So, what are people's preference about showering together or showering alone, or for that matter, not showering at all (ick)?

I am always freshly showered just prior to the girls arrival for outcall and will generally ask for a shower for incall, pending the girls preference. Some will ask if they can shower before they leave me, during outcall, and I always say yes but I never suggest me joining her. That has to come from the lady, imo. Sometimes they ask me to join them, most times no. They are fun though!

Both before and after. Regardless of whether the shower is just about certainty of hygiene or also includes some play I've found that the starting shower is a good gauge for how the session will go.  

Before a session, I insist on showering alone.  One, because I carry some long embedded body shame issues (irrational I know, she's going to see me naked in a minute anyway).  Two, because even if I'm seeing a provider whom I've seen before, I enjoy the ceremony of undressing one another as part of foreplay.  And three, because I perform an "intimate" hygiene routine with baby wipes (TMI - sorry).

the best ice-breaker there is when seeing a provider for the first time.  Even if I just had a shower ten minutes ago, I will take another one with the provider just for the effect it has on starting things off on the right foot.   Any shyness or awkwardness instantly evaporates with a little mutual soapy touching.  For an exit shower, it doesn't matter to me whether she wants to join me or shower after I leave.

refuse a playtime shower!
Whether it's the get acquainted or farewell shower.
Always enhances the session for me!

Not counting Kgrils or Chinese massage parlors, which almost all do it, I find it rather rare that the provider joins me. Me showering at the start so I am fresh, that's pretty much a given unless I literally just showered before I come to her. But on the rare occasion I have a provider who showers with me, it's a huge turn on. Honestly, if I see in her reviews that she will shower with me, I might choose her over another provider or pay a little more. And, for me, it's before. Showering with me after doesn't do as much for me.

I expect the lady to be showered and ready before I arrive.  Then I shower alone to get clean.  At the end it's nice to shower together for additional time together.

I don't want to be the one not under the nice warm shower stream.  I'm greedy like that.

So it's not happening, lol! I do love making it up by giving you a massage and more!

nothing makes a woman less sexy-looking than being naked with a shower cap on.  lol

I do like to shower with my guy..... unless he stinks coming in the door. If thats the case, he can shower before n wash that funk off. Haven't experienced this in years though but it has happened.  Otherwise,  I enjoy showering together ❤️

Once my stylist does my "travel hair", it's luxurious baths until I get back home.  Now baths for two when I book a place with an oversized sunken tub is a different story.

surprise me one time with a sunken jacuzzi tub for two when she hosted me at a nice hotel, but it was an overnight, so I can confirm she could afford it between the rate plus the tip I gave her for the thoughtfulness.  Lol

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On the topic of showers, Austin Powers noted:  

The mutual shower experience has been rare for me. I usually shower prior to the event and just role out afterwards.  

This is as simple as a,b,c.

I heard taking cold showers is healthier.  Well f that.  If I die, I die.

I always shower just before the date and appreciate when a gentleman has done to same or showers st the beginning of the date. It's definitely fun to shower together but I only do so if he mentions it as it's kind of intimate.

I am more, than likely going to go with the good vibes & energy if it’s an overnight, or daycation. I am living in the moment. I am a big girl & can do my hair again for when you take me out to eat sitting pretty.  It might take me an hour to do my hair it’s work, so you have to be worth the extra work.  Lol Smile for me!

you're on the clock, why does the guy also have to be "worth it?"  Would you rather spend that same hour with his dick down your throat, or fixing you hair again?  Lol

I'm a Leo.  We don't like to get our hair wet.  I'd prefer to put it up and jump in the bath together.

If it will be a part of the session or is she want me to join her I would  happily  obliged.  but would be concern about geting  carried away as condoms in the shower don't always work well or there may be none there to begin with. So maybe its best if I avoid showering before the session.

You say here that you do outcall only, where they come to you, but today, you started a new thread about going to a run-down motel to see a provider.  Were you lying on this one or that one?   Oops!!   Lol

Pay attention  to the subject line ,and the second to last sentence.  It's  my mistake  though, I should have use quotation marks  at the beginning and end to show that I was actually  regurgitating  someone's review.

We could use more of it here.