I was with a lady once and while I was in mid-thrust she screamed, "I love you!"  I thought it was part of the act, but she screamed it 2 more times after that.  Still wasn't sure it was genuine, but it was nice to hear.  Now, no joke, she was on her 3rd orgasm at the time.

I'm sure that's not the first time that's ever been uttered in that circumstance.  My question, how should I have taken that?  Is it possible it was sincere?  Should I have said it back?  Should I have taken it with a grain of salt?

I'd really like to hear what the ladies think of this one.

You were with her only once? If that's the case take it with a grain of salt

I have said....."I LOVE ME" and "Damn, I'm GOOD"!  LMAO



just kidding....

I say all kinds of stuff when I reach my peak.

I've been known to be audible, but what comes out is unintelligible.  Probably more like speaking in tongues more than anything.  Jaycee

maybe she meant" i love....fucking ...you " the operative word was lost in mid thrust

than where I live.  Was on vacation and wanted soem fun.  It was a multi-hour visit.  I have not been back, but I would def like to.

-- Modified on 5/10/2010 8:26:49 PM

But then again, I'm just so fucking lovable.

except in between long term leasing arrangements. still i am more of a confirmed hermit, but i'd shrivel up too and need to have a discussion about the meaning of the outburst.

i get that it can be simply part of the emotive release for some folks.

Come on! Seriously! You know, just blows my fucking mind some of the rocket scientists and brain surgeons on this fucking site that don't take a page outta my book! Fuck!

WTF is wrong with you?! You have any idea, what-so-fucking-ever the treatment I get?!

Nah, I'll admit, it's sooo cool to talk with some of the ladies. And I definitely get an education out of them.

But to tell the truth, I don't tell 'anyone' I love them unless I really do. Whether it be a provider, hobbyist, civvie friend, or family member.

I might be an asshole, but I have a certain place in my heart for some certain people.

And I ain't ashamed to tell them so!

after a particularily wet-n-wild extended DATY session. Maybe she meant it becuase she extended the date and we had even more rollicking DATY for another hour+ and had me trying some new wholebody stimulation techniques I have been experimenting with.

I took her 'I love you' in the vein of "I love what you are doing to me."

-- Modified on 5/11/2010 6:20:40 AM

I am usually quite loud and yelling out something that includes a swear word.  Examples -  Hell Yeaaaaaaaaaaa!  Oh baby, fuckkkkkkkkkkkkkk........  (quiet pause)  Then -  WOW!!  OMG!! That was a fucking Awesome O!  And many other things I have been known to say.  I also have been known to stop breathing a few seconds.  But those 3 words. Hell No!!  

She was most likely just caught up in her orgasms and the throes of passion and it was just an emotional phrase she may have said to someone in her past who had meant something to her and gave her possibly her first major orgasm and you reminded her of it and it just slipped out of her during them.   Especially if she did not say anything more about saying that after you two were through having sex.  Did she say anything more or say them again afterwards?  Also there was no reason for you to say them back to her, if you did not feel the same and there wasn't a real legitimate reason for her to say them to you, unless you two were in an already planned role playing scenario and it was part of it.  So just remember the great sex you had that day and forget about the silly things said in the throes of passion.  

LL

"OK sweetie, I's ready whenever you are"
Now I ax you, is that be nasty or what?!  LMAO  Men!

I really am in love with you... and that has little to do with orgasms.   Has everything to do with who you are as a person. And there are a two men I truly love.. and a couple I super duper like ALOT but it has little to do with the orgasms.

Not that this women doesn't love you (?) but if she does.. do you think it is all about the sex... (!?)  * I can't imagine that being the case.  and maybe those are words she uses lightly..... ?*

Only once.  We had been seeing each other for three years when I said it, and this month we celebrate the 5th anniversary of our first date.

No regrets.

Was it sincere?

Rule number one: Never believe anything someone says in the midst of orgasm. You're rushing with endorphins and you aren't thinking straight.  If she can't say it at any other time,  it's just an expression of the joy she's feeling during sex.

Should you say it back?

Rule number two: You are not responsible for the actions of others. However,  you are responsible for you reactions. NEVER say "I love you" if you don't mean it.

What does it mean?

Rule three: Love exits in many ways.  You can love your best friend, your dog, your sibling, your parents, your mentors. You can love people you don't even like (family is a great example).  If you really want to know what it means, the only person that can answer that is the woman who said it.

You done yet ?

Have you nutted ?

I heard this from a non-GFE provider .. LOL

I didn't hear the "me" or the "I'm" parts, I heard "you" and "you're". Just goes to show that we hear what we want to hear

Oh, MY God.

Oh my, GOD

OHMYGOD!

Ooooh My Goood


Cheers,
Hanna

I have thought it several times.  More along the lines of, "My god, I could love this man and have his children" or just feeling this outburst of emotion.

But then those damn boundaries that I have set come into play and I understand them.  I think that it was just an emotional release.

By the way ... are you in the Dallas area?  It sounds like you might be ... ah nice.

Elisabeth  

You are under arrested.