Through this 'pro' fession, I've met men of all professions... medical, legal, some members of ... well, not gangs, but I won't say because it's confidential, lol, financial, computer, artists, musicians, producers, people who know people, etc. etc.
So.. if one has info you want to know more about, do you ever schedule a 'just for fun' date? I've done that just because I liked hanging out with the guy, but never with an alterior motive.
Here's the thing. There are some where it may be good to be on good terms with, just in case things get rough. (Not financially, but for situations where you may need guidance or other help.)
What do ya' think? Some are into some shady business, but it's still interesting to know the ins and outs of those things too. Just want to pick some brains OTC. (Drugs not included. NOt interested).
...now I have to go ask this cute pool guy a question...
If yes, forget about it.. If I'm not having sex with you, I am not paying you..
Yes sure. I can sit, talk, even have some food and drinks, and I will pick up the tab, but you ain't getting your donation amount for me, on this casual dinner/drinks date..
If that's OK, then I am game...
HOney, did you read the whole thing?
No man is going to pay an hourly rate that we charge for no sex. It's pretty obvious, lol.
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But you have certainly been underestimating the power of The Mangina.. when you say that they won't pay the donation....
I can show you two hookers who are charging a small fee for drinks and food.
PM me if you want.. 
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Yeah, small fee for drinks and food. Interesting, but that would take away from the guys who like that associated with the date. I actually do get really long, fully paid dates like those...
I'll PM you and tell you what I'm talking about. May kinda' freak you out, LOL.
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You mean a arm candy dates? I needed one of those last December.
ummm... maybe you can find someone? LOL.
i love to hang out with porn stars..they have the most interesting info..some of the stories they relate are on who..what and where are fascinating..regular escorting is mundane compared to what these ladies experience..
Posted By: Courtney.ova
Through this 'pro' fession, I've met men of all professions... medical, legal, some members of ... well, not gangs, but I won't say because it's confidential, lol, financial, computer, artists, musicians, producers, people who know people, etc. etc.
So.. if one has info you want to know more about, do you ever schedule a 'just for fun' date? I've done that just because I liked hanging out with the guy, but never with an alterior motive.
Here's the thing. There are some where it may be good to be on good terms with, just in case things get rough. (Not financially, but for situations where you may need guidance or other help.)
What do ya' think? Some are into some shady business, but it's still interesting to know the ins and outs of those things too. Just want to pick some brains OTC. (Drugs not included. NOt interested).
...now I have to go ask this cute pool guy a question...
Yeah, that actually sounds like tons of fun... I was thinking about getting into that, but probably not my style, haha.
I've had several just for fun dates with a few fellas that have become friends as well as regular clients. To name a few...dinners, concerts, and out on the lake. I have a great time either way. 
GK
TER lets you put a link to your site on these things? I post the wrong kind of picture on theme day, and I get moderated.
I'd look into this. Getting moderated is annoying, so take a look at the guidelines.
Said in all respect.
Grace knows the rules and you should concentrate on knowing them yourself.
Ok, just checking and trying to help. She's a cutie and seems sweet. Didn't want her to get into trouble.
Women who aren't as gifted as you in the looks department feel threatened!!! You are not the only provider affected on the CB.
Actually, I'm already being moderated because of a stupid mistake I made, but even more so when I do a dumb move.
But I'm not sure what you're saying...
Ladies may just get annoyed who know the rules and want others to stick to it as well.
Back to the newbie board for me, lol
Just a theory. I have noticed a bit of a pattern lately. Another provider had her picture pulled Wed. Just my observation that she received complimentary comments from hobbyists while another provider did not. Maybe the jealous provider reports other providers posts out of jealousy or desperation. My 2 cents. It has been noticed by others some women will promote themselves by whatever means they deem necessary. The problem is not you!!!
Usually, it's a combination of a session, followed by some OTC companionship. Most often dinner, but I've taken one gal (art student) to a museum. But in a couple of other cases I've taken gals to dinner or lunch where there was no planned session at all, strictly social and/or business advice.
Just because we met through this profession doesn't mean you can't click with someone and form a friendship. Of course, these things need to be handled with a lot of care, for all the obvious reasons, but that's another discussion that's been had here many times before.
Personally, I find it enjoyable to navigate around all the challenges of such relationships. Part of the interest is in exploring a relationship after you've already had sex, instead of pursuing a relationship with the object of having sex. In this sense (I've said this before here) our little world works backwards from civvy dating.
Had a lot of fun with my previous fav regular. Hung out all the time, laughed, etc. It was well worth it. 
"I will not fix your Computer.." if that's OK with you..
We bought a family member that before... didn't work. She won't fix my MAC tho. 
I think its fine to do OTC time with someone you find interesting. As long as both know its OTC only.
I am sure you meet many men who you enjoy there company. Why not enjoy it for free to when you have available time. I hang out with my atf all the time. Sometimes I have to leave though when she has a last minute date; that sucks but I understand though.
I have met many influential people in this business, but most don't need a free date to be a friend. They know if I need advice, I will pay them just like they pay me. Usually, guys you meet here are not shy to send a PM saying "Look girl, wake the fk up with that LLC bullshit" ha ha.
Saved my ass here. Bad question for the GD, but still kicked off the Provider board.
That's why longer dates go lower with gal's (I assume) because parts of it is just chilling, there's money spent on dinner, movie, whatever... what I meant was this...
Let's say I meet someone who has a profession, some knowledge, or knows this person or that person, i.e. people in a business I want to get into, or who can further my career.. whatever. I'm talking about going out to eat if I so choose, or just sitting and chatting OTC about something, etc., so I, honestly, can get something I need. There is an alterior motive here. I'm not by any means bored, I have my hobbies and things I'm pursuing in life. This is business I'm talking.
Anyway, I'm gonna' just drop the subject and stick to my rates. If you want to see me for that, cool. If not, cool. All else will be UTR as far as what I choose.
This post did not go the way I wanted. No retaliation reviews, please.
Thanks
I see no problem with doing that. most people are willing to help others get started in a business venture giving advice etc. But will definitely want compensation for anything more just like you would.
You mean some folks took that literally? I'm not the smartest fella here by any means but anyone should have been able to get the point of you're OP. Kind of like networking people in all kinds of buisness do it all the time, I need advice on concrete I call xxxxx I need advice on plumbing I call my buddy xxxxxx. Maybe grab a couple beers and help me work out the idiosyncrasies of the new mechanical building codes. Guys do it all the time but I'm not gonna ask John for a BJ because I helped him figure something out.No difference here, just that you happen to be a woman and a provider so folks just assume that you can't have real friends in this hobby world. And they assume that every gal owes them something, not cool!! Heck on the rare occasion a lady contacts me for advice on something I'm so flattered she thought of me I wouldn't dare ask for a return favor other than maybe some advice in the future. Believe it or not guys and gals can actually develop some actual real friendships in this hobby. Or at the least just help eachother because its part of being a decent human.
Jeez some guys amaze me!! But seriously though if ya need some advice on you're AC let me know and we can work out a trade!! (Just kidding couldn't resist)
You get exposure to a lot of different types of people. Why not?
I have "just for fun" on every date.
sometimes just dinner
sometimes we play checkers on her porch
and sometimes she fucks me like a honey badger.
I love this hobby.
I could fix your sink, or toilet. Maybe paint your walls...
Build a new anything..
That's all I got Sweetheart
that was cute... hmmm... I not the best at painting walls and was considering painting some accent walls, teeheehe *takes notes*
P.S. any man who can successfully fix that stuff is more than a nobody... and any man who will actually DO it... well, *sigh* LO
As a plumbing contractor, I've helped out several ladies with residential plumbing issue
...you need to pay for ours.
Don't expect a few flirty maneuvers to get you access to REAL expertise. Just like you, we don't get to where we are giving it away.
Posted By: Courtney.ova
Through this 'pro' fession, I've met men of all professions... medical, legal, some members of ... well, not gangs, but I won't say because it's confidential, lol, financial, computer, artists, musicians, producers, people who know people, etc. etc.
So.. if one has info you want to know more about, do you ever schedule a 'just for fun' date? I've done that just because I liked hanging out with the guy, but never with an alterior motive.
Here's the thing. There are some where it may be good to be on good terms with, just in case things get rough. (Not financially, but for situations where you may need guidance or other help.)
What do ya' think? Some are into some shady business, but it's still interesting to know the ins and outs of those things too. Just want to pick some brains OTC. (Drugs not included. NOt interested).
...now I have to go ask this cute pool guy a question...
will you be interested in helping me out? Nah. Although I do often enjoy the non-sex time I spend with providers, no OTC dates for me. And if I'm going to pay for a date, it will be with a lady who I'm not also paying for sex. Most providers are on the same page with this, so it isn't like it's problem. But I'm not looking to go in that direction with my hobby.
