I'm new to TER and a relative new member of the "hobby".  I've only been with a few providers (before I found out about TER). I was very surprised to read so many reviews about guys "dining at the Y" and getting BBBJ.  Maybe I'm just chicken, but I thought the STD risk of dining and BBBJ (particularly dining) was a lot higher than CBJ or doing the deed with a raincoat.  I have never done either with a provider.  Don't get be wrong, I love dining.  Has anyone done dining with Saran Wrap, I hear it is an effective barrier?  If so, how did the provider react.  Thanks in advance.

I will not address the specific question posed because it has already been discussed very thoroughly on this board more than once.  At the top of the page you'll see the word "Find"--if you click on it you will be able to search the board for previous posts and replies about a specific topic or person.  It will save you some time and save the rest of us from reading the same questions over and over.Can you tell I've been cranky lately?  Got to get laid.

maybe we can all pitch in a little and help you lose your "crank"  (c:Just Kidding of course!  Go forth and get laid!Lustman

This makes me really curious.  I would like to hear from people how they got STD.  I know I'm probably not goin get a straight answer (BTW, I am not interested in the sites that tell me about the disease itself), but I would like to get a volunteer.  You can remain anonymous.   Please share your story of how you got VD.

I used to enjoy both dining and milk sessions.  But I had a recent scare which caused me to research STD transmission, and I found out that my two favorite pastimes were riskier than I'd realized.The one that really worries me is HIV, and I found that while it's not as readily transmitted in dining or breast milk as in unprotected FS, the risk is still greater than I care to go on taking.But one other thing still worries me:  I found out that those "natural skin" condoms are apparently little or no protection against viruses and bacteria.  And, with the ladies furnishing the covers, I'm now worrying about how many times I've unwittingly done it, for all practical purposes, bareback!

Lazy Guy,It says right on the package that those types of condoms DO NOT protect against STD's and the HIV virus. On the box and on each individually wrapped condom. They are porous which allows those things to seep through. The only thing it guards against is pregnancy...

You can't tell the difference in those?  They are verydifferent than latex and polyurethane.  Anyway,  I nevermeet a provider who used them.  Most use latex tho poly isstarting to appear. (Many girls won't even use your condomsbecause they want to be safe and make a point of always providing the condom so they know it has been stored well and is not dated.)