Take any gal at random and read the reviews (or scan as it's too tough to read the drivel quite often)....You decide you like the pics and menu and go see her.

Coopers of my generation weren't always gay... he could take me out of my comfort zone any day of the week lol...damn.

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But I do appreciate it when a provider takes a moment to read my P411 profile or one of my reviews and she seems to know what I like and what I prefer.  

Seems reasonable that when "I" (the client) fail to vocalize my preferences, she will go to the tried&true...

If you don't ask, the answer is always NO.   A slight variation of that is if you don't ask, you will never know...  

I'm not there to propose marriage, I'm not there to fall in love not even really there for any deep conversation. I"M THERE TO FUCK CIM, FACIAL, A LITTLE GREEK and get the fuck out. Less talking more fucking. And I like them better with a routine, less talking and explaining on my part again more fucking. And guy heres a clue, "you really dont have anything to say to her that shes interested in or hasnt heard a million times already (even if shes acting interested) Dont believe me? Start your deep conversation with "gee doll I,m about a C-note short on your donation" and see how much routine and conversation you get! LOL

Each session is different, you have to determine what the gentleman likes, what turns you on, what would be appropriate and obviously is good to step out of the comfort zone sometimes, use mirrors, windows, showers,  offer a lap dance, or more "naughty stuff" with precaution of course. You can ask providers anything but obviously she will always offer within her menu of services and within what she feels comfortable doing, but that is not "cookie cutted" is just standard procedures, you can always spice things up without following a routine, at least that is what I do.

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t took me a long time to be comfortable enough to take control of a session. First there was finding out what really turnned me on as opposed to what I thought really turned me on. Then there was getting the confidence to ask for it and asking in a way that was ok with her.  Now that I am able to do that, if I find she has a routine, as you say, and will not deviate then I move on. BTW, what I really like is pretty vanilla. I have been on a run as of late and the last 3 or 4 escorts I have seen have responded in spades. The last one did so despite somewhat of a language barrier. And when I returned she was better yet. My performance reviews reflect that. I was somewhat concerned about having a string of 10s but fuck it. They earned it!

I thought it was a fairly straight forward question to the masses here....but seems you are doing some serious projecting with your reply.

But you know how "sensitive" I am

What if she tells me to go fuck myself?

curious. And what 'types of games' are they exactly? Do enlighten us please. What's on your mind CPA...something got you a bit on edge?

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My OP was asking if guys get "bored" with the same old that all the other guys write about with a gal.  You know...the DFK followed by the BBBJ and then a position...maybe two.

Posted By: TaylorSteele

curious. And what 'types of games' are they exactly? Do enlighten us please. What's on your mind CPA...something got you a bit on edge?

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They all read the same....

That definition revolves around not judging someone when they're looking to talk about fantasies and life in general. Not letting them tie me up and whip me/choke me lol

And if the guy is OK with how a gal runs her session...it's not an issue.  But if a fella wants a 2 hour BBBJCIM then he should let her know.  I've had that and I gotta tell you it's an amazing session...assuming the gal knows how to really do a T&D (tease and denial).  So many gals want to just get you off quickly so they can babble for the rest of your time it seems.  And guys write that shit in reviews....WTF?

And to allow anyone to play with asphyxiation can be a bit dangerous.  I've not really explored that part of BDSM as that does concern me somewhat.  Only if I was taught how to use breath control properly would I ever consider that in play.

Most reviews make most sessions sound cookie cutter. Some reviews stand out because the two did something out of the ordinary. If I'm seeing a provider and she's done something unusual that I'd like to do, I'm hopeful that it can happen with me as well. I think those sorts of things are more spontaneous, though, and can't be replicated.

I also had a session with a gal where it was a duo.  Her gal pal was also a ProDomme and we worked over the submissive gal for two fucking hours.  No review on that one though  LOL

I'll PM about that lol. Very interesting session. You could probably handle the info but I don't know if it's appropriate to put on here lol. I asked him not to review me for a reason lol, along with a few other guys.  

But there are many guys who will talk about wanting this, that or the other thing.  But too often they walk in to the incall and submit to the gals "routine" for fear of rejection (or something else?).

Posted By: JuliasLilSecret

What Paloma does is what the majority wants.  They want to be greeted with DFK, then have their cock sucked and return DATY (if they indulge in this), and then fuck.  I have very few who want to fuck before having their cock sucked.  
   
 Even though I have toys set out, I would guess that maybe 3% ask to use them, and I don't let anyone tie me up on a first visit.  So, I don't know what else you might think would deviate so far from the usual, but it is refreshing when someone comes in with their own plan in mind for a change.  
   
 You have to realize that most men come to see us wanting us to take control and do "our thing" to them.  I would say that's at least 85% of who I see.  But I welcome the 15% who come in and take the lead, as long as it's done in a respectful manner.  I do enjoy being submissive with a very small percentage of men, but most are better off leading in a gentle manner...so head holders, beware.    LOL

As one who's seen P numerous times you can be assured her sessions are NOT routine. But you've read the reviews. Thus I'll retreat.  

It wouldn't be in most gals best interest to advertise certain activities when they are promoting that they're GFE.

But it is very interesting to play with food...it's a fucking blast.

a certain protocol for her sessions. Once I realized this, I took charge and the activities were done in a different order and there was some new techniques used by both of us.

how much fun can be had. Just takes a lil education gentlemen. And perhaps a little 'assertion' not 'insertion'. And I won't bore you all with my ridiculous 'dissertation' on this topic either lol.

That's both holes, right?

1. I lost calories
2. Guys aren't always afraid to ask. That's the whole point of saying 'an open minded GFE'. It's an invitation to be comfortable asking. If I don't want to do it, I get why they have a fetish, I just don't feel comfortable with it at the time. YMMV. :

The essence of the service and why men seek out to meet providers is pretty straight forward but not want accompanies the service itself, reason why this is also called "fantasy" because the surprise factor is undeniable and present.  I do understand where you are coming from thus, I do feel that as providers, we aim to customize the session as much as possible, to make it unique and according to your preferences;  obviously we resort to different outlets to spice things up such as offer variety of lingerie choices, toys, lap dance, move around the room etc.. At the end of the day, the core of the service is the same but as I mentioned, the activities surrounding the "final product" are what makes each session memorable and different.

I d suggest we move on to heartily tossing each others salads.If a session with a john, escort, s.o, or any one is cookie cutter. You have to look in the mirror. Your just as boring to be an active participant in allowing the vanilla session to go that way. I HAVE HAD MY DAYS WHERE THE CLIENT COMES IN AND TURNS THE SESSION AROUND FOR THE BETTER. I TREAT EVERY FUCK LIKE A DANCE. NOT A PERSON PUSHING SOME ONE IN A WHEELCHAIR .
IF YOU LEAVE A SESSION AND ARE DISAPOINTED YOUR TO BLAME. I KNOW WHEN I PAY A WHORE TO BLOW AND FUCK MY LOVER. SHE DOESNT HAVE TIME TO BE COOKIE CUNT. I GRAB THAT BITCHES HAIR AND PUMMEL HER DOWN ON MY MANS BALLS. SUCK THAT DICK BITCH.you slut.Guys gotta know your paying us big money to do things the wife wont. So fucking advocate for your perverted ass in the app and suck it up. And stop bringing that stupid conundrum up that only rich pushovers that dont speak up get into those jams. The day I fork over three hun and dont leave feeling satisfied. That day will never com. Guys no escort is gonna bat an eye lash if you say bend my legs behind my head and pummul that finger in my keester llady and call me your bitch.hahaha........x

While I tried to explain the review part, this is pretty spot on. I may copy and past this for the million threads that will come up about routine. LOL.

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I have routines that have developed over time with certain providers, and they are honed to a perfection that I look forward to.

If the cookie has a lot of nuts and big chunks of interesting stuff, and is right out of the over warm, that can be quite interesting and fun.

Cookie cutter is nice if I only have 1 hour to spend with you, but boring otherwise.  Also it's not that interesting when she has the exact same pattern the second time we are together.  That's the best way to guarantee there isn't a third time.

I'd hope they'd just ask. I have some clients who share their non-routine desires and I love it! The session is truly what both parties make it and some enjoy routine sex, which is totally fine in my book too b/c like you said, it's sex after all and who doesn't like sex?!

Do you ever check the white lists of those who are seeking an appointment with you?

Posted By: JuliasLilSecret

when someone expects the provider to research them for a meeting.  
   
 I mean absolutely no disrespect here, but I do not contact anyone for dates, ever.  Gentlemen contact me, and I expect that they do so because they have read my website (most importantly) and my reviews (which are works of fiction), and they want to see me based on this information.  After all, they are the ones requesting a meeting, so they must want to see me for a particular reason, right?  
   
 I will typically avoid gentlemen with a lot of reviews, and (their) ego is one of the reasons why I do this.  I do not ask for handles or review information when meeting with anyone, but many "big" reviewers love to disclose this information because it makes them feel important and that they will be catered to in a manner above all others.  But as someone who prefers to be reviewed sparingly, if I am given the information, I will see those who also review sparingly.  
   
 It's just a way of seeing who is the best fit for each of us, and that's always a good thing, I believe.  

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