Rabbit is what my providers call minuteman. I've always taken a long time to pop and never more than once an hour. However, I usually don't have a problem popping during my session. It's difficult for me to judge whether I'm missing out since I've never been able to do it, and time I spent doing actual sex is probably much longer than minuteman who pop twice or even three times in an hour.
I use to be the minuteman who would discharge in a couple of minutes. But now I've sort of build up the endurance, it's been kind of tough.
I saw a provider a week ago. She was fantastic. The first round went for nearly 30 minutes, 10 of which was just straight intercourse. The sex was great, but I just couldn't release any earlier and really had to focus to do so. I think she became kind of sore at that point.
Round two was hard and a challenge to pop despite her pleasuring skills. Everything felt great, but it wasn't coming out. I eventually resorted to jerking with my hand as hard and fast as possible with her helping but she just became irked it was taking too long, as did I, but it happened...eventually.
So what's your take on the issue? Go a few rounds popping early or having to fight it to pop?
When I was in my teens I was a minuteman as well. I had to learn to control it. Once I had that down, I could go until I thought my ex was ready, then I'd let myself go.
When I reached my late 40's, I noticed that it took a lot longer to cum. So did my ex. It just got worse. Viagra doesn't help at all, just makes it worse.
Not trying to brag or anything but I can typically get in 3-4 pops in a two hour session. Typically, I just get the first one out of the way ASAP without trying to hold back. Just let 'er rip. I refrain from ejaculating at least one day prior to an encounter because it makes me feel like a big shot to let out a...well...big shot!
I can get in many pops but I usually have little endurance. A little bit of alcohol actually helps me maintain longer believe it or not. I lasted about 20-25 minutes once doing nothing but mish after having two jaeger bombs and a bottle of champagne. Helped that I was really into the provider I was with too. Best sex I ever had and may ever have. However I got to the point where I just wanted to pop to get it over with and I had to jerk it myself just like happened to you.
All things considered, you need to find the balance of not worrying about things like this and going with the flow while also being aware of your body and what it's capable of. What's the point in holding back for so long you're time is almost up and you could have gotten another blast off.
My two cents.
diet, etc. If you are overweight, tired, or recently eaten a lot of fatty or fried foods, you will most likely have difficulty in the love arena.
Another factor is age. Guys in their 40's, 50's, & 60's do not have the youthfulness and ability to pop often and quickly like they did when they were in the teens or twenties.
Lastly, you may have better results f you let Mr. Happy rest for a few days or maybe a week or more before a big date; translated--don't let rosie palm near Mr. Happy for a while.
Rabbit is what my providers call minuteman. I've always taken a long time to pop and never more than once an hour. However, I usually don't have a problem popping during my session. It's difficult for me to judge whether I'm missing out since I've never been able to do it, and time I spent doing actual sex is probably much longer than minuteman who pop twice or even three times in an hour.
When I was in my teens, right up to about 21, I came so easily that I once came in my shorts watching Tina Turner do her bj-with-the-microphone routine in the Stones movie "Gimme Shelter". (video link below).
It is called 'Delayed (or Retarded) Ejaculation'. It is a known condition. Google it.
I take my time and enjoy the one.
To your point, I am lasting longer than I used to but I'm almost 50 now
Go to Wal Mart and get 50 Mg Zinc and get some Fenugreek pills (I can only find this in WalMart).
Zinc increases your semen production and fenugreek increases your testosterone. Fenugreek is natural so nothing to worry about and regularly used in Middle-eastern and Indian cooking. Takes about a two to three weeks or so if you take daily. Start with 2 Fenugreek
If that works for you, that's great. I had my testosterone checked, and it's right up at the top of the level it should be at.
Age, my friend. Age. Coming soon to a body near you. 
So is arsenic, and poisonous mushrooms, hemlock, Nightshade, puffer fish, sharks and earthquakes!
Shit, peanuts are natural yet every year people die from eating peanuts.
I am not arguing with your recommendation, or specifically whether fenugreek is safe or not, or if it works. I just laugh every time I see, "It's natural so it's safe!" LOL. That is just a moronic, illogical statement.
Just because something is natural doesn't mean it's safe.
Just because something is synthetic doesn't mean it's unsafe.
Arsenic gives a very good psychedelic high. You're nauseous for the first half hour, then the trip starts. It's natural alright.
Zinc increases your semen production and fenugreek increases your testosterone. Fenugreek is natural so nothing to worry about and regularly used in Middle-eastern and Indian cooking. Takes about a two to three weeks or so if you take daily. Start with 2 Fenugreek.
I belong to several ANR groups and sites. There is a "born male" who belongs to
one of the groups; s/he has ad-ons and other "up grades" and is now lactating.
I've never had a complaint.
I've always went in planning on one cup if I'm seeing the lady for just a hour.
I've never been a "Minuteman" so I spent my time enjoying the ladies oral skills performing oral on her and of course the main event. If the main event was taking to long and she was getting sore you could have had her perform more oral or had her use some lube. I've never known a Provider who hasn't had some with her.
You just need to change your thought process. It's a fine bottle of wine now, not a six pack of beer. It's about quality and savoring it!
I think the point is having fun not meeting a challenge. Lasting or being quick is fine .. whatever is natural to the person.. timing things and rubbing a sore on yourself sounds gruesome. I can imagine some guy huffing and puffing, cold sweat dripping off his brow, desperate concentration, al dente noodle flopping around, glazed blood shot eyes... frustration...
whew.. I'm excited now. U?
Never argue with your body, because if you do that's one argument you're going to lose.
And how true that is.
When I was in my twenties, I would jerk off about an hour before going to see a provider so that I could last maybe 5-10 minutes. This was back in the days of "one and done".
Now I'm north of 60 and I store up a whole week so that with some luck I'll get off two times in two hours.
In a way, I like it like that. It's a nice ride and I enjoy all the scenery that goes by. Even at times I don't get the second shot off in time, I enjoy going with the flow rather than forcing it to happen. A gal is a nice vehicle to take a ride on even if you don't arrive at your destination.
Hey man, things change as you get older. Book longer sessions. It will make the lady happy and will have plenty of time to pursue your orgasms at a relaxed pace.
I'd rather pop once each with one or two different providers over two shorter session rather than pop twice with a single provider over a longer session. But that's just me.