I personally don't like rules set by provider, I do respect them and fallow then. It would be nice to know before the date is set up. I have meet with a few ladies that had rules like no kissing, daty, or touching. When I find out that I can not kiss them or go down on them it is a bummer for me. But we are already together and it is to late, now all I have is to respect their rules and try to enjoy the session with them.
I would like to hear other feels on this also

So that these limitations/rules should have been known ahead of time.   If not, why not submit a review yourself, and correct the record?

... then you will know what is allowed or not.

You dumbass, what do you think TER was created for in the first place??? lol

Yes, you should have read her reviews.  But even then, she has the right to refuse certain acts, especially if you seem unclean, pushy or obnoxious.  Etc.  Maybe you should review yourself.

I recommend the crack team at Dewey, Cheatem & Howe.

You are clearly an idiot.   Know what your buying before you go on the appointment.   Do you buy a car without looking at car magazines to see how others have liked the model your interested in.   You should just jerk off and then you can complain to your left hand because your right hand was too rough.

At least he "fallows" the rules! Lol

It's the provider's body hence her rules.  What if a lady wanted to shove something up your ass but you didn't want her to? GTFOH really.  
Cock,  meet hand lol otherwise as others have said, read the reviews

Plenty of previous posters told you to read reviews already so I won't repeat that.

"Hi so and so, blah,blaj blah...and by the way do you enjoy kissing,FIV,BBBJ, ya know that girlfriend thing"...next thing you know you'll get....::crickets:: and then ::click::
Remember, alot of girls don't like to discuss details, all they'll say is that "don't worry hon, you'll have a good time"...yeah right.

I do respect all the ladies I am with and if she does not want or have her limits on what I can do with her I do respect that. For the most part I do not have any problems with it. It is her right to chose on what she is comfortable doing when she is with a guy.

So what if they hang up? what does he got to lose?  if something is deal-breaker for me I'd like to find out beforehand. If the provider hangs up on me that means either she doesn't do it or she's rude. Good reason for me not to want to see her anyway.

There really are only two possible sources of your issues - you or the ladies.  You can control yourself and you can control which ladies you book.  As a logical proposition, this is something you are responsible for.  

Most providers that have respect for themselves to expose themselves to everyone.