Well I must be the anti-hobbyist/ or mangina these guystalk about here....lol 4 yrs my wife left me, and a year later, bc of trust issues etc I had not gotten back int dating but needed companionship. After a little study and stumbling onto eros.com and hen here on TER I took the plunge...
I set up and had a visit to a provider here in Cols. and I went wth someone that didnt havereviews then but now is a TER top 100. Well needless to say I have been a regular of hers (weekly, with vacation travel with her) since we met . Something just clicked and in trying 2-3 ''civvie'' (we both hate that term but it is the vernacular here)relationships I find myself bailing bc they dont measure up...
lol, yes, I am monogamous with my escort, and no one willchange that. Something just clicks for us and she says so as well
I hope that is a different twist for you and hopefullyrestores a little faith in us men....lol
So, your provider is monogamous with you? Are you seriously trying to pass that off as legitimate? If a provider becomes monogamous with you, she is no longer a provider and you are out of the game. Your grammar makes me doubt you but, your assertion makes me doubt you even more. What you state is preposterous. If I understand you correctly, you are married and have a monogamous relationship with someone who used to be a provider....is that correct?
and since when does writing reviews make one an expert?
It was pretty plain to the rest of us that "Mr 1 Review" was not talking to you. You blasted him for your mistake and he responded in kind. If you'll reread the thread, I think you'll find you owe him an apology. So man up, say you're sorry and let's move on.
I will bullet point it for you since you are a little slow....
1. I am divorced for 4 years from a controlling frigid bitch... I have no ''civvie'' gf. She is a high end provider who is still active... I think this is obvious bc crazshit nails it below if you followed him any.
2. I am monogamous WITH HER, the 1st/only provider I have seen. If you were following the thread you would have seen the post I was replying to was a provider that was jaded bc she saw so many married men that she was discouraged in her ''out of the business'' life. The point I was making was that some of us guys prefer just one woman. I was trying to restore a little faith in men with the OP.
3. I apologize that my previous post distressed you so... I posted from my mobile phone while i was killing time getting tires on my car and letters and words ran together. I am a middle aged man trying to use today's contraptions and didn't type so well. I apologize bc I see you are challenged following temporally and thematically, so the inability to fill in those blanks must have crippled you some,,, again, my apologies...
4. And why do you care?? Is it so hard for you to believe that a polite older guy that ''went thru it '' with some biotch of a wife (that stoned him despite working it over for nearly 2 decades) gets a ''connection'' to an extravagantly beautiful woman who provides. Why is it hard for you to understand that this now has turned into a sugar daddy/sugarbaby relationship.... she is still in the game but if I could 'do more' for her I would. I just don't carry enough green despite how well off I am.
5. to that previous point, I am gonna start humping it now bc I now feel a need to make more so I can carry enough green and do more for her so she wont have to see a bitter hump like you. My provider friend no longer 'has to tour' bc by staying in place she is able to make a living w/o the stress of travel. And she loves that she has to do little advertising. So if I strap it on I just might get her utr.
6. You know what I understand from this woman; it's about the green, and if I brought it enough she'd have one client; (yes she has an SO at home) . You ask a provider; if they have an ATF client and if he got enough green, would they limit to him if he brought it enough... I bet most would say they would narrow down a bunch
7. Give it a rest bro... ain't there enough cynicism and hating in this world?
She's smoking hot, she is outstanding to me, and I am a bit older and with plenty of disposable cash... Its my money CCPA and I am choosing to spend it my way. Why go out with an uggo just for variety when the the bird I have in hand is one of the most beautiful women that I have ever seen. And rocks it where it counts....
She is loads of fun... she gives me OTC time... she gets charge out of seeing me... there isn't any need for me to be '' a monger''. Isn't it ok to stay in my comfort zone?
And no CCPA, I am not delusional; if I don't have the green, I don't get to see her. Thatis the game. I like what's in front of me. I am not in LA or Las Vegas or NY. Not that it matters bc if she was still my first ''out of the gate'' I don't think it would make any difference.
This point has been hashed out a million times here. One camp thinks our intellect should override natural instincts to want to have sex without the social constraints imposed by monogamy. The other camp thinks it is a useless fight against instincts that have evolved over a million years.
The science on on the side of the second camp. So are divorce statistics. In my opinion, people would be a lot happier if they could uncouple ownership from their relationships. They won't of course. And the level of human misery caused by self generated issues about infidelity will continue to plague a majority of couples. And the level of infidelity in both camps will remain unfazed by the proselytizing of either camp.
Some of us, divorced ( me ) older gents ( 57 ) were faithful for many ( 30 ) yrs. The hobby has been a GREAT find for me. Yes i am jaded, i can't play games any longer. If ya wanna spend time with me, well, take me as i am. If not, (civees)...don't let the door hit u in the ass on the way out!! I also don't have the time for, are we gonna fuck or aren't we. When i wanna fuck, i wanna do it now, not when your damn well ready!! ( civee women ) I'm here to enjoy life, not play friggen mind games....i'm to old for it.
As a young man, I always craved for love and companionship from a woman. Never got it. Back in the days, in my twenties, I used to have lot of patience with women.
As I got more and more comfortable with hobbying, and trust me, it took a while, I kind of have a short fuse with civvie women. .I just can't stand them. May be being in hobby for a while (about 10 yrs). I, now, find most civvie women petty. Being in hobby for about 10 years now, I don't think I will be able to go back to civvie life that easily. I see everyday what my friends go through (all in their 30s) to keep their marriages alive. Now, I do sometimes miss companionship, and wish I had a wife/girlfriend, but the other side of me knows that I would be back to my mongering activities very soon, and wouldn't have the patience to put up with her nonsense.
So yes I am jaded... I am jaded alright !!! But I am lot happier. I can follow my passions (sports) and have complete CONTROL over sex. If I want to get laid, I will get laid. If one provider doesn't want to fuck me, her loss. I am sure the next wouldn't mind my Three Benjamins
Long before I was an escort, I knew this much about any man I talked to:
who were faithful, who was likely to stray if given assurance of no one finding out, and who was already straying, assurance or not
For the last two, it's like an alarm of sorts that tells me when he's on the prowl or thinking of it. After becoming an escort, and despite not being in the game for 18 months now, that ability is heightened to include women who fit the three categories above.
I'm afraid I'm jaded enough that civvie dating is stressful. I can't carry on more than a light flirting without knowing how far it'll go if we were to become either intimate or build a relationship. Yes, some of it might be projection on my part, because I don't trust most men anymore. But, I also don't have the patience or desire for civvie drama, male or female.
I miss the honest give-and-take of escorting. Don't snort at that; it's honest because it's p4p and we both know it from the beginning. The Benjis are simply the business end of it. The rest is fun: I get my sex "shot" which quells my near nympho cravings and he gets his shot (multiples if there's enough time), and we both go home happy.
I have physical limitations that preclude me from having a civvie relationships!! I've made peace w/that fact some time ago!!! The ladies in this profession are the sweetest on earth, besides my women friends & family!! I've had a few ATF's , one that i saw 16 times, my current one, nine times & 2 for four times!! Where else can an old , horn dog decrepit man like me (HA) see a beautiful 19 y/o, four times?? As someone stated in another thread, "Yes, It's all about the money, that's why I call them ATF's!"
The women that I see multiple times click w/ me & I wouldn't trade that for a thing in the world!! So, I don't blame the civvie women for my predicament !! god just played a practical joke on me!! I , however, got him back, practical joke- wise I became an atheist!! :oD I hope you can make peace w/ the civvie world as well! This profession is not a bad alternative , for guys like me!!! I love this hobby & TER!! Now , I need to save up money, so I can see the woman who pre-approved me!!
The only thing I've been jade w/is the baseball season!! my beloved cubbies are getting pummeled, again, this time by the Reds!!! :o((
Happiness, brother!!
BTW, speaking of being pre- approved..
I wish life Imitated art & Jennifer Aniston would also pre - approve me!!
Dialogue from Friends!
Joey-You know, it changed everything. Like the other day, I got this credit card application, and I was pre-approved. Huh? I've never been pre-approved for anything in my life. RACHEL ( Jen Aniston) Joey honey, I don't know if this'll mean anything to you but you'll always be pre-approved with us
i am definitely jaded..i meet gorgeous civie girls all the time..before i started to hobby i would pursue the ones that peaked my interest..since i started to hobby i could care less about dating and courtship..why would i waste my time trying to woo and seduce some hot civie babe when all i have to do is set up an appointment with some super hot provider and be in her pussy within five minutes of meeting her..now that is jaded..
I can't discredit the fact that I have met more cheaters in the hobby than anywhere else, so of course that would make one think that ALL men are that way. I don't, and never will. I do have a more realistic outlook about "why" people cheat though, and it has not really changed how I view men and women overall. As a person who has never been married for even a year (and I tried it twice), I really would not know what it takes to be faithful for that long. I know nothing about having a partner who is my best friend, one I share a home and children with, so I won't speculate on the reasons why some do what they do. I just prefer to keep it real.
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