Saw (and answered) a post from a provider on the remarkably lonely Colorado Board. The question was -- which do you prefer, an unclocked dinner date + two hours, or simply the two hours alone? In other words, if the hobbyist picks up the tab for dinner but doesn't get charged for the provider's time during dinner, is this of interest?
My answer was yes, particularly when travelling. But boy, do I see both sides of this one. Time is time and time is money. A free dinner is nice. But a provider might (or might not) want to invest an extra two hours on her own dime to (maybe or maybe not) make for a better date later on. But I totally see the fact that spending time with us hobbyists is not always going to be A-number 1 on a provider's list of things to do.
Having said all that, I have greatly enjoyed the dinner time I've spent with providers. Some have charged, some haven't, it was all good.
If he is someone that is good to talk to, hey, you got to eat too. If I did that dinner date thing (and I don't), I would prefer the work part first so I can relax over dinner and not have to perform on a full stomach...at no charge, for the dinner portion.
It can be fun too with the right guy. And no, you interpreted it that way. Didn't glam it up enough for you? Sorry, all out of sugar coating for the guys who don't get this "JOB".
The good ones can actually let themselves live in the moment and relax enough so they can enjoy the sex. Sorry to break it to ya, itsafuckingNUTjob.
If escorting is the exchange of money for sex, then sex is a necessary task of escorting.
A job is defined as a piece of work, especially a specific task done as part of the routine of one's occupation or for an agreed price.
Therefore, sex is a job. (quod erat demonstrandum)
Can you not read, guess not. I do enjoy parts of my JOB when the guy knows what he's doing and he is easy on the eyes. Any hooker that says she finds all her tricks attractive is full of it. You are too stupid to realize that a huge percentage of guys suck in bed. Why the frick do you think women fake? Because of men like you...limp,old and fat.
BiB and Curly said they'll split the cost of a one way ticket to ChiTown just so you can be in my presence for dinner.
And I am a terrific conversationalist.
No charge for any professional advice either...but I don't ever charge for that when I am out socializing. Too bad the hookers haven't figured that out yet...at least some of them. But good for you...no charge on the dinner part. Not that I would have ever paid that...but I guess other putzes do!
Ever been to Gibsons?
Who's the one jacking off in the mirror to his own reflection? That would be you after you have been to dinner, talking to yourself because you're just that great and now for dessert. Grease up that fist.
Guess so...didn't your Mom tell you that us "smart guys" get all the chicks?
And guess what pal...I still won't pay for anyone to join me for dinner.
Not even you. But I would charge you to try and get your finances in order. But since there's not much to get in order...it should take but a moment.
Holy Shit....Mom's calling you for lunch.....up off your knees. Do you need some more knee pads? I can arrange to get those FedEx'd to you...pronto ![]()
Do you repeat everything you say? Again for the dimwitted, humility is sexy. You are NOT sexy.
This is how you get off?
Not just whacking off into a mirror?
Pathetic ![]()
I actually would want to keep a good meal down and you are vomit inducing.
Heck...go let it loose and we'll have a big old dessert.
I love chocolate cake...how about you?
The practices vary widely. Some providers offer a clock free dinner option plus 2-3 hours BCD for a fixed rate. Others insist on charging for all time spent with a client, which makes perfect sense as a rule. Still others, if they click with a client, are happy to spend time with him without charge to have dinner or see a movie or other civilian type outings, with or without a scheduled session involved. I've not yet paid up for the dinner option but have enjoyed (and shown my appreciation for) the latter option, both with and without a scheduled session. But this has happened only with a very small number of women (2-3). It's really not something to expect and only makes sense in rare cases for all the obvious reasons. But having dinner before a session is a great way to warm the juices and deepen the experience if mutual attraction and personal engagement are high.
Nothing too good for the hookers I guess LOL
If they'd lay off the beer and burgers maybe they'd get laid more often, for free. Ah who am I kidding.
Shit...I think Mom's on her way down the stairs.
Turn off TER and pull the pants up...unless you and Mom are into the incest thing?
Which would explain your posts.
Send The Love Goddess the details...she can help you..really LOL
Didn't you just say that in another post?
And nope....you won't be collecting your social security checks in a few years.
You need to have actually worked...living in Mom's basement doesn't qualify.
What's for lunch?
See if Mom will take you to Hardee's. Or are you more of a McDonald's guy? You might like those little toys with the Happy Meal?
Recognize the shrill ear piercing cacophany? That's your Mom calling you. She needs you to file off her callouses from her size 15 boats.

Except he is working and adding value to society.
But Mom still loves you...god only knows why ![]()
But now my neck looks like a vagina. ![]()
![]()
But I prefer my vaginas down below!
You know if you were flexible enough, you could technically fuck yourself and lick your balls at the same time. Better go hit the gym my friend (heh heh) and make sure your review yourself!
Eh at some point you will all figure out WHO the alias is. Keeping posting on long threads my dear, because anyone who can post under the same thread isn't the alias
and that list is growing. I don't care who you are as I think you are funny (some of it) and nice to see the guys get fired up lol.
I will take "Name the person behind the alias" for the daily double....
ANSWER::
They love posting and reading their posts pretending to be a hooker. PS...They get off on that ![]()
BZZZZ...OK SexyFlirt...go for it LOL
Who is ....
yeah right I am not saying (don't 100% know, but have a good idea of who). Much more fun to see the interaction.
I will give you a clue though, it isn't me ![]()
They love posting and reading their posts pretending to be a hooker. PS...They get off on that
BZZZZ...OK SexyFlirt...go for it LOL
I for one understand time is money. However, So may excersise the green eye approach and truly not see the quality aproach, making for a much dedicated client.Thats if the client potential is worth the far and beyond method to extend that benefit.
I love being out and about.So, I'm out any way.If I can move in closer to evaluate my potential success with a client. by spending my otherwise enjoying me time with him to get a closer look .I am in for sure.
This is nothing new for me. I have gone far and beyond in this regard to seal the deal for a much better agreemnt,like an overnight. I'm not a minute gurl
Unlocked sounds good to me
Just my 2cts (ps) hope I did not violate anyones territory
Love, TC
At a minimum. give me a fixed price and lets just enjoy each other for the evening. One of the things I hate most is watching the clock, it detracts from the "natural" flow of the evening.
Option B that the OP suggests is still a pain because while dinner may be unclocked, I'm still forced to be cognizant of the tick tock in the bedroom.
One of the best dates I had recently was with a multi-repeat friend. I booked two hours and told her I'd be paying her a 25% premium on her listed rates. I also asked that she feel comfortable to leave anytime she wanted to. Six hours later we kissed goodnight...well technically good morning and I didn't worry a second about the clock.
For me much of this comes down to mutual generosity. Two people that respect each others resources (whether they be time or treasure) and are willing to be mutually generous with both, will find that the resulting experience is enjoyable for all involved.
Maybe I'm oversimplifying, but it's really not that difficult.
Generally, if I was a good repeat client she would be ok with having drinks or dinner off the clock. For a first time date I doubt anything would be off the clock. Until you see you have some kind of connection every minute will be on the clock
Remember you are paying for her time and companionship!
I've found that ladies that are visiting from out of town like the company if they are not already booked. Dinner, movies, or just hanging around a local bar are all off the clock with out of town ladies. Guess it beats sitting in yet another hotel room, alone, for a night. If your in her home town I find that tends to be more of a business deal. Maybe a 4 hour dated at X rate with a specific amount of BCD time. Dinners like that are tough though because you can never be sure dinner will only take 2 hours so dinner dates usually have more leeway when it comes to "clock-watching". Obviously broad generalizations but thats what my experience has been.
Nor any of the fellas that I play with here...or any that I PM with..or have lunch with.
To honestly think some asshole is that pathetically lonely to pay for ANYONE to eat on his dime is so profoundly sad.
Too many nice people to go and take out for a nice meal with...and just appreciate their time.
Try it...you might find that there's plenty of good people out there who don't expect to be paid for their fake laughing at YOUR jokes.
Your style isn't superior, it's just what works best for you (and your groupie PM friends, fellas you play with here or have lunch with). I'm glad that style works for YOU all, but it isn't what works for all others. No need to cry.....It is what it is.
This p4p world is work (a part-time job) for me. Time is money and with a real career, then real life w/ family to attend to, I only have so much time for the P4P world and that certainly won't be off the clock when I only have a limited hours/wk to give. Even if I had more time b/c I have in the past, I only completely ignore the clock w/ ONE amazing client who is like no other. The sex is AMAZING! The conversation is the BEST and we have the same interests....strip clubs and hot sex w/ each other. That is not universal to all clients. The fact that you and your little buddies assume that should extend to you is good for you, but it's good to know that's not how all ladies might feel or work.
If your buddies and you are sooooooo offended about paying a lady for her time at dinner, stick to clock-less ladies or those interested in making meaningless small talk at dinner w/ you (to pay for her $50 dinner) instead of attending to her family or whatever. Me....I'll just pay for my own $200 dinner by myself and as I see fit or spend it w/ that one special client. I'll find a different part-time job before feeling like it's a requirement to spend clock free dinner w/ anyone.
There's nothing else to discuss w/ you. Go talk to someone else.
-- Modified on 3/22/2013 4:39:23 PM
I simply said that I won't...my TER buds don't...my PM pals never do.
I am well aware that there are very lonely men here that feel they would have to pay a hooker to actually spend time with them to have a meal. I feel bad for those lost souls...but it has NO effect on me.
And for someone who claims to have ONLY 5 hours to fuck around with johns...YOU spend 5 times that amount of time on the boards. Again..nothing wrong with that...just drop the bullshit!
And a $ 200 dinner....are you fucking kidding me? I wouldn't drop that type of coin on food. Not that important to me. Thanks for that heads up though...just more drivel of you hookers that feel entitled.
Aren't you the hooker that babbled that ALL of her johns are special...never had a bad date..blah blah blah LOL
This p4p world is work (a part-time job) for me. Time is money and with a real career, then real life w/ family to attend to, I only have so much time for the P4P world and that certainly won't be off the clock when I only have five hours/wk to give. Even if I had more time b/c I have in the past, I only completely ignore the clock w/ ONE amazing client who is like no other. The sex is AMAZING! The conversation is the BEST and we have the same interests....strip clubs and hot sex w/ each other. That is not universal to all clients. The fact that you and your little buddies assume that should extend to you is good for you, but it's good to know that's not how all ladies might feel or work.
If your buddies and you are sooooooo offended about paying a lady for her time at dinner, stick to clock-less ladies or those interested in making meaningless small talk at dinner w/ you (to pay for her $50 dinner) instead of attending to her family or whatever. Me....I'll just pay for my own $200 dinner by myself and as I see fit or spend it w/ that one special client. I'll find a different part-time job before feeling like it's a requirement to spend clock free dinner w/ anyone.
There's nothing else to discuss w/ you. Go talk to someone else.
-- Modified on 3/22/2013 4:34:57 PM
1) The men I see are wealthy businessman who respect the business aspect of this game. They are the types who would laugh at a clock-free offer, because they aren't cheap. They're far from lonely.
2) The time I spend on TER is less than an hour a day and intermittent...like quick stints that don't require much time vs. taking an hour at a time to see a client....duh (so glad you care). So since you do care, I quickly check the board for anything new, read maybe two posts on the thread before determining it's not worth my time, then I go back to real life (that's like a five minute break during my real life schedule). OR I quickly reply to a post (still not reading the whole thread and posting without concerns of spelling and grammar errors...I don't have time for that!) and move on. If I decide to later in the day, I'll check back one more time (again like a quick 5 minutes while at a red light or waiting for the grocery clerk). I'm not sitting here all day waiting for your commentary on anything! There are too many other things to attend to.
3) Dinner costs? I spend what I want when I want, which is never contingent on a client, trick or john.
4) All of my clients are special and I've never had a bad date, even if I have only one client who is AMAZING!
So you either want to portray yourself as a highly successful hooker with NO time to waste here...but then you have plenty of time to create a diatribe that is not only grammatically correct (for the most part)...but spelled out nicely as well LOL
Or you're that high end businesswoman who just sees a few guys who are so "wealthy" that they wouldn't dream of asking for OTC. Curious...you believe everything every trick tells you? Guess so...they're all "wealthy". You wouldn't know that unless they told you...right? LOL
Yep...you're just another entitled asswipe. I've met morons like you my whole life. You expect something for nothing. And then bitch about the real movers and shakers who have the money...and YOU don't!
Here's a novel idea...get off your fucking fat ass and get a job. Supplement with a trick here or there..good deal. But quit with your insane drivel of only seeing "wealthy" tricks. YOU have NO fucking clue.
Then again if you got this far...and I guarantee you did...maybe I'm full of shit LOL
2) The time I spend on TER is less than an hour a day and intermittent...like quick stints that don't require much time vs. taking an hour at a time to see a client....duh (so glad you care). So since you do care, I quickly check the board for anything new, read maybe two posts on the thread before determining it's not worth my time, then I go back to real life (that's like a five minute break during my real life schedule). OR I quickly reply to a post (still not reading the whole thread and posting without concerns of spelling and grammar errors...I don't have time for that!) and move on. If I decide to later in the day, I'll check back one more time (again like a quick 5 minutes while at a red light or waiting for the grocery clerk). I'm not sitting here all day waiting for your commentary on anything! There are too many other things to attend to.
3) Dinner costs? I spend what I want when I want, which is never contingent on a client, trick or john.
4) All of my clients are special and I've never had a bad date, even if I have only one client who is AMAZING!
There is one small problem with your analogy that you do not seem to take into consideration. When men hang out with their friends, associates, buddies, & just other men in general... they have a tendency to say what they think the others want to hear... instead of the truth. So, if you are consistently stating how stupid & lonely you think men are who decide to pay for OTC dinner dates, then the large majority are going to agree with you. It's the male ego, & I've seen it 100's of times.
Men will and do, agree with those around them, ESPECIALLY when it has to do with women and sex(it's an ego thing). When those same men are by themselves, many times their actions are completely different than the words they spoke earlier.. just sayin'.
Liked the mild humor in poking fun at my handle, otherwise you guys should be aware that newcomers to this Board don't really have the back story on the verbal food fights. Sorry, I don't mind being flamed but I don't get why you are endlessly harassing each other.
I will own that on three occasions I have paid the $2-300 difference between the price of a teo hour session and a four hour dinner date. No regrets. I am not in the $500 per hour league normally, have been with three well known providers in that class. Never could've afforded a dinner date, but one of those ladies actually took me out one night and I took her out once after that. No charge for time on either occasion. No regrets there, either.
I appreciate the ones who know this is how I pay some of my bills and don't mind compensating me for a dinner date, and I also appreciate those who would never do that, but still feed my fat ass. ![]()