does not mean you have to stay the entire 2 hours.  
Sometimes when I order a steak at a restaurant I cannot finish the entire steak but I don't ask the waiter to just sell me half the steak. Instead I pay for the full steak and leave the uneaten part behind. No one is forcing you to clean your plate.  Pay the minimum fee and leave whenever your appetite is satisfied.

I'm sorry Stevie, but this isn't match.com where I need to get to know anyone.

Your point is absolutely correct.  I think the two hour minimum is designed to avoid rushing.  In reality, what happens is that standards for both sides are up when it is a two hour time frame.   As a result time will not be an issue because the parties involved are not the types who really think in "time".  I personally do two hours once in while if I am away from the home area and know that I am not pressed to get home by a certain time.  I think it is more of a quality filter.  If the parties click, I guarantee that more than two hours will be spent together.

are you telling me a 'life story' comes out in 2 hours including Play?????? No way Jose lol, not in my book. You boys aren't playing right lol. If you take this SLLLOOOWWW no matter what age you are, then 2 hours should be fine for play only lol. I have a 90 minute tomorrow cause that's all I have time for and he'll get a 'hello' and if he's lucky a 'how are ya' LOL, let's get to it mister LOL. And I bet, he'll want to go over  

finishing in a doggie bag style?

Are 3 hours & 6 hours. Usually 1 hours don't work out because of the last minute need.

...If I can get a two hour session with a lady where she'll go home with me and we can finish later sign me up now!

In my experience, when I've done my homework in advance, 2 hours FLY by... it's only when I haven't done my homework when 2 hours seem terribly slow. Frankly, until recently I typically scheduled 3 or 4 hour minimums... but I guess 2 hours is typically plenty at my advancing age.    Though, when I'm out of town with no risk of running into neighbors or co-workers, it's still typically 3 hours to overnight for me... as I like dinner and time out on the town.  

Every guy seeks out a provider based on her hotness, price point, and amount of good gossip about how well she can suck and fuck and omg what will she do with my cock that probably hasn't already been done before, fine. But every guy's goal is different and many guys don't want a true GFE- tell me about you, let's cuddle, and make sweet luv til time is up session. OK cool. IF you want to just focus on getting yours and leaving, then yes, 2 hours is too much. I agree.  

Well said Ape!

She does fill your spank bank for future fun when you are alone.

I'm not really into HH. Quickies are just so unappealing to me.

1 hour with most providers I am seeing or the first time. Yes, there are exceptions depending on circumstances.

In my world I have many friends that I can enjoy conversation with.  I never have to pay someone to spend time with me to enjoy a show, or conversation.

I think it could have to do with the fact that you are awesome!   Just guessing, of course.

Ummm, I don't believe I'm the one complicating things here. There really is no need to spell anything out. I know all too well what goes on here on a daily basis. I'm a big girl ya know

Even at my advanced age I can still read, and comprehend quite well.

you are a fine gentleman at any age (but you still missed my point lol). That's ok, I totally understand yours and that's why this is a forum of discussion. To 'discuss' things, right Senator??? I would think you'd like a good debate afterall lol.  

I can understand 2 hour is probably fun for both parties but for someone who doesn't have a lot of disposable income it takes a long time to safe up just for 1 hour.  Most providers are very nice and fun to talk with but at the end of the day our relationship is just business based.  If I don't have money for the next trip that relationship ends the second I walk out the door.  I only do 1 hour sessions and I never bang for the whole hour.  Most providers are beautiful and skillful so I can only last like 15min at most lol, don't laugh.  I find 1 hour is plenty of time to get what I need and I can visit more often.

Choose. Do

... for a first-time visit. So many posters have said they prefer 2 or more hours. Actually, so do I, but with someone with whom I'm comfortable. For me, I want a one-hour option to use initially. If that goes well, I'll come back next time for 2 hrs or sometimes 3 hrs. If that 1-hr option isn't available, I move on.

I understand what you are saying.  Round two can take a long time, and it doesn't always happen.
Has made me consider trying some 1 hour dates, and going with some short-but-sweet experiences (actually, it would be more like my fun little visits with my AMP friends in that case).  Haven't done that yet though with providers, because part of this experience is relaxing with a lady, caresses her body, slowly building-back up for round two.

Very funny!

If, by "companionship", anyone means sitting and watching TV, that's not why I seek out women to pay. My idea of "companionship" is the pillow talk, cuddling, and touching the beautiful young women during downtime, and when the sex is over. It means almost as much to me as the sex.

Older, younger, married, single, limited funds, extremely wealthy.
And I think sometimes disposable income gets waved around on here in kind of a sideways brag, much in the same manner of the infamous big dick bragging threads.
And the reality is, for most people, the kind of money the AVERAGE hobbyist spends is really a hell of a lot for just an hour or two of fun.  But of course, this is precisely WHY we have so many lovely ladies willing to take care of our needs and put a smile on our faces...

But hopefully you at least TRY to engage the 1 hour guy with the same attitude, and aren't thinking right from the start that he is somehow an inferior client.  If both lady and gent bring good positive energy, you can still have a great time - even on a short date!

But not too many senators do pay attention to very much... other than ensuring their reelection, that is. Lol!  

Posted By: StevieStyles

are you telling me a 'life story' comes out in 2 hours including Play?????? No way Jose lol, not in my book. You boys aren't playing right lol. If you take this SLLLOOOWWW no matter what age you are, then 2 hours should be fine for play only lol. I have a 90 minute tomorrow cause that's all I have time for and he'll get a 'hello' and if he's lucky a 'how are ya' LOL, let's get to it mister LOL. And I bet, he'll want to go over  
   
 What am I missing here lol  
   
 xx kisses

Dear Rafater, and everyone else,

Lol, thanks. here's your 20 bucks for saying that!!

I thought I'd answer the question the best I could. I think guys like it in multiples of 3?

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I take offense at your statement that Senator's "do not pay attention to very much"... I'll have you know I paid a lot of attention to this young lady.  You'll have to excuse my colleague from Ohio, he is getting up there in years...

From a value perspective, I don't get a lot of value from a two hour session personally. I can easily cum in a one hour session, and two hours doesn't always mean two pops for me. Some guys pay for "time and companionship" others like me pay for "NSA sex" I have no need or desire to pay for companionship. I would actually prefer to have two one hour sessions scheduled a few hours apart, with a football game or two scheduled in between. lol

Funny, that is exactly what I do much of the time, and back a few years ago when my sexual appetite was larger, when in Costa Rica I would pretty regularly take a different chica upstairs every few hours for an hour or so with each. Instead of seeing one woman for the entire day, I would see four or five different women, with a bunch of time drinking at the bar in between sessions. Each to their own I suppose.

One hour sessions are perfect. Of course I've tried two hour sessions with magical ladies, but they haven't worked out as well for a variety of reasons. So it's always back to an hour. Now it's sort of a hard and fast rule. Except for this month, I'm planning two hours with a favorite lady. One hour Saturday, and one hour Sunday. And therein lies my philosophy. I'd much rather have two parties, than one.  

It takes me a while and I hate being rushed. Besides I can think of worse ways to waste am hour than cuddling with a hot intelleget nude lady while shooting the breeze and enjoying the glow and scents of sex. After all most of the ladies I met though this are interesting and fun people to talk with. But then again I am a mangina. Maybe I have too much estrogen to be typical. I would book longer dates but my wife will not let me. She correctly thinks two hours is long enough to get some strang.

the image of fucking Stevie for that long or you simply saying the word "fuck."   Damn, I am so easy!    Crap, now I have to do some work with some serious images in my mind

I guess sometimes my words get a lil too wordy (ok, most of the time lol) and I lose focus lol. Geezk, what was I thinking LOL.

Posted By: SoftlySarah

But not too many senators do pay attention to very much... other than ensuring their reelection, that is. Lol!  
   
 Here's what she said- again:  
   

Posted By: StevieStyles

are you telling me a 'life story' comes out in 2 hours including Play?????? No way Jose lol, not in my book. You boys aren't playing right lol. If you take this SLLLOOOWWW no matter what age you are, then 2 hours should be fine for play only lol. I have a 90 minute tomorrow cause that's all I have time for and he'll get a 'hello' and if he's lucky a 'how are ya' LOL, let's get to it mister LOL. And I bet, he'll want to go over    
     
  What am I missing here lol  
     
  xx kisses

   
 And I tend to agree. While I always offer my 90-minute friends refreshments, they barely get touched. Is that too subtle for you? Maybe this helps: She's saying that she likes to fuck for that long AT LEAST. And with her 90 minutes, she can't imagine much more than "hello" and "goodbye" being exchanged, let alone a life story.  
   
 Some guys have no imagination.

Let me count the ways.

And tell me that you have never had a date when time passed soooooo slowly that you thought the date would never end? Maybe even more than one date, say a lot more?

There are plenty of providers/clients to go around.  For many ladies who are working as escorts, they are not interested in nor have time for high volume which is why they have 2 hour minimums.  They are separating themselves from the 15 minute Backpage girls.  Good for them!    

I work in a legal brothel and I can tell you that men NEVER come here for sex.  They come here for female companionship and adventure, even though we sell sex

No.  

I agree with you. I would only do 2 hours if there was a deal/discount for the 2 hours and if it was a lady I REALLY loved to see. There would be a lot of downtime for me. Maybe a shower show or strip show or toy show in the downtime but most of the time it doesn't seem worth it to me.

Kate, you have a stellar reputation.  I'm sure you offer the full gamut of services and experiences.  But it makes me laugh to see that you wrote that you offer the "flu gamut," especially this time of year.  Like most guys, I know what you meant, but I thought the typo was hilarious.

Ha! Yes, that's funny. Okay, new promotion:

First of all if you chose 2 hours sessions with us you assure us that you are real client and not le ad that you can cover our investment with hotel room for session location.