How many of you have taken a provider away on vacation abroad and how long was it?

Did you end up taking someone you'd repeated with many times? And how was the experience? Did you site-see or what type of things did you end up doing with your time together? (besides stuff in the bedroom lol).

It requires special type of chemistry to be able to live with the lady for 3-4 days. Its one thing going in, paying for sex and going back home in hour or two, but vacationing with a provider is a different ball game.  If things go wrong, a lot of drama can ensue.

Its lot easier to find local talent wherever you are vacationing

I admit I've been tempted to take an ATF/SB on a week-long vacation.  But my trick knee twitches every time. You're probably better off taking that trip with an SO, family member, or friend--you know, those crazy, mixed up people who don't charge you to spend time with them.  

Think about it: if your provider was really into you, then she'd no longer be your provider.  She'd be your girlfriend.   I'm sure most providers enjoy spending a few hours off the clock with a favorite client.  But a week or more together?   You should think twice before you commit to something like that.  --z

First of all, ask yourself this question..........

Besides kickin' it in the bedroom, is this the girl you want to hang out with and spend time with? Just because you have a wonderful time with a provider, doesn't mean that doing "civie" things together will go smoothly. This is where having a lot of things in common and having a connection with each other are important. Otherwise it's going to be very awkward.

This is my opinion and my opinion only, I wouldn't recommend doing the vacation thing. It's not worth it. Do you really want to pay a provider to hang out with you? Why not go on a vacation and enjoy it for what it's worth, and buy a provider's time when you get the urge for play?

But having read posts for very lonely men it's pretty apparent that some of these guys simply think that by paying a hooker to be their friend...it will be so.

And that is (almost) never the case!

I have no issues paying a hooker her rate for BCD...beyond that there is NO fucking way I'm paying her to be my friend.  If she wants to join me for dinner/lunch great...but its never going to be for money.  Some do...some don't.  No big deal to me either way.

I'm single and I enjoy the company of my ATF. She's fun and makes the trip pleasurable !

I've done the same with a couple of my ATFs.  We enjoy each others company and have many interests in common, so our trips have always been fun.  Sometimes I prefer having a full-time travel companion, rather than vacationing solo and making arrangements to see locals.

I go on trips with SD1 (when not in school). Very often.

Going on a trip with a client? Well, some escorts only provide services that include more than sex. Those clients expect you to be ready to jet set at a moments notice.

What I'm reading, so far, is that the majority of men here, are not that type of client.

Yes it's exactly how I feel . I really enjoy my friend and she enjoys it too.  So could it be any better ? Sex and a fun time with someone you know ! Perfect.

If I had no SO, I would, but the guidelines will have to be crystal clear.
I'm not paying for all her time.  She's going because she wants to travel.

I've met providers who can carry a good conversation and who have
broad interest in many things including foreign travel.

I prefer to take my SO on vacations--she deserves it just for putting up with me.   As Rose stated, there are SBs with passports who will travel with an SD.  Two points here:
1)  I think that's an expensive trip.  
2) given the typical age difference in these relationships, there's quite a bit of risk involved.

Just today, I bedded SB5-HotLatina.  Then I took her to lunch, But after 3 hours with her, I pretty much had enough of the girl for a week, lol.  So I'm probably not a traditional SD.  I feel more comfortable traveling with my SO, who is my age, has been with me for over 20 years,  and knows me better than any SB ever will.  

For you guys who pay for travel companions: Don't you have any friends?  
Sorry guys, I couldn't resist.  --z




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The main reason I did it was because she accepted to do it for $1,500.  We only met once before.

Long story short--it was akward and not nearly as fun as I hoped it would of been.  After plane tickets, broadway shows, dinners, etc. easily $3,000.

In hindsight, I would of much rather have done 10 sessions.

Live and learn.

Probably depends on how much disposable income you have.  The provider service would probably be more than the price of the trip.  Even the price of an overnighter is pretty prohibitive to me.  The value of a dollar is too great to me to spend it on the chance of a companionship that might not work out and spoil the vacation.  But that's just me.

Nice to see posts like this.

OP, It depends on the chemistry. The guy that spends only an hour or two with a provider wouldn't understand the mindset of a man that books a three day weekend with one. Take the comments here with a grain of salt. If YOU think she will be a great companion, do it.

A long time ago, I dated a provider, and I took her on some cool vacations.  However, that was different, because she soon quit her job providing (actually, she was a bodyrub girl that I ended up having sex with).  So that situation is unique.

But a run-of-the-mill provider?  Probably not.  Unless you have spent some serious time with her overnighting already and you know her mannerisms and proclivities in the morning and late at night...could be a very bad idea.  Providers always show you their best sides when you see them as providers.  They don't show you what they look like when they wake up, before they have had their coffee, etc.  It can be pretty ugly.

Try some overnighters first.  Just an overnighter in your city.  Make sure you end it late, like after lunch.  Give yourself some time to see what she is like in the morning.

Also, try something shorter, like two nights in a different city.

Don't go all-in on some weeklong vacation.  You might find yourself wanting to end it early.

You aren't gonna be fucking all the time.  Not even 10% of the time is my guess.

And so what do you do the rest of the time?  Have conversation and do stuff together.  And if you don't know her well, that part is gonna be a grind.

Three nights is a long time when you don't know the other person.  If you just wanna keep it to longer sex, book an overnight.  Fuck before dinner, then after dinner.  Then in the middle of the night.  Then in the morning.

Minimize the amount of time talking.  Maximize the amount of time fucking.

But vacations?  Unless you KNOW her, downside is far worse than upside.

I've gone on many trips with clients.  It is the very best part of my job!  I love to explore new places or to share my experience of places I've been with the men I date.  We go on an adventure and then go back to the room and crash into each other's arms and into bed.  It make the sex even better because you get to anticipate it all day while having some great experiences that will last a lifetime!

Just make sure you are compatible with whomever you take.  Otherwise, it could be a nightmare.

It's gonna be maybe 20% sex at most.  So if you have nothing to say with/to her outside the bedroom, bad, bad idea.

This is where personality comes into play, big-time.

But from the johnnie boy's perspective it's a really pathetic maneuver to buy a friend.

OH..perhaps you do this OTC?  In that case...yep, it's a great idea  LOL

As you're mulling over taking Miss ATF to Paris for Christmas, think about how your memories of that place & time will include that of a person you had to pay to go with you.  Is that how you want to remember it?   Why not take your SO?  Or your son/daughter.  Or travel with your best bud.  

When I'm old & gray,  I want to remember being in that time/place with someone I  cared about, binded together by love and friendship.   Call me crazy.  --z

...and they buy someone to be nice to them for the duration...this just takes it outside and the activities added in acronym form are as follows SS, DWF, SMWF, SSWF, EIPWF. The whole thing is bought and paid for.

BUT..to have to pay some gal to be his friend...that is just screaming of a johnnie boy with NO friends...or real other life.

And that is not all that unusual.

Still...not something anybody who has a life outside of hookerland would or should consider doing.  But to each their own.

I have spent several 3/4 day trips and one 6 day trip with a provider and we had a awesome time.  That said, she and I clicked.  I am not saying others would not be fun for a couple or more days but you have to really enjoy her company and she yours...  The really hard part is that you have to find a lady who you really have interests in common with.  

I have a suggested provider and you may pm me if interested.

And I then asked myself, what the hell am I doing?  Now that I am seeing this woman outside of BCD, it is not an enjoyable experience at all, in fact I don't even like this person, I want to drop her off at home as soon as possible, and get the hell out.  Of course, your results may vary.

Aside from that, there is nothing worse than spending a week or a weekend with someone where everything started off fine, and now you are getting drama, and then you have to look forward to spending even more time with this person before your vacation ends and you can finally get back home and get rid of them.

You need to work up from a short date, to a long date to an overnight to a weekend.

Sometimes a person is someone you should just see for a few hours max.

I have done it several times with people I knew well, and they all went well.

Again, $1500 for three days.

Hard to pass that one up especially when she is hot.