I know myself and a few other providers offer to cook dinner as a part of incall  appointments. Do you think it is a good idea? Would you prefer her cook the food before your arrival or during? Does that seem too much like she's trying to compete with what you have at home? Your thoughts!

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I like it ! I like to talk and get to know the providers I meet with. So I enjoy the time.

And would offer that in a heartbeat, if I had my own incall. But I don't think many gentlemen would be too impressed with whatever I could throw together using nothing but the mini fridge, coffeemaker, and a can of Sterno lol in my hotel room.  

Other than Julia's type program I'm not interested in dinner.  
But then I'm either an hour or overnight type hobbyist.

AvaMoore:  as you will find out in a few decades (when you become an AARP member), your body will no longer work the same as it does in your 20's.

Great minds think alike!

You gave me the greatest giggle! But so true! Bon Appetit!

Posted By: THEAvaStClaire

And would offer that in a heartbeat, if I had my own incall. But I don't think many gentlemen would be too impressed with whatever I could throw together using nothing but the mini fridge, coffeemaker, and a can of Sterno lol in my hotel room.  
   
 Bon Appetit, lovely!

Haha! I totally understand!

My kind of guy!

No one that I have ever been in a relationship with long term has ever cooked me a home cooked meal as far as I can remember. They just didn't cook. I remember chocolate chip cookies from an ex once or twice but they were the plop in the oven and ten minutes later they are done kind. I can make pasta and grilled cheese recently learned chicken cutlets and I can BBQ. My mom doesn't cook often and I live at restaurants or fast food chains. Popeyes is my current favorite along with Sakura. I would be completely smitten with anyone that wants to take the time to cook me a home cooked meal.  

Keep it light, though...I'd like to eat shortly after I get there, and then spend some time with you...perhaps a nice exchange of massages...and after we're both nice and relaxed we can retire to the bedroom and enjoy dessert...

A highly reviewed lady in the LA area that I had seen a few times offered an incall home cooked meal. She had Italian roots (a few generations back) and cooked a delicious light dinner. What I remember more than the meal itself was that she cooked it wearing only thong panties, heels and an apron. That definitely didn't have any resemblance to what I have at home!

Popeyes is my favorite too. I don't cook much. Unfortunately my dr. just told me fried foods are out. I don't know what I will do without spicy fried chicken.

So said my date, and I agree with her. Even if gas or bloating aren't a factor, digestion consumes energy that's better expended elsewhere.

but a few times gals have cooked for me.

Awww I'll surprise you when I'm in town

To my dates, plated desserts,

Provided the guy is looking for some stimulation beyond the obvious, it is a wonderful idea. I assume it is off the clock. If so, I would jump at the chance, provided it was one of my ATFs. Some I barely want to stay in their place. Others, I would enjoy some extra personal time.

...if a date, P4P or civvie, cooked dinner for me! I think that would be sexy. Hard to explain, but I don't mean that in a chauvinist or misogynist way; it would make me feel cared about. Plus, it's a skill I just don't have which somehow adds to the allure. I would do my best to help out, but I'd probably just get in her way. Lol. It would be great time to get to know each other and get comfy.

... cooked on the clothes iron. Adjust the temperature setting to your preferences:  
Nylon ... Silk ... Cotton ... Linen ... Cheese

... I can recall that they are rather tasty, when freshly steamed.

they're one of my favorite vegetables . This is my kinda thread.

It was a long drive for me & I needed to eat before I got home...   She fed me something nice she did with food she had on hand.  After that, I'd stop at the store before I got on the highway...  I'd bring food.  A store chicken or other meats & salad.  We'd chat & play house get everything prepped before playtime, put in the fridge & eat after.  Of course, I always brought twice what we used & she kept the excess.   There was minimal cooking required though some things got made into stir fry.    
She worked from home once you got to know her...  she was a FBSM + extras gal...   Typically I was the only one she'd see on that day & scheduling was not an issue...  until it was (a family event) & she didn't tell me so we could have rescheduled or planned on a tight schedule.

Thanks, but I enjoy my lady parts and what they do for me very much. I am not "lacking" on anything in the pleasure department.

you just got slapped down and put in your place.....the people have ruled!

had part of the meal prepared ahead of time with the main course finished while we were sipping some wine. To me, this was far better than a dinner date.

...no bbbj and no anal means there are 3 things (extra services) left the provider can offer in order to get a rating higher than 7. Even if lopaw isn't interested in more than one guy at a time in her session the point is the services only have to be offered (in TER speak that means on the provider's profile) they don't have to actually take place in the session being reviewed. Kisses with tongue and really bi would easily make 9 so what's the beef?

I'll take you for a nice spaghetti (with home made clam sauce) dinner at the place of your choice.

In this case that DATY (being done by the provider ) would take the place of bbbj.

Ah, of course. The oft overlooked "Cheese" setting lol.  I suppose if I was selling the whole young college co-ed thing, that might be right on brand!  

I remember having Popeyes right after losing my virginity. It will always hold a special place in my heart.  

I remember Popeyes and sex in college. Didn't even have to get the women drunk. Just bought fried chicken into the dorms and that usually did the trick. Granted I had to drive 15 minutes off campus towards Providence to get it.  

Posted By: SoftlySarah

I remember having Popeyes right after losing my virginity. It will always hold a special place in my heart.  
   

Posted By: Zak0326

No one that I have ever been in a relationship with long term has ever cooked me a home cooked meal as far as I can remember. They just didn't cook. I remember chocolate chip cookies from an ex once or twice but they were the plop in the oven and ten minutes later they are done kind. I can make pasta and grilled cheese recently learned chicken cutlets and I can BBQ. My mom doesn't cook often and I live at restaurants or fast food chains. Popeyes is my current favorite along with Sakura. I would be completely smitten with anyone that wants to take the time to cook me a home cooked meal.    
     
  With that said if you ever need a taster. I'm your guy.  
     
     

Posted By: xAvaMoorexx

I know myself and a few other providers offer to cook dinner as a part of incall  appointments. Do you think it is a good idea? Would you prefer her cook the food before your arrival or during? Does that seem too much like she's trying to compete with what you have at home? Your thoughts!

You're close to some really good restaurants.  My incall is right in the heart of some of the best places in Atlanta.  Most of the time,  I give menu options and just pick it up on my way into town more time for play and the food is always good lol not that I'm a bad cook, in fact I'm a really good cook but honestly I just call it in and pick it up.  
Dinner dates that are incall and provided by me seems to be something the guys really love dessert is served in bed though!  Lol
Xoxo,  
TL

hahaha, thats the boyfriend experience, if you leave your socks on it would seal the deal.

It's so sexy and fulfilling to be fed!  I don't recall you ever cooking for me... do you have a specialty?

because i'm a horny dude

Lmao! I am so sorry! And have seen you on the board several times!  Now I owe you dinner ahaha!

Not all hotels have steam irons, but if yours does, set it to "broccoli" and you and your guest can have some steamed veggies with the grilled cheese!  

....Some appreciate it and some don't.  

You're a keeper  😙

Sex,  dinner and a movie at my place.  I find that foodies are most fun for this.  Being a chef by trade I still love to make people happy with food.  Imo it's a good way to unwind and lots of fun.

It sounds like you used her post to whine about something that she has no control over, nor likely cares alot about. If you were looking for validation with your bizarre assessment, you failed miserably.

I often cook something special for the ladies, if doing an outcall.  Of course, if a provider offered to cook for me, I would be all for it!

I hear a guy talk shop and I get turned on.  Maybe it's just me?

I really must be getting old, lol!
Or perhaps I never did have much of a memory... or maybe I lost my memory in the 60's that I wasn't around for.  Thanks for the jog.
; )

...I'll get to here's why in a bit.  
1. I took your reply to lopaw as a swipe at her and her scores. I wasn't absolutely sure so I didn't take you on about it. But I offered a plausible explanation of why TER allowed the ratings she gave. One which is valid in my view and backed by my experience. My "take it up with TER" was related to if your issue was with lopaw and TER letting her scores stand taking it up with TER instead of here on the boards with her is the thing to do.

but there's always some smart-ass willing to help if needed (wink [ ... first stop, beantown ... I'm eatin'

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Technically, I'm attracted to younger people of the opposite sex.  However, I do enjoy some stimulating conversation before the main event, and even more stimulating conversation during "cuddle time" after the main event.  "Talking shop" could certainly make for some stimulating conversation.