...posters.  She may think that gives you some sort of 'cred' and it would rub off on her.

But I'll debunk my own theory  -- you don't appear on her profile as one of her reviewers.  Someone would have to click on your reviews in a post to find out you've been whitelisted by her.  Too much trouble to be worth a phony whitelisting.

OTOH, maybe you did see her but you're too fucking old and senile to remember, lol (MP told me to say that).

I remember GaG saying he was whitelisted by someone he simply met at a Meet & Greet.

As for Whitelists, the only reason I care is that the only whitelist I have is from  woman that I not only did not see, but would never see in a million fucking years. Way out of both my age and weight ranges. I don't do old, and I don't do fat, and I definitely don't do "old and fat" lmao.

Call it ego, or whatever you like, but "i never had sex with that woman" lol

If you really want the men to be reviewed, you are free to start your own board. This board is about men reviewing sexual providers, not the other way around.

OK, I never bothered to learn much about TER's Whitelist.  I had two whitelistings from top NY providers and it was nice but it never was a big deal in terms of screening.  My P411, Date-Check, TER reviews and membership on another site always worked fine and my TER whitelists weren't much of a factor.  So today I randomly clicked on my reviews because another was approved and I notice I have a new whitelist from a nice lady who calls herself Daire.  She's from Portland, Oregon.  Wonderful place.  But I've never met her, had a session with her, or have any clue as to why she's whitelisted me.
So, first of all, thanks, Daire, I went on your site and your pix are nice.  I'm sure it would be fun to get with ya.  But since we're nearly 3,000 miles away and I've never seen you, what's the value of having a whitelist from someone I've never had a session with?  What is the value of whitelisting?  Why should anyone give a shit about it???  But thanks anyway, dear.

Here's a few clues for you


Have you considered Daire confused you with someone else ?

Did you contact Daire before announcing your dilemma ?

Have you ever received a white listing without begging for it ?

Maybe you are as famous as you try to be ? LMAO

claim to other hobbyists that they saw me.  WTF...  

They weren't exactly my type (to put it nicely, lol) but I didn't say anything...
well not until this post.  

I guess I just took it as a form of flattery and complement and it wasn't that big of a deal.

I bet it was a mistake. Obviously a provider should not whitelist someone they have never seen. Just like guys should not write fake reviews. However, as wrong as it is to write a fake review, there is always an ulterior motive (ie free VIP) A provider has no motive for fake whitleisting someone. (especially someone 3000miles away). I would bet either someone has a similar handle to yours, and she mistakenly added the whitelist to yours, or someone is impersonating you and gave her your handle, which is even a bigger problem.

She has read so many of your posts (Inicky is the number one poster on TER by far.) that she subconsciously has assimilated you into her psyche.  Based on this, she had a dream of having had a session with you that was so realistic that she felt it really happened, and therefore decided to whitelist you.

Either that or she hit the wrong key.

Take your pick.

Why would a man care as to whether or not he's "whitelisted?" ...  In a word: EGO!

Perhaps someday gentlemen here will be subject to the same "review" (the good, bad and the ugly!) process as the ladies. That's when things will become truly interesting!!

Amy (formerly 185585)

I almost never check my whitelists and have never asked a provider to give me one.  I just stumbled across it while checking on my latest review and thought it was weird.
PS: Yes, I do have an ego.  Would you want to see someone who didn't?

I came to find out it is not all that uncommon. Though I admit I do not like the tought of someone being a reference for me that I have never met. Ladies do it for credibility. It is a marketing tool.  

In my opinion it is the level of a fake review and should not be allowed.

NCNS happens on both sides, and it's been discussed dozens if not hundreds of times here.

If you really think the reviews and whitelist systems here are worthless, why are you here? You have one experience with whitelist and you condemn the entire system.

My point remains, this is a site devoted to hobbyists sharing information about providers, if you would like to start your own site, it's a free country. Go right ahead.

are usually anything but. lmao

You are just another hooker that has been here all of forty five minutes and thinks she is an expert already.

You have admittedly only been doing this for a couple of months, my advice is to do more listening than talking until you actually learn the ropes around here.

....maybe she heard about you inicky...I know you are the talk of manhattan

Happy Holidays, sweetness.

paying the fee or collecting the fee..both parties have the right to have standards and should have the ability to discuss the details.  If people are posting false info perhaps whitelisting should be eliminated?!  It's all BS anyways because  we all know that anyone can come on here and say whatever the hell they want..

And for the record, my experience with whitelisting..- had a guy contact me twice to meet..he bragged about how many whitelist referrals he had here. The 6irst time he wanted to get together I was unavailable., the second time he asked for a specific day and time and I agreed.  He never got back to me even after following up with him.  That is not whitelist material as far as I'm concerned.  That's just plain inconsiderate of me and my time..and guess what..just because he's "paying me" doesn't give him the right to disregard me or my time. Period!

Read carefully Ga....( Friggen mouth full of a name,)

Some men are herel complaining that they've been whitelisted by women that they've never met..my point was that just because someone is whitelisted doesn't mean he suddenly becomes someone I want to know! I'm not impressed with the whole concept...it lacks substance.  As for reviews, I said nothing about them being worthess.  Let's not be dilusional here..people lie..whether via whitelist or reviews..you just never know! As for this site, it's not just for men, sorry!  Providers share quite a bit of info about the guys here don't kid yourself by thinking guys have all the power in this arena..they don't! Not by a long shot!
This is actually all so amusing to me,..  seeing what people choose to believe vs. reality...lucky for me, I'm insightgful and intelligent enough to not buy into the BS

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Wow. Name calling?!  "Hooker?" Well, my dear, whatever you want to call the ladies here, you are a lover of it..and nothing more.

Doesn't take long to see the obvious. you're arrogant and seem to get a rise out of trying to belittle people here.  Good luck with that

Interesting the PM's I'm getting about certain arrogant people... Don't want, or need to "learn the ropes" nor do I want your "advice" unlike you, I can come here, quickly browse, make a comment here and there then get on with my life.  Gotta love a hooker lover who tries to insult a lady by saying she's "just a hooker". LMAO..:hmmmm..I sense some major insecurities with the key board warrior! Thanks for the amusement..I do hope hope you got to enjoy a few moments of empowerment which is clearly why you come here and pay us "hookers". . Good night

You mean people WHO describe themselves....?

Aggie...you're right but he's a stud (in his own mind) and has to come here and refer to the ladies as
"just hookers"     Tell me, how is a hooker lover better than the hooker??   LOL   The dilusions of others are both scary and amusing!  Have a beautiful day all!

Damn, I wish I owned stock in rope makers...

?! Don't know who you are..orwhat the hell you're talking about...don't care, actually!  Make sure
when you get ahold of some rope, you make the nuse you slip around your neck real tight!  
LOL...(  they're crawling out of the woodork!)

you really have that much animosity???