Is there another level after this?

Getting into the Hobby started for me with viewing porn in the late 1980's via the old Bulletin Board Systems.

I moved from viewing to doing when I picked up my first hooker around 1994.

Then when I began to go to men's clubs in the mid-to-late nineties, I learned you could get anything you wanted for a price. I quit picking up the street ladies.

When I learned about the Hobby about this same time last year, I walked away from the men's clubs.

Hmmmm .... I don't know that I ready to make the leap but I wonder, "What comes after the Hobby?"

Where does this need for sexual fulfillment lead next?

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being someone's sugardaddy

it's worth it with the right girl / arrangement

That is where I gonna wind up when I quit this.

I think they should make a hobbyist private area though with total reivews or number of ladies visited for the markers. roflmao

I agree, having been there, done that, though the problem is finding a suitable lady. In my humble opinion having a 'sugar baby' means she should be 'exclusive' to me.... after all I'm suppling an appt, car, expenses etc etc. Any thoughts on this would be welcome.

...great sex till you both grow old together.  And still great sex when you are both old and grey.

At least I hope that's what comes next!  lol

Not only that, but in a "commited financial arrangment" and with a little testing, BBFS becomes a menu-option! (fuck all you nay-sayers and condom-champions! This is my "preemptive strike" on you!)

Ahhh... The joy of a college-aged "kept-girl" to pop in on a few times per week! Er, I mean "pop in" a few times per week!

I became a "sugar daddy" about 11 years ago.  I still see the same woman.   I met her at a strip club.  She is beautiful, 38DD, flat stomach, nice legs, smooth skin.  Sounds great.   But I made the mistake of falling in love with her.   I am afraid that that can happen.

Perhaps I should have married her, but I did not want to give up my family.   IN short, too many complications.  

The hobby is the highest form of sexual entertainment.

The hobby is the final destination for me. It has takin me to a place I've been searching for all my life, and I can't imagine being any happier doing something other than this. I spent decades having sexual fantasies I thought I would never achieve. For years I was a porn addict, and envied the guys in it for all the fun they were having. It was a frustrating exsistance.

But then I discovered the hobby, and now I never have sexual fantasies or watch porn anymore, because what ever I thought of, or watched on video, I have experienced in real life and have even gone beyond what my mind could have imagined. It turns out the guys in the videos were actually having less fun than I am now.

I've experienced extreme pleasures, had some enormous thrills, and met some of the most beautiful and charming women there are. I also have developed some true friendships with many of them, which to me is as rewarding as the intimacy I've had with them.

I just don't know how it can get any better than this.

Listen to Martin Luther....

I'm loading up on assisted living company stocks figuring they'll make a killing once the baby boomers reach the drooling vegetable stage. If I have to get older I might as well make sokme money off of it. LOL

Hope I'll be lucky enough to die with a smile on my face.

Ah, the joys of barebacking that cute little 19 year old-- and she's all yours for the right price. That's what one of my very wealthy, very married friends thought when he graduated from playing the hobby field to becoming Sugar Daddy to one.

He found her quite by accident in of all places a library. A few casual platonic afternoons together and he made her an offer she could not refuse-- $3k a month plus her rent and she was his whenever wherever. She was allergic to latex and she rationalized that since she didn't mind swallowing from bb blowjobs that bb sex shouldn't be a problem either. He thought he had died and gone to heaven. About 8 months into this tryst she professed her love for him. He wanted no part of love but he was thinking with the little head and the arrangement continued. It wasn't long before she announced her pregnancy and her expectation that he leave his wife and kids to take care of her and their soon to be son. Well, you get the picture- the wife divorced him taking a sizeable chunk of his bank account with hefty child support. The 19 year old decided after much reflection(and consultation with an attorney) that she preferred the large child support payments she learned were available. She came to realize that if her sugar daddy cheated on his wife with her, then he'd probably do the same again. So my good friend now has an ex-wife with half his money plus alimony, hefty child support for their 3 kids, child support for the sugar baby's baby and an 8 bedroom house he now lives alone in.

We always talk about the risk of disease exposure when discussing the bareback issue. And, of course, maintaining your health and that of your significant others is more than worthy of consideration. But sometimes condoms can save more than your life...

is more than a dumbfuck, he's suicidal.Great post and even better warning for all you guys with too much money that your arrogant asses think that you are made of teflon and very little sticks. I hate that we have so many nameless bastards out there to fill up an entire state the size of CA. When will they ever get it?

Guaranteed! H&T has as usual a great perspective. I know too many guys chasing women in bars, strip clubs, work, and even their own neighbors. What a dumb way to go out. The ladies I've met don't love me, but we do have fun or at least I do. I don't take them or myself too seriously and that's where keeping the proper perspective on this comes in... Live long, drain the hose, tithe to the goddess DATY and you will die happy, albeit a little broker.

... And get a VASECTOMY!!

I guess that's why I can fuck with reckess abandon, I have no chance of getting an ex-wife, a large alimony payment or child-support issues!

If my "sugar-plum" comes in an anounces she's pregnant, then I'll see her on the Maurry-show for a paturtity test! 99.9 sure it won't be mine!

Health-risks are just a fact of life... Getting hit in your Toyota Preus by a semi-truck is also hazzardous to your health, but I see more and more of those damn fart-sniffing liberals driving their preus in the slow-lane everyday... Sounds to dangerous for me to try, I'll stick with a nice big SUV!

When I read some reviews, I realize that if you hang a price tag on ANYTHING, someone will come along and pay to fuck it... So I guess there might be a market for "drooling vegetable providers"... especially in the era of the baby-boomer's retirement, lol!

I didn't know it was a tranny until we were moving to the main event! YIKES!

I had already blew my first nut during the BJ, so as soon as i discovered the exta weiner in the room, I got out of there!

(I'm somewhat ashamed to admit, it was the best head I'd ever had! LOL!)

Glad to know that there is at least one of us out there that has it all figured out--lol

He is snipped now but hind sight is 20-20. He and his ex had wanted 4 kids so he thought he planned accordingly. Unfortunately, he got a 4th child, just not with her.

I'm not doggin your bareback proclivities, Mr. Bareback-- just telling a true story about consequences when one doesn't think through what appears to be a good idea. And in that spirit, are you sure you're driving an SUV in bareback game you're playing? I'm not much of a car man myself, but it seems like you're the one in the Preus...

born from the epiphany of the natural mercenary intent of the female homo sapiens, and all the disillusionment associated and congruent to said.

In simpler terms “IAATM”

..............................NOT.

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Okay this may be Pie in the Sky but consider a few things.  First, the experience gained in this lifestyle is priceless. Let's admit it guys we are better lovers because of what we learn from some of these ladies. We have gained the experience of spending time with some of the most sophisticated, engaging, intelligent, experienced women in the world with amazing spirits. Ladies of such qualities we might never have found the likes of in our everyday life. Experiences which no one woman would have provided us.We have seen what is really out there and it has profoundly changed our lives. Now what is the ultimate goal? I say it is to find that woman who can truly make life wonderful for us and hopefully do the same for her in return.The one who has the spark, wit,beauty,spirit of adventure and desires that mesh as close to perfectly as possible with our own."If I only knew what I know now when I was Younger" Utopia? Well maybe but why not shoot for the stars. The real way to win at the game of life is to chose the right opertunity and go "All In"     Okay now who wants to burst my bubble?

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please read my response below and let me know what you think...

You just won't find them actively engaged in the hobby.  I know a few couples who have that endless, deep love.  I know one couple who have been married over 35 years and they are without a doubt each other's best friends and lifelong soulmates.  They are positively devoted to each other and to this day they freak out their now grown children with their public displays of affection.  Not unusual to catch them in steamy makeout sessions as if they were teenagers.  Yes indeed they remain hot lovers as well.  Hell they even have 3 grandchildren.  In any case it happens and without seeming overly corny, it's pretty nice to see that some people do find their ulitmate mates.    



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you'll find something that tickles your fancy and keeps the twitch in your pants happy. There's a large part of the hobby community that has been in this since it morphed from hookin' to "the hobby" (thanks to the internet) and no doubt others are starting to grow restless too (count me in that group).  No telling what this bunch might invent next to keep us all sexually entertained!

the desires of my heart will be with one love.  Then we will commence on an adventure to make love on the seven seas and five continents, from the beaches of Rio de Janiero to the mountains of Katmandu.

Be careful what you wish for.  Last time I was in Kathmandu was on a trek to the Annapurna base camp, and my lady love was with me.  I fell off a cliff, broke five ribs, and couldn't perform for at least five weeks.  OOOOHH it hurt!  Good luck, but be careful.

Whether it's "All in" or partially in, the choice is yours, but don't look for it in the hobby, because, the ladies are here for most all of us to enjoy. I take it that you live in Atlanta, right? There is no shortage of eligible women there that can make your dream come true. Keep your eyes on the road though, because when it happens, you will know it.

it is a wise man that learns from the mistakes of others. Thank you for sharing your anecdote.

For now my trysts with providers has been very good but not too kinky sex.

"No telling what this bunch might invent next to keep us all sexually entertained!"

Perhaps a sex machine similar to that experienced by Woody Allen in "Sleeper."  LOL.