Hello Ladies,

nothing wrong with. Have fun!

There were two times I met up with someone where we didn't have sex that I can recall.

.... Just a great massage and that's it. I had bad jet lag and was nervous and tired so I chickened out. My provider was awesome. She completely understood and I hope to one day rebook with her and show her what I'm really capable of!

Do you mean no intercourse? No oral?  Does a hand job count as sex?

Most girls will give you social rates, so no, it's not 'weird' for them.

I'm sure there were times when I thought I was having sex and it was probably just a snooze fest for her. But I'll leave that joke aside for now.  
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I can talk a lot during a session. So I have never had a complete zero-sex session, it wouldn't be inconceivable. It partially depends on the fee; when the fee is lower, I wouldn't mind cuddling and talking and no actual sexing for the duration. With a higher fee, I tell myself that if I don't shut my mouth and get things going that I will be kicking myself later.  
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If I had more time on my schedule (and the funds to support it), I would not mind "wasting" my time in the pleasurable company of beautiful hostess even if we never even approached breaking a law.  I would not consider it a "waste" at all.

I had one kink-centric playdate that ended - to my surprise - without any sexual contact.  Our time was running out and I could tell he was trying to hint at something, but - because I assumed he wanted something else - there were a series of miscommunication fumbles before we sorted out that he wanted me to go.  (He explained as I was dressing that he preferred to keep his kink and sex separate, and that he had booked a second lady to come over after I left.)

One of them even wanted to introduce her to his family.  Most of them just wanted a dining companion but paid the full rate for sex.  I'm guessing it's not that unusual.  Personally, I don't get it but I try not to judge.

I do dominatrix sessions as well as massage and escort sessions.  Some of my dominatrix clients request no sex,  as in they just want to be teased for hours.  Massage clients sometimes just want a hand job.  I do also have regular clients that want to just meet for lunch or dinner and for us to catch up and no sex is involved. Not odd, I would just say to make sure you indicate what you are looking for and what you want so there is no confusion.  

And just hang out and talk, shopping.  💋💋  I Prefer all that And SeXXX.   👿

I met one gentleman who made it clear from the very beginning in our correspondence and setting up the date that he was seeking the true "escort" experience in that all he wanted was a woman to be his "escort" for the evening as company with no physical intimacy, even a massage, but that he intended to pay my rate regardless. He was married and struggling with the idea of "cheating" but he was lonely so that was his way of dealing with it at that point in time. He had read my reviews and knew that for those who understand how intellectual stimulation can make the physical experience exponentially better, he could tell that I am the type who can show a guy a good time and make him feel special.... even if it DOESN'T involve sex, and he was not disappointed because he was a very decent gentleman. Granted my rates are pretty low compared to most in my area, especially for longer dates and if they were as high as most I would offer a different rate for such occasions, but I still actually let him have much more time than what my rate usually covers as my way of "making that up" to him anyway, lol. I admit I was surprised because those occasions are extremely rare, but I also don't think it's "weird." I didn't get any creepy vibes from him and I had a really wonderful time with him so I definitely don't think you should feel "weird" about your specific requirement and if your chosen lady is smart, she will not make  you feel awkward about that in ANY way either.

It can be cheaper FINANCIALLY, but those types of arrangements usually come with a much higher "price" especially if you're needing your time with a lady to be very discreet: that price usually ends up being your PRIVACY in the very least, by involving drama to the point that your privacy and maybe even your emotions become compromised. Someone once said something brilliant to me about the escort/hobbyist relationship: "You wanna know what I'm REALLY paying you for? I'm paying you to LEAVE!" Think about it. When you pay for someone's time, the expectations are CLEAR and only in rare instances does anyone inappropriately cross the boundaries. When you go off into "dating/arrangement" world where boundaries are NEVER clear, you're just asking for a whole lot of trouble that no amount of money can get you out of, lol.

Sure. I've seen a provider without playing with her. We do play when the need hits. But on a few occasions she invited me to her house just to spend time with me. We just sat snuggled on her couch watching Netflix Movies. We did feel each other up. My hands were in her shirt. She had her hands between my legs.  I have to admit doing that was more fun than playing. She even made dinner for me. It was an Awesome time. She wants to invite me over again. This time she wants to play.

My quest in THIS HOBBY is to try and find "extraordinary moments" that I wouldn't otherwise find in my life...

Depends on the situation and how open you are. I've personally never had an issue, though I have met SBs that I was certain were crazy and probably would steal a kidney from me if they had the chance.

I had booked an hour session with a fellow who just wanted to talk. He went into great detail of his life, his sexless marriage, etc (I won't go into specific details) but we spent the time talking with me giving my honest opinion of everything. I was candid and let him know what my thoughts were. Some time after we did a session where there was intimacy and I truly could not understand why his wife no longer interacted with him. He is an incredible lover sending me over the edge and his kisses and touches lit my fire! We saw each other many times after and I still see him. We also still talk after our playtime. I don't see it as an affront to any provider if you do not want play time. Just let her know in advanced so that she will be aware of it.

...just cuddling (sometimes naked lol), kissing, talking and nothing more.
A little bit rare that sexless (date's choice) meetups happen but...they do.

Spend your time how you want!

Not everyone has the same desires, so that is what makes this hobby delightful.  Enjoy!