How you you guys feel about the lady your with answering her phone during her time with you?
Are you ok with this, or do you think they should turn the phone off during your time together.
Its happened to me a few times, and I'm mostly ok with it, as I know they have a business to run and I except that.
But if it happened during a "intimate" moment and she stopped to answer it, I would not be happy.
I also dont really want to hear her talking to some other guy arranging a date, while I am right next to her. What she does outside of our time is her business and does not concern me.
I have read a few reviews that said the provider answered her phone numerous times during a session. A passion killer if ever there was one.
Whats your thoughts?
it is a serious Emergency with my child. I set all my address book to vibrate except for her number, and in 4 years she has yet to bother me during an "intimate moment." Anything other than that, I don't care about. I have no dying relatives that I am taking care of and if my house is on fire, it's going to burn down before I can get there anyway. May as well make the money I need to start replacing shit lol.
Texting friends or other clients is simply unprofessional.
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I usually turn off my phone, but if I'm out at night and left kids at home alone, I will ask at the beginning of the session if they would mind my leaving it on in case there's an emergency. Kids ringtones are different from everybody else on my phone, so unless it's them calling, I ignore it. During the day they are usually at school so then it's not a problem.
Speaking of kids and school - is everybody as happy as I am that they are going back? Yahoooooooooooo!!
No, it's not OK if the lady is answering her phone/texting during an appointment, ESPECIALLY if she is setting up other appointments..WTF? That is so unprofessional & not the norm. Most ladies put their phone on silent(can't turn it off, as missed calls will not be listed) until the session is over, & many will not even start checking missed calls/texts until after the gent has left/they have left.
Very unprofessional, IMHO, if a provider answers her phone (and worse, conducts business with another client) during your session. Personally, I've never had that happen with any of the ladies that I've seen, since they usually have their phones set to "vibrate or silent ringer" mode.
If I'm doing an extended session, e.g. an overnighter or longer, I don't mind if she occasionally checks her phone/text messages in case she may have missed something important.
If you are OK with it, then you need to grow a pair, and grow it real quick before the word spreads out that you don't have any....
Dude..You are paying for sex...The least you can demand is an hour to yourself without any one disturbing you. I can accept aforementioned exceptions (caring for a child, sick adult etc)
Do me a favor..Shoot me your address in PM. I will mail you a pair.
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Did you mean "accept?" LOL. I thought only the Americans struggle with English. Or was that a play on words, meaning it is not okay.
Anyway, it is not ok and not professional. Would a dentist answer his phone while he is drilling your teeth? Would a doctor answer his phone while he is examining you? Will a lawyer answer his phone while he is arguing a case?
The only exception should be an extreme emergency. They definitely should not be taking calls from clients while they are with clients!
Thank you for the correction. It was supposed to be Accept.
I am from Birmingham, and we are a bit thick by nature.
Perhaps I will put a sign up in my room next time I entertain.
No phone calls/texts during my session please, or I will give you a good fucking.
Anyway, it is not ok and not professional. Would a dentist answer his phone while he is drilling your teeth? Would a doctor answer his phone while he is examining you? Will a lawyer answer his phone while he is arguing a case?
The only exception should be an extreme emergency. They definitely should not be taking calls from clients while they are with clients!
i wouldnt mind if we were just talking and she said "sorry , i gotta take this call..." but if we were gettin busy i'd be pissed.
Last visit from me. It is so tacky and shows lack of class, period..
before we start, I ask her to do the same. Never have a problem with that request, in fact many have already set their phone on vibrate. Then at the end of the date, we compare who has the most vm's.
Why would anyone be cool with that? In fact, providers should silence or turn off their phones entirely during a session.
She is being paid for her time. If she wants to spend it with other people on the phone, the time should be credited, either in additional time spent or in subtracting the proration for the time away from the service. Since this is a mood killer, she should be willing to do a reset on the clock when it is completely disruptive, say engaging in a 5 minute call 10 minutes into the date so you have to start all over to get in the flow.
All that shit gets to be subjective, so the best policy is to turn the damn thing off when she is at work.
I make allowances for providers with kids. These all have two phones, and they leave the kids phone on to cover for emergencies, and I am completely fine with that.
Generally not.
I have been with a lady who checked the screen to see if it were someone like her kids. She apologized. Another picked it up to say she could not talk now. Both of those were ok. Only saw one who took a couple of non-emergency calls. It was a factor in my not repeating. None of these were at a particularly intimate moment.
I am paying for her time and would prefer the lady focus on our interaction to the extent practical, but, hey, people have lives, and I'm not that narcissistic or that nuts.
When she is so hot my brain is mush and I wont even notice. I try to make all of my date's with women this hot. If I even notice she picked up her phone, well its a sure sign she is just not hot enough, so I leave.
One Fav had emergency calls from family during the session... she picked it up. In one case, she was so distaught I intended to quietly leave when she demanded "Where are you going?" as I left her bed... I was headed to the bathroom but also to give her some privacy. She wasn't about to let me leave & frankly she needed consoling. I care about her & I'm not a pig. After a bit, laying there naked... she resumed the session. She was not herself burt she went above & beyond in an attemptto make it right to me. We have pretty much a play session... however long it takes... but also virtually unlimited social time. Fortunately I was not on a schedule.
A lady should not be 'working the phone' during my time... period.