Providers,

I'm sure this question has been addressed before so please bear with me. Please save all the politically correct rhetoric for another discussion and give me your TRUE feelings on hobbyists in wheelchairs. As a young, paralyzed guy (helo crash in Afghanistan), I often wonder what is the best way to set up a date and break the news about my wheelchair situation to a provider. On the one hand, I don't want any awkward surprises if I don't tell her before she shows up; on the other hand, I want more providers to forego their reservations and take the chance to find out that I'm a good lover despite my injury and shouldn't shun me. I can still get it up when I'm turned on and I know how to take control and please a woman (use your imagination).

I've been successful in my business endeavors since leaving the military, so I'm financially affluent and love giving gifts to women who become special to me and make me feel good. I just hate it when providers seem to get apprehensive and have no idea that they're tossing in the rough a diamond of a man.

In addition to answering the question, if anyone knows of any sexy providers who might be open-minded and interested, please give me names so I can quit having to roll the dice.  

This is something that has entered my mind on a couple of occasions. The prospect of being with someone in a wheelchair or a similar situation. To be honest I would have no problem with it at all as long as you stated over the phone your situation, just so that I know beforehand and know what to expect.  It is my "job" to please you and to make our short time together as fabulous as possible. Im not there to judge you. Afterall, you are not your chair.  I see you as the person you are when Im with you.  As Im learning and growing in this business, Ive learned to look beyond the physicalities and to touch the person on the inside as well as out. As long as you are honest and kind I would love to roll around naked with you.  I might be a little shy and unsure at first since it would be something new to me, but thats where I think you would have to kind of take control a little bit, show me what to do.  I think most providers who are worth it (meaning well reviewed, compassionate) will not mind one bit.  If they do, then at least you know right away when you speak to them over the phone and who wants to be with someone like that anyway? I would definately like to have my wheelie cherry popped.  

Dear TWP,
I have seen 1 guy in wheel chair on several occassions. With my experience, he is pretty independent and strong willed. The sessions are no different than any other, with the exception of C.G. being the only position, and quiet as it is kept, sometimes C.G. is enough. When ths gentleman approached me, he emailed me and explained the situaton and I saw no problem with it. Yes to see the first time was a bit uneasy, which I think is perfectly natural.Yes, I wanted to play nursemaid and handle everything, but then I backed off, as not to take away his independence. He exercises everyday, lives, alone, and does plenty for himself. I had to remember that my showing up that day, wasn't his first day on the planet, and that he has his own routine. We had a great time. Honesty is the best policy. For every 1 not interested, there maybe 2 that would be honored you chose them.

Also, you may want to clue everyone in on the your whereabouts, so that they might point out some qualified ladies.

take care

Hi,
I and I know other providers have seen men that have handicaps. I say be honest.You want someone who has no bias. So being upfront will ensure you of having a great meeting.
Kisss
Dawn

Sounds interesting to me!

My incall is not wheelchair accessible.  I do have a friend or two who is in need of a walker, and other friends with different physical limitation... the only thing that concerns me is whether they will be able to manage the stairs, the increased risk of falling in my shower, etc.

I wish I had thought ahead to this when I got my space.  It sadens me to think that some of my friends will not be able to see me in the future when they would like to.

Look,
be upfront when you contact a lady.  If she doesn't want to see you due to your being in a wheelchair, she is not someone that YOU want to see.  Oh, and ask for incall at your space.

xoxo,
Sola

I'm in San Diego but I travel to Atlanta often.

CG is nice and pleasing for both parties, but I've gotten on top also (she needs strong legs and my arms need 100% strength--but it's great when it all works out).  I've also become great at oral and especially french kissing (an underrated art), as well as necking.

It is intimidating the first time, but the right two-wheeler can keep you coming back. Most women I talk to say that we're more passionate and better at tongue play than the average man. They also like the control during sex.

For an adventurous woman, getting her wheelie cherry popped is a rush (it's so freaky, it's a turn on)...especially if she's limber.

I was born with mild cerebal palsey ( i can walk )and i have been hobbing for over seven years.  I have probably seen over 25 providers and none of them have had a problem with my disability.  I usually let the provider know up front that i have a disability just so they are not taken totally by suprise. I have recently just discovered that i can handle more than CG.( im loving the fact that i can do doggie.   So find someone that you can get comfortable with and have FUN

RAY

As a provider and more importantly as a woman the only thing I can say is if you are upfront and honest with us most of us ladies have no problems dealing with disabilities. You indicated further down on posting that you are in San Diego and frequently Atlanta. I am in Knoxville TN and travel to both periodicaly if you ever would like to cooridinate trips I would love to see you.

The first time I entertained a wheelchair bound client was a few years ago. I knocked on the hotel room door, and the *cutest, most handsome* guy answered. He didn't tell me he was paralyzed before our date so I was a bit surprised. I walked in, asked some questions and proceded to have a fantastic time. Honestly, everything seemed so normal to me. I often wonder where he is now. He was quite the catch.

The second time I was intimate with a man in a wheelchair was in San Diego (was it you?!) was in my personal life. This man was almost a quadrapalegic, so he was much more limited in his movement than the first guy who was a parapelagic. Nonetheless, we had wonderful times together. One of the *best* orgasms I ever experienced was sitting on top of this guy's face. It was marvelous.

The father of my first real boyfriend has no legs and only a single arm. He stepped on a mine in Vietnam. When he returned the States, he was in a hospital for several months for various types of therapy. While he was there, he met a beautiful blonde nurse. They married, had two more sons besides my boyfriend, and have lively happily ever since. From watching him on a daily basis, I learned that *anything* is possible. There were times when I forgot he didn't have any legs.

I would have to agree with MsConduct,
Myself I would think an  honor to make you happy in any way regardless of any handicaps

SensualAthena

http://www.ohmarcella.com/kitten/athena.html

One of my ATF clients has MS and is in a wheelchair.  Wheelchairs don't bother me.  

Love, Bethany Sweet