She could blacklist him, or post in the provider only forum. I’ve never blacklisted anyone, but I believe my booking process eliminates time wasters. I do a number of things that do not attract bs clients. Everyone operates different.
Posts up guys telephone number. Not sure what he did to deserve it, besides being a time-waster.
https://twitter.com/Smoothnsilky77/status/1696224400448893257
Right or wrong?
You decide.
I'll get some popcorn to hear the reasons for why doing this type of thing is right, and why blocking and blacklisting just are not enough for minor time wasters.
At least there weren't a bunch of ladies telling her how funny/cool it was.
Not someone I'd trust my info with.
with sex? Read the upper left hand corner of the index page where it says this, " . . . . a moderated forum dedicated to discussing the hobby, erotica, and sex related subjects." This seems like a political topic and belongs on the P & R board.
Since his inquiry is about "modeling" and not paying for sex, how is he harmed by her publishing his phone number? When you send ANY personal information to a stranger, you don't know what they are likely to do with it. You accept the risk, you take the consequences.
I agree with many of your posts CDL, but this one is just plain wrong.
You said it yourself, the General Board is for discussing the hobby - that's what his post is about. And I'm certain that guy whose info was posted was not interested in anything but something sex related.
As for being on the P&R board, there is nothing related to politics or religion.
Lastly, while he may be foolish for providing any real information, and being a complete ass while messaging the provider, putting out his information is just wrong. It's not like he was accused of violence or something egregious that could have harmed her or others.
You missed the whole point of the OP.
message to her where he makes a dig about her being a female athlete? That's a hot political topic he past few years. Most of the guys who make this kind complaint are young, and not many of them are "multimillionaires" like this guy. It just shows you money can't buy intelligence.
Being an ass AND giving her your phone number is just inviting retaliation and that's what she did. His stupidity can't be blamed on her. We are all responsible for our own actions and he threw the first punch. We will have to disagree on this one. You agree that he was a foolish ass, but you still want to give him a pass. SMH. If you don't approach other people you don't know with civility, you deserve WHATEVER reaction you get, IMO. I'm the same way. People reap what they sow with me, both here and in real life.
I did read where he accuses her of being a female athlete. But he is contacting a SW for a reason, and it's not for modeling. This is a sex forum and that's what the OP was writing about. The one constant here is that we do not "out" anyone for minor infractions.
Yes, he is a huge dumb ass, probably a misogynist, and possibly more. However, there were othr ways to handle it besides putting his information in a public forum.
Anyone who agrees that this is OK for one person just encourages it to continue for others. Where to draw the line? Someone insults a SW, does not show for a date, wastes her time with multiple emails or texts?
I believe the only only real reason would be if someone demonstrated dangerous behavior like stalking, assault or rape (like the guy in NJ a few years ago) SW have other ways to handle the garden variety dick-heads.
She could blacklist him, or post in the provider only forum. I’ve never blacklisted anyone, but I believe my booking process eliminates time wasters. I do a number of things that do not attract bs clients. Everyone operates different.
It would seem like a pretty typical gripe: random bloke talking big game (eyeroll) while texting like a zoomer. "Multimillionaire" didn't get the reaction he wanted to the pics of his car (probably his dad's), so he resorts to some ad hominem. Sour grapes, if you will. She recognized he probably wanted free pics under the false pretense of being a rich whale. "Modeling" he says. Nothing to see here.
I do agree with your spirit of your message, though, that "X", formerly Twitter, doubles as an advertising platform because it is not a SW-exclusive platform like certain subreddits. She should be more careful with the message she conveys about herself, because yes, based on this one tweet alone, I would never see this person. I wouldn't want my conversations shared with anyone publicly, even without RWI.
I don’t understand why these girls don’t just block and move on.. I don’t got time to be posting people’s information on the internet even the rude ones.
...in fact, our paths are not that far away and I've thought about reaching out to meet. I've never been comfortable with giving our PII but she appeared to me to be very down to earth, to the point that I may just have been tempted to offer up some info. Pretty sure she would go into that venerable reputable provider class that is talked about so often as being above reproach for their ethical business conduct.
of provider we all want to see, but I'm glad she stepped on this guy to show the careless yutes that are coming into P4P what CAN happen when they are rude and disrespectful. I'm not making any judgments on her or saying I would not still see her. This guy is a classic, insecure jerk, so this behavior on her part is most likely an outlier and not her normal reaction to normal customers.
I was planning on seeing her in DC. Read her website, filled out her booking form. Followed her instructions to a tee. Because I had references I didn't need RWI.
Submitted it and never heard back. Commented to her on Twitter about not hearing back and she made a nasty comment about me making a public comment about it. Meanwhile her website says if you make a mistake on her booking form she will just ignore the inquiry. SMH.
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