I love it when a lady asks me what I like. Even if I'm in the mood to 'take it as it comes' it's a turn on to know she's into pleasing me.

I'm sure there are a thousand creative ways to do it too ... you gals are so imaginative ;]

It’s such a wide general question with a thousand possible answers!

But one thing springs to mind:  it turns me on to dress up for a guy, be it executive look or schoolgirl, lingerie or whatever, and know he is turned on by it.

Hmmmm.

Prior to meeting:

- A nice website. (Natural pictures, some unique info and interests.)
- Good turn-around time on responses to my emails. (Shows interest on her part, always a turn-on).

The Meeting:

- A clean incall.
- Some nice music. No techno-pop. Can't go wrong with some good Classical, or Sinatra, or even some of the 50's/60's music. (No, I wasn't born when that music first came out, but I find it is nice background music for conversing, and ahem, other activities.)
- It's a turn-on to help a lady undress, instead of coming out of the bathroom and her already in her birthday suit. The anticipation as one removes each layer of clothing adds to the build-up.
- If she is in a room where the blinds/shades don't have to be closed all the way, it is a turn-on. Was with a lady where the curtains were fully open, with the bed next to the window during the day. That was erotic!
- Although it can be a little messy, including some fruit/pastry/whipped cream is always fun.  I haven't had the opportunity to try it yet (hope to in the future), but I'd love to try some mutual body painting as part of the foreplay.

What I look for in an experience:
- That it be memorable. It doesn't have to be wild. Memorable kissing. Memorable caressing. Primal sounds. Something that brings a smile to one's face when recollecting days or weeks later.

What I look for in a partner?
- A nice smile, and alight heartedness.
- Nice conversation about things of the world (travel, food, books)
- Interest in the things I am studying/researching. (This first manifests itself usually in a pre-email.)
- Someone who, after our first meeting, will suggest something erotic for us to do the next time. Shows me they really listened during our 'afterplay' conversing.

Now, if I could have all that, and be able to make love in the woods/mountains or on the beach, I would be a very blest man!  

Partner as in a Provider's S/O  or Hobbyist?
If you mean a Hobbyist, thats pretty simple for me to answer, What turns me on is a man that's respectable, at ease in my presence, smells great, and is a fantastic kisser, if all those are present, the something fantastic will surely follow!
Jay

Public play!

I thoroughly enjoy having dinner, at a fine establishment, with a gentleman. Upon arriving at the restaurant, I toss him the remote to my egg...that has already been perfectly placed for our enjoyment.

Later, I might slide off to the ladies room and remove my panties. Once I arrive back to the table...he can use them as a napkin, if he wishes.

Since this summer ....

.. I've enjoyed some new things with one lady.
(  She's a new acquaitance and I count myself as very, very lucky to have met her. )

Our 1st meeting was terrific.  She's so YUMMY, that soon afterwards I arranged for an overnight.

The "fantasies" started forming before the overnight though.  I started writing out some of the things that I'd like to do to/for her & her to/for me, etc.  I didn't write any crazy or out-of-control scenes.  They were just 2 or 3 normal "fantasy" scenarios.  Like her being blindfolded & teased a whole bunch.  Things like that.

Then one night while we were on the phone - working out the when & where details - we got into an hour-long session of phone sex!!  She had me describe the things that I'd written out.  She had some fun that night, but since I was a little busy reading it to her, I had to postpone my own satisfaction!!

Well, the overnight came about & it was just great!!  We enacted everything that I'd written about & more!!

Then ( from somewhere!! ) I came up with something that I wanted to experience.  I wrote it down & emailed it to her.  I wanted:
1 - to be tied down onto the bed.
2 - have my clothes ripped /torn / cut off.
3 - to be SHAVEN down below by her!!

Now this is totally new for me.  I've trimmed down there  - but never tried to shave!!  Well, we did this on our 3rd date and it came off ( pun intended ) well!!

Last but not least was our last date ( # 4 ) where we had a belated Halloween costume party!!  Just her and I with some adult Halloween costumes.  It was a lot of fun!!  I think she really enjoys doing the dressing up ( and undressing ) a few times whenever we meet.

Sorry if this got rather long.

Have a good night,
Manny

ps - I like Paris's egg play idea.  It's making me think of some new ways to have fun!!

Re: What turns you on?

Believe it or not I love naughty play with my dinner mate in resturant bathrooms, move over Senator Craig, lol!
Their is nothing like good food, a glass of wine and a retreat to the restroom.  I find it soo exciting and get a real charge to go for a quickie during the course of a meal.
Of course not all resturant bathrooms are clean enough or set up for this scenario but I personally know more than a handful in NYC that are perfect!

I met my friend at an XXX Bookstore. We did the glory hole fantasy! We arrived separately and acted like strangers, it was so sleazy (They had baby wipes in the booths LOL) but it was so hot too.

There are so many things that get me going, but I would have to say meeting a man and having him ravage me immediately.  One of the hottest times I had was when the door was barely closed and I was pushed against the wall, my clothes were just about ripped off, hands and mouth were everywhere.  NOTHING hotter than being desired like that.....

Kari~~

... the money side is just a bonus. That's when you can forget it was a service.

Re: What turns you on?

That ass of your's!....Instant "boner"!

and making out anywhere can be fun.

I miss the hot makeout sessions at the drive-in movie myself. Did anyone ever watch the movie?

To bad there wasn't an adult drive-in movie on the weekends...Id love to check out the concession stand filled with all adult novelties then go back to the car and put the top down..As the movie heats up and tongues are dripping so are all my neighbors.

Making love under the stars with 100 cars rocking and rolling with steamy windows, moans so loud even the speaker is drownded out and maybe an invite from the couple parked next to you...

Now that would be well worth the price of admission  

Kisses Haley

a light touch on bare skin - sparks fly

a whisper in or a kiss or lick on the ear

fingers running through my hair

passionate kissing

mutual exploration while still clothed or partially clothed

more passionate kissing

becoming breathless together, bringing each other to that place where the need is immediate if not frantic, while still clothed

an intense consummation of the build up lust

kissing and touching each other all over before during and after

enjoying the afterglow together in an un rushed fashion

pleasant dreams of next time

What turns you on?  
** Confident, charimastic, successful and gentle men.

What situations/fantasies do you have that would be really HOT to you?  
** Outdoor sex. Sex in beautiful places of luxury. Dressing up. Role play.

What do you look for in an experience or in a partner?
** I look for what is inside - depth of character and personality are important for me.