Dealing with an odd situation. A few weeks ago, I made an appointment with a relatively young provider.  Not many reviews.  At the time of the booking she was hugely communicative.  Moreso than I have ever seen.  She was the one initiating all the discussion.  I was going to meet her on a business trip.  

Wouldn't it be a whole bunch easier to simply ask her?

But it could be any of a number of things, including good old BSC.

Because you and others here are a source of infinite wisdom, on all things hobbying.  

Been around for about two years, but only 5 reviews.

Did you send  her a "Dick Pic"?...Anyway, something went "chop,chop" along the way. Not sure what kinda conversation went on but she had second thoughts or maybe her puppy dies...who knows.
And by the way, just ask her "what's up", that's the best way to find out why she resurfaced.

When I am single, I am never lonely. I live a very active lifestyle.

"Loneliness is poverty of self...solitude is fullness of self." (Buddhist quotation)

Thanks for the theory.  But I don’t think it applies here.  Once I make a booking, I stop contact until reconfirmation.  I figure that providers have better things to do than deal with a bunch of time wasting banter.  

She sounds like she's still  
figuring things out.  

When they are in a relationship they are lonely? If I am dating someone I stay true to myself and I keep my life as is. Meaning I still do my thing and hang out with my friends. Relationships are supposed to be complimentary , not overshadowing or suffocating.

Yes, it is lonely and boring being a provider.  The only contact they have with others is a bunch of horny guys shoving envelopes full of cash in their faces.  Its enough to make them want to heave.  A few ladies have figured out how to minimize all of that "lonely" time by taking some of that vile, wretched cash and going shopping, having a spa day, a weekend trip, or just buying dinner for their favorite customer (as a provider unexpectedly did for me this past weekend).   So she may want to keep the lines of communication open with you because she has you pegged as one of those guys that's not going to try to push a bunch of filthy lucre on her.  You just want to talk.  My wisdom is not "infinite", but makes sense after reading your OP.  

My former ATF told me it could get lonely on the road when she was touring the country. More than once she invited me to stay over (OTC) after our dinner date was over.  Anyone who travels on business knows this feeling and just because you're intimate with a client, it isn't like they're company just stopping over to say hi and chat.

when you say she is "vulnerable."  She sounds closer to BSC to me.  I have seen over 600 providers and NOT ONCE has anyone shared this kind of personal information BEFORE ever meeting me in person.  Many have after becoming a regular.  That she is willing to engage on this level with a guy she knows nothing about is a bit unhinged.  You are right to distance yourself.  I wouldn't worry about being a jerk if you have to.  You have no investment with this woman since you have not even seen her yet.  Playing the jerk card may get her to stop "reaching out."  Don't fall into the trap of continuing the communication because a hot younger woman is paying some attention to you.   Its often a setup for a hustle of some kind.  

use the force. If it "feels odd" it's odd. You never met, right? Just try to talk you off the ledge, kind of. You seem like the type of guy to book her again and travel to her or waste your time responding to find out.

Massive age gap.  I could be her dad, so that rules out anything more than a business relationship, I would think.  Which I assume she fully gets.   Next time I travel to her city, I will consider whether or not to try again.   Not likely though.  My hobby windows are few and far between, so I avoid situations that could go flakey.  

The oldest GF I have had in the last twenty years or so was 14 years younger than me, most of my GF's in the last couple of decades have been at least 20 years younger than me and one was almost exactly 30 years younger.  

LOL.  She is borderline granddaughter territory too.  I know one thing.  You have more game than I have ever had.  Not afraid to admit that one.  

These last two posts are like having two versions of me on my two shoulders.   One screaming “stay away” like CDL is saying, and the other pushing me to give her a try.   Kind of like your last paragraph.  The CDL version of me is likely to win,  but a while back I went against my better judgement where every common sense notion said BSC, and I booked anyway.  She ended up busting up part of my hotel room, and chugging all my wine, but the sex was off the charts insane.   So you never know.  Interesting world we play in.  

Cool that you get on so well with the older guys.  Nice post.

and she too busted up the room, caused about $500 worth of damage and proved to be by far the most BSC woman I have ever met. When I say BSC I mean multiple instances of involuntary commitments to the loony bin, and a virtual duffle bag of antipsychotic meds that she was "supposed" to take every day, but she may have been the best lay I have ever had in my life and I have fucked literally thousands of women

I have since heard that a guy and her started partying in a session.  He passed out before they did anything, and she took off with his cash.  Don’t have a lot of sympathy for that guy.  He’s lucky she didn’t tie him up and take his clothes.  

No.  It was pointed out that the girl in OP could be BSC.  I responded by talking about meeting another lady who was BSC.  

Depends on the provider. I am always a little surprised when a provider talks about their husbands and families. They are obviously in full disclosure to those around them.  

It's odd that your questioning contacting a leather clad "BSC" hooker and an unknown hooker in the same thread. Either way, both of them seem like great girls.

I do remember her real name, but obviously I can't pass that info along. I am pretty sure she is no longer in the biz, most likely she is back in the loony bin.

the worse for me is missing my pets when I stay out of town overnight more than 2 days.  I don't think about them until the day is done. On my way home will stop to get them first if I boarded them.  Poor babies grieve too, even though they know the drill.  They always forget the part that I will come back to get them.  It is horribly sad for me to leave them.  I am never lonely at home, even when I am alone.  I have learned to love my time with myself.  And when I take it, it is not wasted time but actually allowing ideas to flow

what is BSC ?

Bat-Shit-Crazy

petroleum-based.  Too much of it CAN make her BSC.  

she is really nervous and just trying to get to know you
maybe she was a SB and now a new provider

multitude of reasons

95% of my life is not in any way connected to my life beyond the veil. That has changed over time though for a plethora of reasons. When I was providing in the US and I was away from my family etc I had 2 very close friends (both providers - now retired who I am still in touch with). We trusted each other implicitly, met each other’s families (none of whom knew at the time) and had emergency plans god forbid anything happen to any of us. I hold these women very close to my heart (up there with family) and truly cherish the friendship we have endurered. Other friends in the US eventually found out what I did (I was outed) and as I disclosed in another post they hated the outing more than they hated what I did so they stayed (and remain) friends also. I think I was very lucky because I could have so easily become isolated
Being away from home - as we all know, this life doesn’t lend itself well to public acceptance so it’s eash to feel a need to hide or walk the path alone.  I think it’s incredibly important to have interests away from this life to keep you balanced and feeling as though you belong to a commmnuty in some shape or form outside of this one...
These days, as I have said, such a small amount of my life is spent providing that it’s not an issue at all. I have a very full life that I thoroughly enjoy x

It can be a super lonely life... especially if you are independent as most providers are; we are all very busy and often travel a lot so it's hard to connect and meet up. And some providers don't like being friends with other providers because they see them as 'competition' (which is something I disagree with and I think is very unhealthy!)

It's hard to say. The biggest thing I've learned in this industry is that everyone is different and sees things in their own unique way. And that people are always changing, growing and adapting. How we feel about something one day might be different than how we feel the next. And certain people, places and situations influence our outlook and emotions. So I would say until you know more, try not to make any assumptions. I'm sure she wouldn't mind if you reached out and expressed interest. Who knows? Maybe your date will be incredible and maybe she'll flake. You'll never know until you try. xx

I dig this response. Sounds like she thinks you're a decent guy from what she gathers. It's a fucked up deal, but sometimes a person can read between the lines and appreciate what and why they're here. I say give her another chance. Especially if you find her appealing and intriguing. Weirder things have happened...

Maybe she does not, like her job