On Monday evening after going through a provider's reference checks policy, I scheduled a Tuesday afternoon appointment with her. I was thinking the incall would be at her house since she was local (wrong assumption on my part).

Is that she is trying to schedule multiple appointments before booking the hotel room and one of those appointments will be out in the suburbs.

Depending on the city, just because there were rooms on Tuesday doesn't guarantee there would still be rooms on Wednesday.  These kind of things do happen, and she is giving you the courtesy of keeping the lines of communication open.

Just look into what's happening in the city, it's probably going to be pretty obvious if an event is going on that would draw that large of a crowd.

... I think you're overstating how poor it is.

to find an out of the way place to bury a body in the suburbs.  Her pimp just didn't think it through, but ultimately appears to have gotten it right, except now you're suspicious and maybe you won't show up if given another chance.  Geez.  Amateurs!!!   Don't you hate it?

Similar experience a few weeks ago.  Well reviewed lady I've seen before setting up a repeat visit.  Date and time agreed upon.  First time she has business reasons for cancelling.  At least this is a day ahead.  Reschedule for the next week.  Morning of the appointment, she can't find a hotel, can we meet at your place.  Sorry no.  She tries to find a place, but eventually says no go about an hour before.  Shit happens, but like the OP, bit skeptical.  Sometime my green isn't green enough.  Makes me appreciate a lady that has a hotel rewards card, knows how to use it, and keep an appointment.

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How bad do you want to see her?

I do outcalls and hotel incalls. I tend to book hotel rooms last minute in case a client cancels because I don't have a deposit system in place.  

To me it sounds like poor planning. She may have waited to last minute to book a room or there were a lot of things happening in the city that she may have been unaware of. I would give her the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes things happen that maybe out of her and your control.  

I agree with GaG and mr envelope.

and questioning of motives?

I suspect that she is trying to schedule at least a couple of appointments for the same day to make it worth getting a hotel room, and the flakiness may have more to do with her other appointments falling through. Or maybe she needs a babysitter and doesn't have anybody that she can reliably get on short notice. At any rate, you should just move on and give your business to somebody who is more dependable.

Obviously scheduling is not her forte. This morning she texts and says noontime is good, and she will text the hotel later, which she does. Now, only an hour before the appointment, she texts and says the hotel is not allowing early check-in and asks if I can make it at 3:00pm.

Hmm...why do providers screen clients? Why don't they just trust who they say they are No need to question motives, right?

If all these changes are a red flag to you, or if you don't have a flexible schedule, then you are of course free to cancel and move on. On the other hand, it seems like she is juggling all kinds of things to make the meeting possible, so while she may not be the most organized person, at least she is keeping you in the loop. In my book that is a thousand times better than a NCNS. Personally, if my schedule was flexible, I would still see her.

but, she is keeping in touch, it's very possible they led her to believe she could arrange an early check in and then not have the rooms cleaned yet due to no one checking out early, and personally I would most likely agree to reschedule to 3 PM if my schedule would allow it, but that's just me.

But I beat you again. 🙂

Yeah, but hearing it twice is probably  good for the OP. lol